My husband s personality has changed greatly after he is drunk, can I still have such a marriage?

Such a marriage is not to be wanted, alcoholism.

of men are addicted to alcohol and can't break the habit of drinking. This kind of man may kneel down and admit his mistake after sobering up, but when he is drunk, he will vent the depression in his heart, he may beat his wife and children, or he may drop furniture and make a mess of the whole house.

After marriage, the man must take responsibility for the care of the family and not bring the old bad habits into the new family. Because your wife is someone who will accompany you for a lifetime, you must treat your wife well and don't let your wife take responsibility for the mistakes you make. It's as if a habit like alcohol abuse is completely undesirable and disgusting.

Alcoholism hurts both the body and the emotions of others, and can make your wife particularly unhappy. Your wife may persuade you once, twice, or even three times, and when the fourth time comes, she will be unbearable with your performance and file for divorce, so that you can become a middle-aged divorced man and live a lonely life again. Because the other person is a mentally sound person, he will not tolerate your big shortcomings at all, and you will never repent.

If a man doesn't want to divorce and wants to continue living with his wife, he must make a guarantee to get rid of his bad habit of drinking. You can have dinner with your colleagues after work, but you can't drink alcohol, and even if you do, you should pay attention to the amount of alcohol, and you can't get drunk like mud. You can also tell your wife that if you drink too much again, you will divorce immediately, and you will not be entangled again.

This will make your wife change her mind about you again, and it will also give you another chance, after all, it is not easy for two people to walk together, and the other party does not want to tear up the face, so that the two people are particularly fierce. If you still drink, the marriage will not be able to run at all and will eventually fall apart.

As long as the marriage is passable, many women will not file for divorce unless they reach the first step of tolerability. Men must manage their marriage well and don't do some very excessive actions.

Of course, you can't ask for it anymore, if your husband likes to drink heavily for a long time, and you still don't change the problem after mentioning it to him, then there is no need to continue.

If he hits and scolds you after drinking, but insults you and acts violently against you, then you can't be with the other person because his behavior may cause domestic violence against you.

This kind of marriage has completely gone wrong, and the other party has already committed domestic violence against you, such a husband is very terrible, and you must divorce as soon as possible.

In the end, everyone is different after drinking, once you find that your husband always beats herself after drinking, then you must choose to divorce immediately, don't be soft-hearted, this kind of person can't be changed.

Personally, I suggest that such a husband should not be wanted. Because every time he gets drunk, he goes crazy. There is a risk that you will be beaten up, so it is advisable to divorce him.

Personally, I don't think this kind of cargo is okay to ask for, because he has a big personality after drinking, and he is no longer the person you loved before, so there is no need to continue.

Marriage needs to be managed, you can communicate with your husband, if you really can't change it, then there is no need to develop.

Divorce is personally recommended.

Maybe ordinary people should be persuaded to leave or not, but I think persuasion and dissuasion must also depend on the situation.

First of all, you said that your husband is always an alcoholic, which means that it is frequent. If it's just occasional, or if it's a normal drink in moderation, maybe it's better, and maybe you can get by.

After drinking, he has to hit someone and throw things, this behavior is very bad, although it is drunk and beating, but in essence it is no different from ordinary domestic violence. If the family is not a harbor of happiness, but a hell of pain, then I think everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, what responsibilities and children, if it is in such a family, what responsibilities are there to talk about, how to fulfill their responsibilities, about children, if children often live in such an environment, I think from the perspective of a child from a divorced family, it is more painful than living as a single parent.

Personally, I suggest that he can quit drinking, or restraint, but I think this is difficult, alcoholism is the same as drug abuse, the brain will secrete a hormone that is addictive, and habits are the most difficult thing to change, so it is good to be able to change, but if you can't change it, I don't recommend you to live like this for the rest of your life. It is not advisable for you to ruin your whole life like this.

You can go with the flow, take some time, let his parents and children be present, be at home, in your free time, cook a few more dishes, buy some old wine, let him drink well, and as for the words, you can watch and say it yourself.

Hide the sake and slowly correct this bad habit, but it is very difficult, so you have to think more about yourself.

1 Knowing is reasonable, moving is emotional.

2 Curses. Add up the sticks, and let the hopeless, each fly to his own

Is it bad to be drunk, some people hit people when they are drunk.

Legal analysis: Suing for divorce requires the plaintiff's ID card, marriage certificate, and evidence that the defendant regularly drinks alcohol.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.