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In marriage, some outstanding shortcomings of the other half can almost always be found.
Whether or not to accept it is the premise of whether the marriage can develop well, and the premise of acceptance is whether this shortcoming will lead to harm and whether it can be changed.
So, to solve this problem, on the premise of not getting a divorce, see if you can change the man? Can this deficiency be tolerated?
If you decide to divorce, you should consider the follow-up issues, such as the raising of the children and whether the man is entangled, ......
The premise of change
Any person under the influence of alcohol may have some irrational behavior.
The drunken mantra is a channel to vent stress and inner negativity.
Whether or not such behavior deserves to be tolerated depends primarily on whether he habitually behaves in a way that harms those around him and his wife.
Hurtful words can sometimes be difficult to avoid after drinking, because of too much inner repression, drunken emotional outbursts, and hurtful behaviors are caused by some of their own character defects, such as psychological shadows or low awareness of the bottom line of morality.
The former can be slowly reduced through communication and understanding, while the latter requires more professional psychological counseling or even**.
First of all, it is better to judge that if you can change, try to help the other person change in the marriage.
Inclusiveness
In marriage, there is often a large gap between our expectations and reality.
We like to attribute external conditions to the closest partner.
At this time, the shortcomings of the other party will be magnified again.
If the shortcomings cannot be changed in the short term, first ask yourself if you can tolerate them, and think about whether the other person is trying to support the family, whether it is in terms of money or labor.
Regarding drunken madness, some specific indicators are easier to judge.
Is drunkenness a regular thing or an occasional thing?
Is drunkenness mostly due to work or play?
Can the topic of drunkenness be discussed in person, and is there an evasive or indifferent apology?
Communication
Regardless of the final conclusion, communication is necessary.
In many marriages, both parties are under great psychological pressure, often because both parties are unable to communicate.
Some of the pressures that need to be shared by both parties are taken unilaterally, and when the result is not good, the other party does not understand.
If the cycle is repeated, it will lead to boredom on both sides.
In general, it is necessary to judge whether the shortcoming is long-term and harmful, confirm the judgment in the case of communication, and finally make a decision.
If you don't leave, you help the man correct and insist on communication.
Leave, make follow-up plans and don't entangle.
The key to this problem is to give priority to solving the doubts that you want to leave.
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Men should be educated so that they understand themselves, and they should be made aware of the disadvantages of drunkenness, and at the same time solve them in their own way.
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If you have been pregnant for several months, and now your husband is often drunk and crazy, for this situation, it is better to communicate well between husband and wife, after all, you are pregnant, don't choose to divorce easily, or communicate well with your husband, if the other party refuses to change, you can choose to divorce him.
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In the face of this situation, directly have a showdown with the other party, if you can't change this behavior, then you can divorce directly, and the child can also consider not, it is possible that the other party just thinks that you are pregnant and believes that you will not leave her. If this kind of problem can't be completely changed at this time, then you won't be happy in the future, and sooner or later you will have to leave, so it's better to be ruthless and make a decision now.
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Hello, your husband has been drinking crazy during pregnancy and wants to divorce, if you really don't want to live with him, you can negotiate a divorce, but the child has been a few months, it is recommended that you consider it carefully.
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At this time, you need to find a time to talk to the man alone, either stop drinking in the future, or don't go home after drinking.
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To solve the problem in your own way, men should be properly educated so that they understand the disadvantages of drunken mania to the family.
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You should go back to your parents' house directly, because this kind of man is very unreliable, and if you get angry, you will have violent tendencies.
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Domestic violence is a matter of principle and must not be tolerated! If he does not repent, then divorce him, otherwise the woman will continue to be hurt and the marriage cannot be maintained by her alone. The woman can first separate from the man, and if the man does not agree to the divorce, the woman can divorce through litigation.
If you are beaten again, you should call for help, call the police, and decisively check the injury. These are all evidence. Even if there is no evidence, it can be prosecuted, that is, the court of first instance is not excluded.
If the court decides not to go the first time, it can file a lawsuit again after half a year, and the court should generally decide to go a second time.
If the foreign debt is due to gambling, it can be claimed that it is the personal debt of the other party. If the remaining property belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, it may be requested to divide it fifty-fifty. First they can negotiate to see if they can agree to the divorce.
If there is a disagreement, they can sue the court for divorce. The first time one party refuses to divorce, the court grants a divorce. After 6 months, I sued for divorce, and the court basically ruled on the divorce.
Conditions for divorce by mutual agreement are registered by law for the divorced spouse, .It is required that "both parties are consensual", that is, the husband and wife have reached a divorce agreement, and the expression of intention must be true and voluntary. The expression of intent to divorce is invalid due to fraud, coercion or material misunderstanding by the other party or others.
3.There must be a statutory requirement that "the child and property issues have been properly addressed". "Proper disposition" refers to an agreement reached by the divorcing parties on child support and property issues.
As long as the above conditions are met, a divorce by mutual agreement is sufficient.
How to divide the property in a divorce during pregnancy (1) The joint property of the husband and wife should be divided equally. In other words, the joint property of the husband and wife is divided equally in principle; According to the actual needs of production and life and property**, the specific treatment can also be different. Items for personal use are usually owned by the individual.
2) The joint property managed and used by the husband and wife in the two places shall be owned by the administrator and the user at the time of division; For the difference with a larger difference, the party with more property shall compensate the other party with property equivalent to the difference. (4) Houses jointly owned by the husband and wife that are not suitable for separate use shall be allocated to one party according to the housing situation of both parties and the principle of taking care of and raising children or the party who is not at fault. The party acquiring the house shall give compensation to the other party equal to half of the value of the house.
Take care of the woman under the same conditions. (5) At the time of divorce, the planting industry jointly operated by the husband and wife shall be reasonably divided or discounted in consideration of the development of production and operation.
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First of all, you should talk to him when he is sober, and if he doesn't listen, you can ask his parents and sisters to talk to him, to change this bad habit, and if everyone can't persuade him, then consider divorce.
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If you are pregnant for several months and are faced with a man who is drunk and crazy, you want a divorce. You can sue for divorce from him on the grounds that the husband and wife are not in agreement. If two people are sure that there is no affection. It is possible to sue for divorce.
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After the other party calms down, negotiate with the other party first, and if the divorce is successful, go directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce, and if the negotiation is unsuccessful, you can go to the court to sue for divorce.
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First of all, let's talk about it, if you still don't change, then divorce, don't think that you can't leave if you have children, such fathers and children don't necessarily want it.
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Hello, your husband was drunk during pregnancy, you can get a divorce, negotiate with your husband, you can agree to divorce, if he doesn't agree, you can go through the legal process.
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Although the old saying goes, persuasion and divorce are not discouraged, but I think that if a man is drunk and crazy during your pregnancy, then he will also be violent in the future, and this kind of thing will happen countless times once, so get a divorce quickly.
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Then leave and leave the child, otherwise the child will only be accompanied by pain when born, and there will be no complete family, which is not good for the child and yourself.
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Then you should divorce as soon as possible, otherwise you will suffer from yourself and the child in front of an alcoholic all day long, but do you still consider giving birth to this child? If you're born, you're going to be a single mother.
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The man who is crazy about drinking is really annoyed. And it's during the wife's pregnancy, can't you live a good life?
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I suggest that you go to a lawyer for advice, because his behavior is already domestic violence, so the probability of your divorce is very high.
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If you have a strong financial ability, you divorce and give birth to the child and take care of it, after all, it is your own flesh. If you don't have a financial foundation, then don't divorce, after all, marriage is not lucky, it's child's play, if you are pregnant, you have to give birth to a child, and I think it is a sin to kill the child. No matter how loving a couple is, they will quarrel and want to divorce, so marriage is not easy.
If you really want to get a divorce, consider the cost of divorce. If my husband is not that kind of scumbag, I think there will be contradictions in changing to a man. Even if you don't get married in the future, you will still have all kinds of difficulties in your life because of marital problems.
Marriage needs to be managed slowly, and there must be some run-in with each other, and before and after marriage are absolutely different worlds. You can spend the moon before you get married, and you can also spend it after you get married, but it's definitely better than firewood, rice, oil, and salt. If you are pregnant, you have entered a new stage of life.
At this stage, it is also possible to divorce if you file for divorce. But what happens to the children if they get divorced? To be born or not to be born?
How do you raise a child after giving birth? And will you still have debt problems because of marriage? and many other questions that you need to consider.
In this issue, you also have to think about why you chose this person to marry in the first place, why you are willing to live with him for the rest of your life, and why you suddenly changed your mind. And what do you think is different from before marriage, and why do you think there is a change?
In the end, I have to say, what did you do when you were with the object before, only on the premise of understanding each other deeply, can you have a happier marriage when you get married again. Now that you are already 4 months pregnant, there is a situation where two people are not suitable, and I believe that both parents are also scratching their heads. If two people feel that they can't live together, they can only choose to divorce, if they can continue to live for the sake of the children, I hope they can communicate with each other, and they need to calm down and think about it, after all, they are adults, don't think about children.
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I think you should first stabilize yourself, and then tell Liang Sen to give birth to the child well, and then consider whether to divorce, because your mind is not clear during this time period, so you must let yourself calm down first.
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I am pregnant, and men still have to drink and play drunk, so there is no need for such a man to stay, just choose to divorce, and the child can be taken with him.
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8, if you are pregnant for several months, in the face of a man who is drunk and crazy, if you want to divorce, then I think you will leave him, Hu Zhexi? Because drinking is a very big problem for a person, because after drinking. He might just be a different person.
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Why are men drunk? This can be done by parents or his colleagues to persuade him to ask for a divorce if he does not change his ways.
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Communicate carefully. After all, you are pregnant, and your husband should take care of you seriously, instead of going to drink and play drunk, which will make you sad.
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First of all, you have to discuss with this man and ask him if there will be such a thing as annihilation before the shooting in the future, because it is okay to forgive him once, but if this is the normal state of life, it will also be very bad for future children.
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Resolute divorce trembling, right? If you don't want this child, you think that when the child is young, he should be drunk, and in the end the child is in danger, so it is better to dig up the argument and end it directly, so that this life is in the cradle of tea.
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In the face of a drunken man who wants to divorce, then have a good chat with the man at a round banquet, and don't let him drink anymore, otherwise he wants to divorce, as long as the man of the cavity clan corrects it, he can still live a false silver.
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Say that the man who is drunk and crazy, you better divorce him as soon as possible, don't give birth to the child, it will also harm you, and it will also hurt the child, and you will regret that you are a single-parent family when you are born.
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I will choose to divorce, I should live with such a man, I will make my future life very bad, and I will also let my children be wronged.
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