What should I do if my boyfriend always has a drinking party?

This kind of drinking party depends on whether he needs it for work or personally? If it is required by work, then it is another matter, after all, people are in the rivers and lakes, and they can't help themselves.

If it is a personal need, go to drink those meaningless drinking parties at every turn, then I would advise you, this kind of man who always drinks alcohol or leave him as soon as possible, although as the saying goes, "It is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a family", but the man who goes to any wine bureau is really terrible.

First of all, there is always a drinking party, which fully shows that his self-control is very poor, indulging in the illusion brought by alcohol, you don't believe too much in his sweetness or all kinds of excuses, I ask if he gets drunk and something happens to another woman one day, can you forgive him?

In addition, if you get married and live together in the future, maybe you can't stand it even more that he always doesn't go home at night, and even gets drunk at every turn, and when the time comes, he may get drunk, beat you and scold you, and make you sad.

If you are not deep enough with him now, I advise you to stop this relationship as soon as possible.

Have a good talk with your boyfriend, because he often goes out to drink like this, and it's not good for his own health, and it's definitely difficult to have a lot of outside entertainment, so let him reduce the entertainment as much as possible, and don't go to the drinking party if you can't try not to go, because it's not good for him to rest, and if you can't get a guarantee, it's better to talk to him well, since let him drink less and let him spend more time with you.

It may really be that the boyfriend is busy dealing with the drinking situation to improve his career, which man doesn't want to accompany his girlfriend, but that also needs the foundation of his career, so be more considerate and considerate.

In fact, I think that if your boyfriend must have such a drinking party because of work, then you should understand, but if it is just because of a party with colleagues and friends, then it is actually very harmful to the body for so many days a month, so you should also persuade her more.

What you need is to sit down calmly and have a good talk, express your own thoughts and wishes, and then listen to the other person's thoughts and sayings, communicate well and deal with the problem calmly.

Playing at home is also playing until midnight, he just goes out, not to mention the wine party, the brothers are very happy to drink together. I also know that you are worried about him, and I often drink alcohol and is not good for health, so I hope you and your family will persuade him together.

If you don't have a drinking party, try to ask your boyfriend to go less, after all, long-term drinking is not good for your health.

If you really can't accept this, then give up on the relationship, or you can only find solace elsewhere to comfort yourself in accepting it.

Putting aside factors such as hobbies, Qianqian just wants to say that it is not easy for men.

If you hold the bricks, you can't hold you. This is a man's helplessness.

I always want to retire and I should have a lot of time to spend with you.

But, without getting retired, you run away.

Life is not easy, do it and cherish it.

I think this kind of boy doesn't love you very much at all, he won't be like this, he will think about you everywhere, and every day is like this, and he doesn't take his body seriously A boy who doesn't take his body seriously, that is, he only cares about himself and doesn't care about others, and people like him are easy to get sick, so you have to take a good look at your relationship.

When we meet such a boyfriend, if we really don't want our boyfriend to go to various drinking parties, we should communicate well with our boyfriend, so that our boyfriend can realize the seriousness of the matter.

1. Learn to empathize

When our boyfriend is such a person, if we want to persuade our boyfriend to go less to such a drinking party, we should let our boyfriend learn to empathize, and let our boyfriend stand in his own position to think about the problem, if I am also such a person, then what kind of feeling will he have? In this way, you can really let your boyfriend get rid of such a bad problem.

2. Show that you care

For many women, they are actually very concerned about their boyfriend's drinking, so in such a situation, we can also directly show our boyfriend that we care about his drinking very much, and hope that he can think about himself, which is more conducive to their physical health. Because drinking alcohol is very hurtful to the stomach, if we drink for a long time, there will be stomach bleeding, so we must pay attention to it and take care of our body.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that when you persuade your boyfriend, you must pay attention to your own language, remember not to have a positive conflict with your boyfriend, otherwise it will affect the feelings between each other, and it will also make your boyfriend mistakenly think that he is disliking him, so you must find a suitable way to enlighten, I hope everyone can pay attention to it, and adopt such a concept, and then go to the specific implementation, to see what the effect is, Then let's all adjust accordingly.

The kind words persuaded him not to go, knowing it with affection, moving with reason, and drinking hurt his body, he really can't say that he misses him, can you let him come back to accompany me?

Drinking alcohol is harmful to the body, don't treat your body so badly, in case something goes wrong with your body, what should you tell me to do! If you still care about me, don't go to the drinking party.

I think the most important thing is that he has no sense of responsibility, he doesn't realize that he has lost some of the damage caused by indulging in this kind of drinking game or he doesn't care, if you want to persuade her, then let him regain his sense of responsibility.