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Maybe she really has something unspeakable? If you're really afraid of losing her, give her some time! Maybe she has something to sort out herself!
Maybe she's not better off than you either? If you really love her, please give her some time! Time will tell!
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The love triangle is complicated, physically and mentally injured, and the muscles and skins are exhausted! Don't do it!
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First of all, find out if she really loves you, if she continues to do this, then I advise you to leave her, this kind of hesitation will hurt you, and it will hurt the man, hehe, make your own decisions, pull to be happy.
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I think that when we encounter the problem of love, others can't solve it, after all, we have specific feelings.
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The result of a love triangle is that everyone gets hurt really.
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There is nothing wrong with true love.
As long as it's true love.
She said she loved you, but she couldn't let go of her boyfriend.
Then she is not love for you.
It is impossible to love two people at the same time.
One is like and the other is love.
Maybe she's confusing the two relationships.
Figure out if she loves or likes you.
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If you don't want to lose, chase it, she said I'm sorry for my ex-boyfriend It's hypocritical, don't lie to you, a friend of mine chased a girl who was engaged, went to the bathroom and opened a mandarin duck bath, the woman refused to go in, what to say I'm sorry for my ex-boyfriend, but I still half-pushed and half-went in, fuck, I said that the woman was cheap.
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Meaning: It is said that people who are troubled live in relationships, and people who are comfortable live in fate. Relationship is just a kind of name, which is born with fate, and will also disappear with fate, like an illusion.
Relationship is just a kind of name, which is born with fate, and will also disappear with fate, like an illusion.
If you cling to a certain relationship and make all kinds of demands on the other person in the relationship, the relationship becomes a constraint on each other. If fate has been extinguished, he can barely maintain a name. Existing, and dying, will only add to one's own and others' troubles.
In the end, all kinds of relationships between people are born from the synthesis of many causes and conditions.
Fate comes, appears in the sea of people, fate goes, disappears in the sea of people. Live in fate, not relationships. After all, impermanence and change, that is, "emptiness", are simply not up to anyone.
If you understand the "emptiness" in relationships, you will be able to live more clearly! When there is fate, cherish fate, devote yourself completely, do not care, do not complain.
When there is no chance, let it go, smile indifferently, do not force, do not regret; Live in fate, not relationships. To give freedom to the other person is to give oneself freedom. Be kind to your relationship and be at ease with your fate!
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In the afternoon, I talked with my friends about the relationship between people, and talked a lot, and finally my friend asked, what is a good relationship?
It is true that we will have a lot of relationships to deal with in life, such as husband and wife, parent-child relationship, parent-child relationship, friend relationship, colleague relationship, etc., as long as we live in this society, these are inevitable.
We also know that there are a lot of books and ** tell us how to deal with these interpersonal relationships, some friends say that they feel tired to maintain various relationships, sometimes in order to maintain the relationship, they have to hide their emotions, obviously do not answer cheats and sell likes but have to do it!
I think if we encounter such feelings in our lives, we really need to think that your current circle may not be what you really want, and then you may need to stop and think about what you want! The right renunciation will make us better!
In fact, there is a test of whether a relationship is a good criterion, which is to feel whether the relationship makes you feel comfortable with each other. The maintenance of the relationship must be one-to-one, between the two, only if they feel comfortable with each other, can it mean that you have a good relationship, once one party feels uncomfortable, it means that the time has come to adjust or give up, this standard can be applied to each of our relationships.
Of course, many of our relationships cannot be abandoned at will, such as parent-child relationships and parental relationships, and these blood ties are not so easy to give up, so learn to adjust the way we get along with each other. The relationship between husband and wife must also be a process of mutual understanding and mutual promotion to become better for each other, this is a very intimate relationship and the most easy to break down relationship, so we need to invest more, and it is also the most important relationship in all relationships.
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There is a good relationship called not to blame when things happen.
Whether it is a lover, relatives or friends, if you complain about everything, there will inevitably be quarrels, resulting in estrangement, and even if the relationship is strong, it will fall apart little by little.
In the Analects, it is said: "If you bow to oneself and take responsibility for others, you will be far from resentful." ”
This means that if you reflect more on yourself and less blame others, you will be able to stay away from disputes and resentment. If you always point out the shortcomings and mistakes of others, and criticize them harshly, it will often arouse the disgust of the other party.
No matter how difficult life is, making mistakes is the norm.
We should be like the ancients who said: "Blame ourselves with a heart of reproach, and forgive others with a heart of forgiveness." ”
When encountering problems in dealing with people, you should always be tolerant and not blindly blame.
When there is a conflict, you should think more about the other party, and don't complain endlessly.
Feelings are not reasonable, and people's hearts are not close to each other.
Between lovers, they are not easily blamed in order to maintain long-term trust;
Between family members, it is not easy to blame, so that the family can be prosperous;
Between friends, it is not easy to blame, and the tree of friendship can be evergreen.
The establishment of every relationship is hard-won, and we should know how to cherish and maintain it.
So, no matter what happens, always remember that respect is more valuable than consideration and comfort is more effective than complaining.
Not to blame is the best medicine for a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.
If the relationship is not good, you should find out what is not good between each other, so there is a gap in the sisterhood. Then sit down honestly and talk about each other's thoughts, and express the unhappiness in your heart.
The comrade-in-arms relationship is the most reliable, because they have suffered together, and it can be said that there are a lot of hard work together, and this kind of relationship cannot be compared with other relationships.
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