My husband loves to drink and go crazy, can such a marriage be maintained?

Updated on society 2024-07-01
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think this kind of marriage can be maintained, because such a marriage has a great impact on yourself, and it is obviously not good for your health, so I think you can't maintain such a marriage, you should get a divorce.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I personally think it should not be maintained, occasionally forgivable, but love alcoholism.

    Playing drunk, what if I hit you in the process, can I bear it again and again, so it shouldn't be maintained.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think there is a way to go further in such a marriage, and there is no need to continue to maintain it. Because drunken mania is a bad sign of alcohol, and there is usually no way to change this habit. If he is an alcoholic and can't change it, you have to think about whether the marriage is going to end.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It can't be sustained, because there is no point in such a marriage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, because there are not a few men who drink heavily, and those who don't drink are often very family-oriented.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Doing these seven things well will help you::

    1. Figure out why your husband loves to drink. Men love to drink, some need to socialize, and some use alcohol to kill their sorrows, only by understanding the reason why their husband drinks can they help him slowly get rid of the habit of drinking.

    2. Don't argue with your husband when he comes home from drinking. After drinking, people will be in a state of excitement if they drink less, and they will be in a state of unconsciousness if they drink too much.

    3. Cultivate your husband's other hobbies. If a person does not have such a hobby, he will have that hobby, and a person who loves to drink can only change unless he gets into trouble because of drinking or has other hobbies. Therefore, if you want to cultivate your husband's other hobbies, he will focus on doing other things, and his drinking will be reduced.

    Moderate drinking is good for physical and mental health, can relieve stress, enliven the atmosphere, and expand social interaction, but excessive drinking is very harmful, easy to cause fatty liver, gastric ulcer, chronic gastritis, gastric bleeding, etc., paralyzing nerves, will make people slow to react, and will affect careers, resulting in family breakdown.

    If you do the above points well, and your husband still refuses to change his ways, then there is only divorce. You can't waste your life just because you meet an alcoholic, such a person will not bring you happiness, life understands that stop losses in time, the child grows up in an unhealthy family, and his psychology will not be healthy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My husband loves to drink and play alcoholic, I don't think I can insist on such a marriage, because such a family is very uncomfortable, and it is easy to have domestic violence, I should calm down and discuss with my husband, if he does not change, he can choose to divorce.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Marrying an alcoholic, if the other party is unwilling to reform himself, it is natural to divorce early, after all, who knows what irreparable things will be done when the other party is too seriously drunk.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I think this kind of marriage is difficult to maintain, after all, after drinking and before drinking, it will become like two people, and if the real husband can't correct it, it may become more and more intense in the later stage.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think there's any need to keep it going, and if he can't get rid of his bad habits, there's no way to make a positive impact on the family.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can talk to your husband and ask him to stop drinking, and if he agrees to stop drinking and can take on the responsibilities of the family, the marriage can still be maintained.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think it's necessary to maintain such a marriage, after all, in your heart, I think it makes you very ashamed. And I also hate his behavior very much, it will make you very stressed over time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think this kind of marriage can be sustained anymore because he is already such an unmotivated person, and the two of you are no longer suitable to be together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then you have to take precautions in advance, protect yourself, get drunk at you, or beat you, you have to take pictures of the evidence, in case of emergency.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Such a marriage is not to be wanted, alcoholism.

    of men are addicted to alcohol and can't break the habit of drinking. This kind of man may kneel down and admit his mistake after sobering up, but when he is drunk, he will vent the depression in his heart, he may beat his wife and children, or he may drop furniture and make a mess of the whole house.

    After marriage, the man must take responsibility for the care of the family and not bring the old bad habits into the new family. Because your wife is someone who will accompany you for a lifetime, you must treat your wife well and don't let your wife take responsibility for the mistakes you make. It's as if a habit like alcohol abuse is completely undesirable and disgusting.

    Alcoholism hurts both the body and the emotions of others, and can make your wife particularly unhappy. Your wife may persuade you once, twice, or even three times, and when the fourth time comes, she will be unbearable with your performance and file for divorce, so that you can become a middle-aged divorced man and live a lonely life again. Because the other person is a mentally sound person, he will not tolerate your big shortcomings at all, and you will never repent.

    If a man doesn't want to divorce and wants to continue living with his wife, he must make a guarantee to get rid of his bad habit of drinking. You can have dinner with your colleagues after work, but you can't drink alcohol, and even if you do, you should pay attention to the amount of alcohol, and you can't get drunk like mud. You can also tell your wife that if you drink too much again, you will divorce immediately, and you will not be entangled again.

    This will make your wife change her mind about you again, and it will also give you another chance, after all, it is not easy for two people to walk together, and the other party does not want to tear up the face, so that the two people are particularly fierce. If you still drink, the marriage will not be able to run at all and will eventually fall apart.

    As long as the marriage is passable, many women will not file for divorce unless they reach the first step of tolerability. Men must manage their marriage well and don't do some very excessive actions.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course, you can't ask for it anymore, if your husband likes to drink heavily for a long time, and you still don't change the problem after mentioning it to him, then there is no need to continue.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If he hits and scolds you after drinking, but insults you and acts violently against you, then you can't be with the other person because his behavior may cause domestic violence against you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This kind of marriage has completely gone wrong, and the other party has already committed domestic violence against you, such a husband is very terrible, and you must divorce as soon as possible.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In the end, everyone is different after drinking, once you find that your husband always beats herself after drinking, then you must choose to divorce immediately, don't be soft-hearted, this kind of person can't be changed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Personally, I suggest that such a husband should not be wanted. Because every time he gets drunk, he goes crazy. There is a risk that you will be beaten up, so it is advisable to divorce him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Personally, I don't think this kind of cargo is okay to ask for, because he has a big personality after drinking, and he is no longer the person you loved before, so there is no need to continue.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Marriage needs to be managed, you can communicate with your husband, if you really can't change it, then there is no need to develop.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Of course, it has to be maintained. In fact, I should care more about my husband, I should encourage my husband to say the reason why he likes to drink, and I should listen to him patiently, so that I know why he drinks like this?

    My husband loves to drink and go crazy, can such a marriage be maintained?

    Of course, the bridge and mausoleum must be maintained. In fact, I should care more about my husband, I should encourage my husband to say the reason why he loves to drink, and I should have the patience to listen to him, so that I know why he drinks like this?

    It is inevitable that there will be contradictions and differences between husband and wife after living for a long time, so we must calm down, don't act impulsively, and sit down calmly and discuss carefully. If you want to care more about your husband, you should seriously ask him why he is so alcoholic. Zen respect.

    In fact, it is because of the lack of communication that makes my husband lack your care, and he is not good at expressing himself, so he can only use anti-allergy wine to pour out his sorrows. As long as you miss the two of you, communicate more and communicate more, you will slowly return to the original love.

    Therefore, I have to reflect on myself, and I should find more reasons for Zheng Defeat from myself, and don't put the blame on him. I have to look at the problem from his point of view. With such a sincere attitude, you can naturally win his understanding and trust, and of course, you can win each other's trust and true feelings, and you will be reconciled and reconciled as before.

    In fact, this is also your common wish, so let's cherish it and not disappoint each other's expectations and true feelings.

    If you want to be confident, you should take the initiative to open your heart and heart to your husband. With such sincerity, when the draft can win the trust of each other, it will naturally keep him away from alcohol and return to your normal life.

    Words are the key to happiness and simplicity, if you don't drill through the wood, you can't say it clearly, the two of you should communicate more, and you should talk to each other face-to-face. This is a sincere attitude of being responsible for each other, and it is also a manifestation of one's own maturity.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Summary. There are also women who are very strong and can't stand this situation for a long time.

    If you have a husband who loves to drink, the kind of alcoholic, will you get divorced.

    This situation depends on the individual.

    Some women have a lot of endurance.

    Thirteen years. There are also women who are very strong and can't stand this situation for a long time.

    My heart is tired. Tired.

    So can your husband get drunk every day? Or does he often go out to socialize?

    For more than ten years, most of them have been angry because of drinking.

    When you are drunk, you have to clean up all the aftermath, which invisibly adds a lot of extra work to you, which is really helpless and tiring.

    In addition, my mother-in-law doesn't care about the children and doesn't kiss me, so she is always angry a lot.

    I raised three children by myself, and I am really tired now.

    The three children and grandchildren are all twittering, and they need their parents to accompany them at any time at the age of the company's side, think about a family with difficulties and rely on you alone to maintain the turnover, how can you not be tired?

    Is it possible to hand over all the money in your husband's hands and reduce the storage of alcohol at home?

    You have to take care of your three children alone, so have you gone out to work?

    Is it the financial burden of the family that makes your husband want to borrow wine to drown his sorrows?

    If you are a stay-at-home wife, then the financial burden of your family, these people, then your husband's life will not be much easier.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Good afternoon, dear! I think you should divorce him, because he has been drinking for a long time, which will seriously affect your normal life, and it is difficult to quit alcoholism, for your own happiness, it is better to divorce. Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks! 

    If you have a husband who loves to drink, the kind of alcoholic, will you get divorced.

    Good afternoon, dear! I think you should divorce him, because he has been drinking for a long time, which will seriously affect your normal life, and it is difficult to quit alcoholism, for your own happiness, it is better to divorce. Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks! 

    If you can explain their situation in detail, the teacher should analyze it more accurately, and if you don't communicate with the teacher, the teacher will only be able to analyze it based on your words.

    Dear, if it is convenient, you can talk about your situation specifically, the teacher will answer you in detail, provide you with a solution, you can also click on the teacher to follow any questions you can consult at any time. 

    If you don't let you go out to drink, you will quarrel with me, and now if you don't let you go out to drink, he will divorce me.

    Well, dear, you're really tired of being with him, doesn't he treat you badly when he's drunk?

    Dear, how many years have you been married?

    Definitely, 10 years.

    Dear, you have reached the limit of your mental capacity now, and if you are with him, your mental pressure will be even greater.

    Dear, is he going to divorce you now?

    If you don't let you drink, you will get a divorce.

    Well, dear, what's in your heart?

    Are you reluctant to give up on your children?

    Maybe I'm still worried about the kids.

    Well, women are soft-hearted, and men don't care so much.

    Dear, he's now a habit of drinking.

    Well, I'll think about it, and I guess the final result will be divorce as well.

    Dear, your divorce like this is also a relief for you.

    Right. Dear, does he usually care about you and your family?

    How old is the child now?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Hello, the score of the pro, the first thing to see is whether it is regular, and secondly, whether there is a drunkard after drinking, these are more important, the wine itself can only be moderate, not more, once there is more, it will not only affect family feelings.

    If you have a husband who loves to drink, the kind of alcoholic, will you get divorced.

    Hello, the score of the kiss, the first thing to see is whether it is regular, know Naiming and secondly, whether there is a drunkard after drinking, these are more important, the wine itself can only be a moderate amount of mu, not more, once there is more, it will affect not only family feelings.

    If he often drinks alcohol and affects the family and marital relationship, then it is very likely that he will choose to divorce.

    Hello, it's convenient to tell the teacher if my husband will be crazy after drinking.

    I want to get divorced, I'm very tired, I worry too much every day, I have a lot of things at home every day, and my husband still drinks and drinks too much.

    How is my husband's wine?

    Yes, if he didn't drink, we would have had a good relationship, but it backfired.

    It's just that the wine is not good, and it tortures me mentally.

    He has been drinking ever since he got married???

    Most of them are.

    What about going to work?

    Just a few years after we got married, they scolded me every time I got drunk.

    You can't help it.

    It's outrageous. Have we ever considered changing him?

    Anyway, every time I get drunk at home and come home, it's just looking for me.

    In this case, the teacher suggested that we communicate with him first, or let him know the harm caused to the family after drinking too much.

    Hello, can you tell the teacher the age of her husband?

    The teacher gives you a way or a way to see how he reacts.

    Is it convenient to tell the teacher's husband's age?

    The teacher will help you analyze his mind.

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