When you fall in love, is it true that the person who takes the initiative first lives in embarrassm

I don't think so, but who has the deepest affection and who is the most alive and embarrassed.

I think that the person who takes the initiative takes the lead again, and it should not be a messy life, maybe many people think that they should be passive when they are in love, so that they will be selective, after all, they are too active when they are in love, and it will make people feel that this person is very low. In fact, when you are in love, as long as you think that the other party is someone worthy of love, you should be brave enough to pursue it, and you should take the initiative without any reservations.

Generally speaking, when falling in love, the person who takes the initiative first may lose the initiative in love.

It should be, isn't there a lyric that "the favored person has no fear", the person who takes the initiative first is the person who loves each other more, in this love, he has lost the opportunity, because of love so spoiling each other, because of love so tolerating everything about the other party, it must be harder, but if the other party also loves himself the same, what if he is wronged, love is mutual, a little more and a little less is not a big deal!

No, my ex-boyfriend took the initiative to chase me, but then I couldn't let go, and the person who took the initiative was emotional first, and he also accepted it first.

Most of the time, once you start to think about whether the initiative will lead to good results, it is a sign that your initiative will not lead to good results. It is in daily contact that you do not get the response you expected for your concern about the other person. And the initiative that will have results is up and down.

Every step you take, you can feel the feedback from the other person. Many people have a misunderstanding of initiative. Their initiative is morally self-motivated, and they seek a response from the other party by constantly taking the initiative.

I look forward to it, as long as I am sincere enough and hard enough, I will definitely be able to move the other party. I think that I am caring, pleasing and satisfying each other by asking for warmth, eating, drinking, and buying gifts, but in fact, all this is nothing more than satisfying myself. Even after a series of active serial attacks, some people will begin to resent each other, feeling that the other party is blind and cannot see their own efforts.

But you are willing to pay, why should the other party meet your self-needs, why should you fulfill your self-touch, not to mention that you may also bring trouble to the other party. If there is no good result in taking the initiative, as long as you are sensible and calm down and ask yourself, and don't deceive yourself by chance, most of you know the result in your heart.

Many people can't grasp the "degree" of initiative. I'll take this question from the perspective of a girl, it can be said that it is a strategy to chase men. To have a good impression of someone who has not yet become a friend, the initiative is to become friends with him, to get to know him, to create topics, and to find common ground.

In this process, you will be able to find out if you are suitable and grasp whether you can proceed to the next stage according to his attitude. After becoming friends, the initiative is to chat every day and make an appointment for dinner once a week. If you can meet often, face-to-face chatting can warm up your relationship more quickly than chatting across screens.

At this time, you must be able to feel his attitude towards you, whether he cares about you, whether he is willing to give time for you, and whether he is happy when chatting with you. If he is tepid, don't lie to yourself, rushing to make it true will really reduce the weight of your heart. After being friends for a while, taking the initiative is to give some hints.

Why am I still single, look at that couple, I really want to drink the milk tea that the boy bought for the girl, my roommate and friend laughed at me for not being able to get married, etc. But don't be too hasty with hints, the more impatient you are, the more likely he is to run away, or at least you will feel like he is running away. At this time, he is interested in you, and you must be able to feel it.

It's just my personal approach.

No, I think a relationship must have one person take the initiative to get by, if two people don't take the initiative, the relationship will end sooner or later, and the one who lives the most embarrassed must be the one who pays the most.

I don't think so. In the relationship, it is the party who pays more, not the one who moves the emotion first.

Not necessarily, for example, my ex, he took the initiative to pursue me, and he was also very active when it came to falling in love. But then we broke up, and I felt like I was the one who was embarrassed.

Is affection a contest? You have to win or lose. I think there is some truth to who takes the initiative and who gets hurt, but not absolutely.

There is a saying that is very well, the reason why there is too much unequal love is that one person thinks that this is the destination, while the other person thinks that the scenery in front may be better, and wants to see it again.

Good things need to be fought for, delicious and cheap restaurants still need to queue up, really beloved, why can't you take the initiative? But I think that since I choose to take the initiative, I must dare to love and hate, be generous, afford it, and let it go!

The probability of taking the initiative in exchange for a good result is not high, at least not high enough to prevent the emergence of the question "why don't boys chase girls nowadays". Not to mention the group of mountain giants who ridiculed loudly, people with a little self-esteem think, why bother, even if they fail, they will be ridiculed. And to be hung up and say that emotional intelligence is low or something.

Everyone who takes the initiative is like a candidate who enters the examination room. He may not even know how difficult the test he is going to take now, or how demanding the school he is going to apply to. Because unlike general exams, many people who take the initiative only take the initiative when they are not rich in emotional experience.

That is, I don't have any experience in revision, and I don't even have a textbook. I wrote the volume like this, and I found that I was a lot wrong. After coming out, the examiner said, do you still come to the test with such a low IQ?

Silly you? But the people who took the initiative didn't know at the beginning that this exam should be answered like this and what kind of preparation should be made. It is very normal that there are no good results.

Those who have good results are really very lucky.

I've always been an active person, and even if the person I like doesn't like me, I never blame him. Everybody talks at length. In fact, no amount of theory is useless when a person actually appears.

What kind of result do you think is a good result, and it must be two people together to be a good result. I think as long as you don't regret it, after a long time, if one day, you meet, you won't regret not taking the initiative. What's wrong with the initiative, I didn't steal or rob, I like a person, I try to chase him, what's wrong.

I know the result is important, but after a long time you will realize that it is actually great to be brave with yourself, more amazing than who you have.

People who take the initiative tend to feel more vulnerable, nervous, etc., because of the risk of rejection. This can easily trigger feelings of anxiety. But whether this emotional result is tragic or not really doesn't matter.

Personally, I think as long as I feel right, active and inactive, he will really like you. What kind of person are you, he still likes you. If you say you're because of some minor problem, it's not enough to just like you.

It's not a bad thing for girls to take the initiative when they fall in love. What if your boyfriend is wood? If he doesn't take the initiative, he won't take the initiative.

If you pretend to be reserved and not proactive, then what kind of love are you talking about? Correct, so whether you take the initiative or not depends on your personal situation. I still think that as long as two people feel suitable together, there is no need to care too much, and there is no need to wronged yourself for others.

I don't think so. I don't think there are winners and losers in love. If love wins or loses, how should this be defined?

It is the loser who hurts deeply, and it hurts the winner? But there are also a lot of feelings, and in the end both sides lose. So who wins and who loses?

But can this be what we want? If everything is calculated so accurately, is it still love? Love is fascinating because it is elusive, incomprehensible, and cannot be inferred by common sense.

Even if we tell ourselves intellectually not to be the one who takes the initiative, emotions will eventually overwhelm reason, and you will still give it wholeheartedly. Because, when love comes, everything is not as important as each other's joys and sorrows.

My first love. I feel that in this relationship, I am worthy of my heart. has an explanation for himself, and he has nothing to regret.

Like Rachel Momo said, I don't have to see you, so take care of yourself. I cherish everything in the past, but buried in my heart and I will never mention it again. In the future, we should go our own way.

I have nothing to do with future happiness and unhappiness. Therefore, I don't agree to care about who takes the initiative in love, who doesn't take the initiative, and who pays more. If you settle all these things, think it through, and then decide what you want to do, it's not love, it's a deal.

The end result is not particularly good, if you take too much initiative with one person, it will make the other person tired of it, and eventually come to an end.

This kind of person who is too active will generally love deeply, so in the end, it is usually the one who is hurt the most.

In the end, it will not be cherished by the other party, and it is likely to lead to all your own efforts, all of which will be wasted, and it is possible that you will reap your own happiness, which are two situations.

Generally, people who are too active in love will have a more tragic end result, and people who are too active will be the most hurt in the end.