My girlfriend said today that she broke up with me, but I felt uncomfortable but couldn t cry

Updated on psychology 2024-07-21
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Enrich yourself first, I think she should have a comparison in her heart, didn't you say before, he told you who got married, the bride price, the child or something. I guess I've seen too much and my thoughts have changed. This is normal, and I think you should be glad that she was a good girl and changed her mind before she got married.

    This will also help you grow. You may not have given him enough security, but how many rich boys are there who are just struggling? Therefore, why don't you fall in love for the time being, and accumulate funds well, so that your waist will be straighter when you fall in love.

    Otherwise, find a good girl who is willing to work with you, cheer you up in the back, give advice, encourage you when you hit a wall, encourage you when you are discouraged, and never give up, only such a girl is worth waiting for for you for a lifetime.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    She mentioned that someone else would get married or something, maybe the purpose was to get you to propose to her.

    You've been to his house 3 times, so why don't you know his family situation?

    Believe it or not, it's all intuitive.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sometimes, a relationship is stifled for various reasons, in fact, you have really realized the problem between you, the two of you are talking seriously, if he is still willing to talk, it means that she also cares about you, sometimes the truth is not heard, but saying it can solve a lot of problems! Think about it yourself! Hee-hee!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It should be family disapproval, or financial problems.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends. But I think as a boy, you should have some sense of responsibility, since you and he are boyfriend and girlfriend, you can't choose to break up because of her little problem, which is not only a manifestation of irresponsibility, but also will cause your girlfriend's inner hurt. So I think it's still a matter of thinking twice before making a decision.

    If your girlfriend is crying because of something touching, I don't think it's a bad thing. For example, when you see some touching clips in movies and TV series, you can't help but cry. A lot of people in the whole body can, and so will I.

    Maybe you won't, but that doesn't mean it's wrong to shed tears. This just shows that she is a girl who is sensitive, emotional, and easily moved. You should cherish her more than think about leaving her.

    If she cries because of a quarrel with you, it also means that she likes you, she is very attentive to you, otherwise she would not cry because of your quarrel. If she doesn't like you, even if she quarrels with you, she won't cry so easily, because tears are precious to people who don't care. But as long as he cares about you and quarrels with you, she will feel very hurt and unwilling to quarrel with you, but because of the emotions at the time, she can't control herself, and in this complex emotion, it is easier to cry.

    So if that's the case, you should cherish her even more.

    Another is that when she encounters something that doesn't go her way, or something that doesn't suit her, she will cry. I think this kind of situation means that she is a little child who has not grown up, very immature, or has some princess diseases, and needs others to obey him, otherwise she will feel very wronged. If that's the case, I don't think you should follow her too much and let him know how to get along with each other.

    Teach her to grow.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think so, because a crying woman should be more beautiful than usual. But if your girlfriend is ugly, I'd recommend breaking up. Because it's better not to have an ugly girlfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you don't know whether to break up or not, you can think about whether you are more happy or annoying when you are together. If it is the first case, it is recommended that the two parties communicate face-to-face before considering whether to break up; If it's the second type, it proves that you don't love your girlfriend very much, when you don't love someone, you don't like what the other party does, think about whether you think she is all right when you first pursued her, and now you feel annoyed, if so, let her go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your girlfriend may be the kind of person who is more sentimental, and it may not be necessary to break up on this issue, no one is perfect, if you have feelings for her, think about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't like this kind of girl, then you can break up. Because if you don't break up, you still can't get used to him crying at every turn. In this way, it actually affects the development of the relationship between the two of you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Some girls are very sensitive, you can first ask what the reason for crying is, and then communicate well with the woman and express your feelings, if you can achieve a step back, you can continue to deal with.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Although you and your girlfriend have broken up, I think she actually has you in her heart. He still loves you, otherwise he wouldn't have cried all the time when he was you.

    As soon as he cried, it was on the surface, he actually missed you very much, and wanted to get back together with you very much, but he was a girl. It's not good to take the initiative to tell you, in fact, his crying shows that he has been greatly wronged. He wants you to coax her more, care more about her, and then you don't do anything, she just means.

    I was very aggrieved and sad.

    Although you and your girlfriend have broken up, I think she actually has you in her heart. He still loves you, otherwise he wouldn't have cried all the time when he was you. As soon as he cried, it was on the surface, he actually missed you very much, and wanted to get back together with you very much, but he was a girl.

    It's not good to take the initiative to tell you, in fact, his crying shows that he has been greatly wronged. He wants you to coax her more, care more about her, and then you don't do anything, she just means. I was very aggrieved and sad.

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