I m 17 years old, but I get nervous when I talk to girls, and sometimes I blush, what should I do?

You're so introverted!

What were you thinking when you were with a girl? What would you think of you?

When you can get up with girls, you can make yourself think that you are with boys, and have more contact with girls, but girls are not scary, so be happy and make friends with them!

It's not really a problem, it's my first question: What are you thinking?

Don't overthink it! Your age is full of vitality, which is really enviable! 17. There should be no worries!

Note: I'm 12!Learn more from me!

Try to avoid the girl's eyes and talk to the girl slowly. I don't know what to tell you. Because in real life, there seems to be no boy who doesn't dare to talk to a girl.

As long as you're brave. For the first time. When you see a girl, say hello to her first.

Then. Give yourself some courage. It works.

You are a young man who is just beginning to fall in love, and young people who are just beginning to fall in love are like this.

It's normal to not be able to say what you think in your heart, and your ability to express yourself is low. At the age of 18, the initial adulthood, the physiological performance is very normal, it is normal to want to have a girlfriend, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, or to study, don't miss the meaning of life.

This is when you are upright and youthful, and of course you will have these reactions, which is normal and there is no need to worry.

You lack a communication with the opposite sex, you don't have to be nervous, you can try to contact the opposite sex first, communicate with her, exercise, and this situation will not occur again in the future.

These phenomena are very normal for you, because you have just come into contact with the opposite sex, like this, such a young child, if you are so calm, then what is it, people in their 30s, have seen a lot of girls, and have been in love a lot, so it is too difficult to deal with.

This is normal, adolescent boys are like this, at a few years older, it would be good to see more.

It's a natural manifestation, it's a normal thing.

At the age of 18, it is the time when the love is first opened, and I want to be close in front of the opposite sex, and I am very nervous inside, so it is normal to be a little introverted, if a beautiful girl takes the initiative to kiss you, you will not be able to hold back the most normal.

This is a natural physiological reaction of the human body, which is a normal situation, most introverts are not good at communicating with others, and when they have nothing to do, they can read more books and enrich their language.

This is normal, because you are already an adult at the age of 18, and all aspects of your body have matured, so there will be normal physiological reactions, which is normal and has nothing to do with introversion, introverted personality is just a person's personality developed in the process of growing up, because of congenital or acquired personality.

This is normal, kissing and hugging is a manifestation of love, you don't have to be nervous, love is something that two people need to achieve each other, I wish you happiness.

In general, 18-year-old boys are already mature. When a girl is teasing you or kissing you. You won't be able to bear it, which means that your body is normal.

You have physiological needs. You can't stand it. Explain that you need it very much.

It's a normal thing for a man.

1.Evaluate yourself correctly. Some introverts are lonely and self-proclaiming; Some introverts have blind inferiority, always think that others look down on them, and dare not take the initiative to interact with others in order to maintain their self-esteem.

The former should learn to respect others, and the latter should be self-confident. In short, you should evaluate yourself correctly, face up to your own strengths and weaknesses, face up to the strengths and weaknesses of others, and get along with others on an equal footing.

2.Learn to pour out your thoughts and feelings. Introverts often suppress negative emotions such as dissatisfaction, pain, trouble, and anxiety in their hearts, making it difficult to resolve psychological conflicts for a long time, which may not only seriously damage physical and mental health, but also further deepen the degree of introversion.

So don't be always depressed, depressed, and take all of them"Mind"Closed in"Ego"among them. Learn to confide your true emotions to your loved ones or friends, so that your personality will gradually become cheerful and outgoing.

3.Actively participate in various group activities. The introverted personality is related to the environment, it can be formed in the environment, and it can also change in the environment.

If an introvert can take the initiative to participate in various group activities, it is best to take on the role of organizer in the class or group, so as to increase the interaction with classmates, and the introvert's personality will change under the influence of the environment.

4.Learn to get along with others and be good at reading words and feelings. Observe other people's preferences and behaviors, and understand what topics they are most interested in, so that you can interact with people to their liking, and make people feel that you are easy to approach and become friends.

5.Develop a wide range of hobbies. A wide range of interests will cause people to pour out mental activities into activities and reduce excessive attention to the self; It will also make people's bad emotions be well vented and transferred in interest activities; Interest is like a twist that connects people with common interests, which leads to greater interpersonal rapport.

Then deal with girls more and overcome psychological barriers.

Well.. Let's go through it at school. Talk to the people around you more at the same table To be honest, girls nowadays like cute little boys like you the most, so your womanhood should be good, just be familiar with it.

Give 10086 more hits**, free of charge. It would be nice to talk about it. And don't think about some messy things in your head when talking to others.

It's good to go out and contact people more, knowing that you will take the initiative to talk to girls next time, and others won't talk about you.

Hello subject!

You may often feel nervous and blushing because you don't control your emotions and thoughts, feel shy, etc.

You might as well take a closer look, when you are nervous or blushing, what comes to mind? Is it uncertainty, lack of confidence in yourself, or does you feel vulnerable to being spied on or what? Try to ask yourself or talk to yourself openly and see what you can find.

Maybe you can try to do relaxation exercises in a quiet and safe environment, or take a deep breath when you are nervous, so that you can calm down as soon as possible, and tell yourself what your emotions are.

However, if this kind of nervousness and blush has affected your life and work, it means that you have formed long-term habits and patterns, and it may be difficult for you to improve these conditions immediately, and the most effective way is to do psychological counseling. Best wishes