I feel so helpless, I really don t know where I m going tomorrow

Take a walk and let go of yourself first.

Maybe when everyone advises you to "set yourself a big goal", you feel that the goal is too far away, and you start to slack off before you start to run forward, but what if the goal to be achieved is divided into several small goals? For example, I want to start a company, but I don't have start-up capital, then my goal this year is to find a job with a good salary, and then go to a part-time job, [provided that you need to have a certain ability, not a black eye, two hands, except for a fairly ready-made young master, the eldest lady will not do anything] and then make a plan for all your income, save your own expenses, don't buy it if you don't need to, this is not to wronged yourself But the reality is so, because you don't have enough foundation to support you towards your goal, You can only realize your dreams through the initial hard work, but if you set a small goal for yourself every year, such as saving money, such as learning a foreign language, and then learning a technology, I think as long as you can persevere, needless to say, there will definitely be a small achievement in a few years, when there is no pie in the sky, sit and wait, lie down and sigh, it can only be that your life is getting more and more boring, and in the end there is nothing, and you always think that God is unfair to you, complaining about the sky.

Find a book you like, if there are no elders who can guide the way, when you are confused, you can quietly talk to your heart, what you want to do, why, you have to break through the confusion to go faster and better than those who have not experienced the confusion.

It seems that you, like me, have been really confused lately, I often want to turn back time, and sometimes I am really helpless, I don't know what I want, I don't know what I should do. But such confusion, such sinking, and such escape are really useless, no matter what, in the end, you have to face the reality yourself. So you have to come out of it quickly, don't go on like this, set a new goal for yourself, and you will definitely get better.

I'm a sophomore at the beginning of school, but I feel like I'm older than you I'm 87 years old, I failed the college entrance examination in '06, and then I found a place to work, and in the summer of '06 to '08, in the past year and a half, I worked as a small worker in the construction team and sold cool skin. I worked at an oil depot and sold eggs,,, I chose to repeat my studies in the summer of '08, and in '09 I was admitted to China University of Geosciences (Beijing) with a score of 607. Now I understand that in school, there is no use in doing anything but learning more.

Only what you have learned is the most useful. Some people say that in school, participating in this club, that association can increase one's social experience. I said it didn't work.

Just study in college, and learn as much as you can. Social experience, when you get to the society, you will naturally understand, perhaps, some people say that it will be too late. I can tell you, it's not too late.

I studied surveying and mapping engineering, but I was also self-taught in accounting to prepare for an accounting certificate or something. It's a hundred times better than playing games with your classmates in the dormitory. It's okay to find a girlfriend, but don't spend the time you should spend studying on.

You're only a sophomore, so you have a lot to do. Don't get lost. Level 4 or 6 certificates, computer certificates, Mandarin certificates, and a bunch of certificates are waiting for us to take the test.

I have nothing to do in the summer vacation to learn to drive, work a small job to earn some money, have any hobbies, and I can go to study during holidays and weekends. Dance, musical instruments, martial arts, etc. You will find it very fulfilling.

Will you graduate directly into employment or graduate school? Now it's time to think about it and get ready. If you work, it will be very rewarding to practice it in your spare time. Hehe.

I usually go to the library or tutor in the evening, and on the weekends I go dancing and playing with friends, which is quite fulfilling

Don't rush, take your time, take a step at a time.

I wish you a quick way out of the confusion o o

I'm also a sophomore, and I lied to the people to run college students, shook hands, and was confused. . . All Chinese college students are confused.

Don't position high, find a job to do first, many Chinese college students will find their position after being in society for many years.

I feel confused, in fact, our whole school is confused, some were sent to the factory by the school, some rushed home early to find a job, very sad, we students who reported the wrong university, can never turn back, so, to correct the mentality, lose at the starting point, don't lose at the end, how can you meet you, only you can grasp your destiny, you are lazy, you will be poor in the future, you are diligent, you will be good in the future, of course, there is no guarantee that you will be rich if you are diligent, because we are in China, hehehe.

It seems that we have all experienced the confused sophomore year, first position, find a good direction, and then work hard.

I don't know if you've seen what exactly you studied in college, if not, I suggest you take a look, I feel a lot, and recommend it.

Maybe you are really confused, but for some people who have not continued to study, holding a low diploma but have a belly of dreams that cannot be realized, they are even more confused, I think you should cherish the current campus life, you can do odd jobs, accumulate social experience, and try to take the certificate as much as possible. It's good to have a certificate in your body.

Listen to a lecture on how to run a life without regrets.

Maybe it's not that they don't see it, maybe they love you by silently paying attention to you. You're not useless, just like no one is perfect, you have your own sparkle, it's just a fascination with the authorities, maybe someone else has memorized your sparkle in the brain. As I see, you are a child who cares about other people's thoughts, not self-centered life, and cares about others, this is the shining point, you are not useless.

Everyone is trying, so of course your efforts are not obvious, how can others see it? If you don't work hard one day, others will be able to see it? But that's when you're really good for nothing.

I am born to be useful, how do I do, why do I have to be seen by others, I have worked hard, I have struggled, I just know it, you are you, unique, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, be the best yourself, why do you have to do it for others to see.

If you look at it, the whole of China is almost a good-for-nothing person. So don't be nervous, the effort will shine one day.

You just do what you do and do it well, don't worry about what others see or don't see. Someday, someone else will see it.

If you listen to these people, I will give you the result, and you will have nothing.

You have to believe that you can do it, and you don't even believe that you can do it, how can others find out that you can do it!!

Do what you want. It doesn't matter what others think. Someday someone will look at you differently.

Think about what you're trying for. If it's just for others to see, I'll recommend you the word "pretending to be forced".

What's wrong? I want to open up and live happily.

Be your own unique style and don't care what others think of you.

Do things in a high-profile manner and be a low-key person.

Kill a few more people, and the whole country will know.

Since you have worked hard, you must have encountered setbacks, have you ever given up? Since you have worked hard, you can't give up, and there will be a day when you succeed

Don't be envious and jealous of others, it seems that happiness is not necessarily happy, and what looks unhappy is not necessarily unhappy, the main thing is your own mentality, calm down, continue to work hard, miracles and some names are persistence

If you feel helpless, don't ask others for help and become self-reliant.

The gap of desire is impossible to fill, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and everyone has their own troubles, but there is no way to see everything in this society like this

Ignoring it,,, having fun is everything.

There will always be a period of confusion in a person's life, during which you should look for a goal, or set a goal to achieve slowly, but this goal should not be too ambitious, start with a small goal, and slowly become bigger

Why do you stay at home for half a year?

1: Work hard, keep looking for things to do, don't let yourself sit still, life is still very fulfilling.

2: Go to parties, sing K, play, but don't go alone, life is still very exciting.

3: Get up early every morning and go out for a run or walk, life is still very good.

4: When you're tired for the day, take a shower, watch a movie, and sleep.

Tomorrow continues, and when you think of her again in a month, you will find that all this has been arranged by God a long time ago. After two and a half years, you may find that there is something better waiting for you (because you are too hardworking, this man is good). The former she is buried in your heart and becomes a memory to talk about.

The more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, you just go by your own memory, if, sometimes your heart is very boring, I want to vent, but I can't find anyone, you can find a pen, write on paper, don't need any style, write by your own memory, it's messy and it doesn't matter, it will be better after writing.

Try to find something to enrich yourself, you should often participate in friends gatherings, work hard when you work, and find something you are interested in to do when you are free, so that you will feel that the day passes quickly, and gradually you will find that every day is very fulfilling.

Enrich yourself and your life to the fullest; Prices are soaring so fast, and urban life has become difficult, and if you don't hurry up to improve yourself and be self-reliant, I'm afraid that you will be pale and powerless to look for it again. Don't let others look down on you because you are a man.

Ay. This is usually the feeling after a breakup. It will fade over time. If you're feeling lonely, find an island that's better than the previous one to settle down and rest. ~

Walk around, party, go outing, come here to help others with their troubles...

If you are out and about, it will be easier to make new good karma.

Have fun!

When lovers break up, how can they add up to bad words? This woman is really rare, and she is cruel.

For such a woman, it may be your luck to lose her, why don't you understand this? And to do such an unproductive move?

。。。Are you a man Take feelings so seriously Women will die and live for the sake of their feelings If you are a man, be more energetic and confident Don't chase after your ex-girlfriend all day long.

Be yourself, and if you really love him, keep doing what you want to do, but don't think about what you will get back, because you will get what you want.

Don't give up the whole forest for a tree, you have to learn to find the reason, and then ask for it, sometimes there are things that even the cheeky ones want. And then learn to give up. Brother, don't commit suicide for the sake of a woman. If you want to prove yourself, you have to earn it back on your own.