After five years of marriage, he often comes back drunk and goes crazy with you, what should you do?

Updated on society 2024-07-01
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, many times the elders always advise us to look more at the advantages of others and less at the shortcomings of others, but some shortcomings cannot be forgiven, people who are addicted to alcohol and are drunk are not worthy of forgiveness, but whether to leave him or not, need to be judged, and sometimes the problem has not evolved to the point of divorce. <>

    First of all, we must thoroughly understand why he is addicted to alcohol, many people who like to drink always have a hurdle in their hearts that they can't get over and have nowhere to release, they can only relieve their emotions by drinking, which is also what people often say about borrowing alcohol to eliminate sorrow. If he likes to drink because he can't make money and is too stressed, you can tell him that money is not the most important thing, even if he has money, but he will not be happy without a family, he must put his family first, money is not the most important, and he must instill this kind of thinking many times, so that he no longer worries about money, and he should mention the word money less in his ordinary life, let alone complain about unsatisfactory life. <>

    If he needs to drink to divert his attention because he is more depressed at work, he must take him out for a walk, change the scene more, don't let him go home every day in addition to work is the wine table, and then go home to get drunk and crazy, to avoid him from forming this habit, if he has formed a habit, you must find a way to break this habit, such as traveling together in other places, staying for a while, and when he comes back, this habit has changed, and it is possible to go straight home after work, instead of the wine table. <>

    If he has nowhere to release his emotions because he is suppressed by his boss and excluded by his colleagues, then you should first tell him that you are not his punching bag, and that you have an independent personality and cannot be controlled by him, but you must pay attention to the tone and way of speaking, and try to say these words when the feelings are slightly eased. And to give him confidence to tell him that if he really doesn't like work, the environment can be changed at any time, and he can support him for a period of time, although he is poor, but as long as he is not separated, I think he will be moved by this, and he will also change himself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You say that you have been married to your husband for five years, and then your husband often comes back drunk and goes crazy with you, and some temper tantrums after drinking like this, you should confess this problem to the other party when your husband is sober, and then you tell your husband to drink as little as possible and not to get so drunk, and then tell him how drunk he looks because many people look like after getting drunk, and he doesn't remember.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He often comes back drunk and goes crazy with you, so you can not share a room with him after he comes back drunk and let him go crazy with alcohol. You can just ignore him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After five years of marriage, he often comes back from drinking and goes crazy, which shows that he really loves to drink, and he may not be happy outside, so he can only go home to vent his emotions. If you can let him change to a better job, such as working in a unit of **, you may be able to let him drink less, such a life is more regular, and he is easy to change his bad habit of drinking.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's been 5 years since I got married, and my husband is often drunk, and then he will go crazy with you when he comes back, at this time I think he should ignore him when he is drunk, and when he is sober, you have to reason with him, if it really doesn't work, you will move out and see what happens to him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In this case, I have been married for five years, and he often comes back drunk and goes crazy with you, I think this situation is not right, the best words, communicate with him well, if you really can't communicate, you can protect yourself through the law.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After five years of marriage, he often comes back drunk and goes crazy with you, such a person still has a good game with him, when he is sober.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think in this case, the two of you should choose to divorce, because you won't be happy together, and if he drinks a lot, he will only get drunk and crazy when he comes back, which will hurt you a lot.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After five years of marriage, if this man is still drunk from time to time, and comes back to you to get drunk and crazy, and then domestic violence, I suggest that it is better to divorce as soon as possible, this man is not reliable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it were me, I would have a good talk with him, and if he could correct the problem, then continue to live together, and if he couldn't change it, then the marriage would come to an end.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After 5 years of marriage, your man often comes back from drinking and goes crazy with you, such a life is unbearable, because your man is too sorry for you, only if you continue like this, you will find another way to give him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Through the past five years, it can be seen that he is still like this. Yes, if you do that, then the rest of the day will be the same. There is also the possibility of intensifying. So see if you can get on with it yourself, and if you don't want to, get a divorce.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He has three chapters of the law, and if he gets drunk again, and he comes back like this, there is a way to deal with it, and at this time, you must not be soft-hearted, just deal with it according to this method.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A man who often comes home drunk and goes crazy. It's really hard to bear, so it's up to you to decide. No one else can help you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This problem is too difficult, drink every day, get drunk every day, don't drink it or not, what can I do, put a sedative in the wine to control it, or a little ruthless, the electric baton is ready, and it will fall down with one blow.

    Does your husband drink by himself every day or drink every day, if he drinks by himself every day, and he will withdraw from drinking and going crazy when he is done, it is really hopeless, thirty-six plans to go is the best plan, or you are more ruthless than him, and you can control him from drinking.

    This kind of thing is really annoying, I used to have a drunkard neighbor, this gentleman drank every day, beat his wife and children, that miserable, we can't persuade us to be neighbors, his wife has been enduring, I heard that it has also been a lifetime.

    We can only express sympathy for this matter, how to solve it, or you still have to make your own decision, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, can the Women's Federation come forward to coordinate?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After 5 years of marriage, he often comes home drunk and goes crazy with you, you should enforce a mandatory abstinence from alcohol on him, don't let him drink so much anymore.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm really like this, when Aunt Jiu doesn't drink when she's sober, you can enlighten him and say why he went crazy after drinking, it's too hurtful, it hurts your feelings for each other, and I feel that he will repent.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For such a man, you have to communicate and communicate with her, explain your feelings, so that after a long time, he may realize that his approach is inappropriate, and he will also be restrained.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Married for 5 years. I often drink and come back and get drunk. For such a person, if I would divorce him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it is not easy to endure it for five years, it is not easy to divorce a little tempered, if it is not for the interests of the marriage, it is inseparable from the other party, let him change it, tell him not to change it back, and beat him up if he gets drunk.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After five years of marriage, he often comes back drunk and goes crazy with you, and there is only one way, and that is divorce.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Divorce. Because he doesn't love me anymore, and I hate drunken men, I'm going to divorce him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since you are not happy, then divorce! If you don't want a divorce, let him quit drinking. After all, drinking hurts your body. If you can't quit, give up! Let's get divorced! If you are not happy, don't force yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is the cure of the disease! Don't let in if you're drunk! Or tie him up while he's drunk and give him a good lesson, so that he can have a long memory!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you can bear it, you can bear it, get him some sobering water to drink when you come back, and if you can't bear it, you will divorce, there are only two ways.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Such a man can rarely change, if you can't change it, he will change your own, if you can accept it, then you can't continue to accept it, then divorce.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Divorce, there is no other way, his situation is the first time you didn't stop him in time, which caused him to intensify now, and he will become more and more bold in the future.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I came back drunk and went crazy with you, and you were angry with him, and he didn't have any temper, so you'd better wait for him to wake up and communicate with him well, and see if he can get rid of it? Because marriage is not child's play, you can't dislike it, and you can't stand it and divorce, so it's best to communicate well, and he will change.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are such a man, you also have many conflicts in your daily life, and you can consider whether you should leave.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I'm going to get a divorce right away, there's no point in this relationship anymore, and this marriage isn't happy at all.

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