The impact of family education on children s physical and mental development

Family education has a vital role in children's physical and mental development, which can be said to be vividly manifested in the process of children's growth, unsound family education, children have no upbringing, common sense of life is also a mess, and even some children have low self-esteem and autism, unsociable, and extreme personalities.

The importance of family education is self-evident, everyone is grown up in family education, life cannot be repeated, education is very important. Family education is a stage of enlightenment as a human being, and parents play a decisive role in family education, "parents are the first and most important teachers of children".

Home is the place where children live for the longest time, parents have the most contact with their children, whether it is before or after entering education, the influence of parents is the greatest "family is the place where children grow up, the development of children's attitude towards life, the way of life, and the understanding of life are slowly completed in the family" Therefore, parents must pay attention to family education.

1. The impact on children's psychology.

For example, when parents are grumpy, they often vent their frustrations at home. In this way, over time, the beliefs of every family member, including the child, will be lost, so that the child often has a feeling of confusion and helplessness, and a bad search psychology will be formed. If parents adopt a warm, gentle, and respectful attitude towards them, it can lead children to use this psychological influence in their own interactions.

2. The impact on children's habits.

Children live in a specific environment for a long time, and over time they will generate their own character in this environment, and their words and deeds will also affect their children, such as parents develop tidy habits every day, and children will be like this, and parents will not be satisfied with dirty, so that children have a daily cultivation education.

3. The impact on children's interactions.

What kind of children have what kind of friends, because children are influenced by their parents, they will also bring this awareness to their lives, so they will also determine their own social environment.

Fourth, the impact on the child's future.

Children's character generation is generated in a specific environment, although they can be educated by teachers in school, but if family education is not ideal, children will also take detours in school, more than others to walk, so that if successful, they can slowly adjust their behavior, character, if not successful, may lose a lot, for their future will also have a great impact.

The impact of family education on children's mental health mainly includes two aspects, one is that good family education has a positive impact on children's psychology, and the other is that failed family education has a negative impact on children's psychology. Homeschooling can have a profound impact on a child's mental health.

Parents are the ones whose children feel safe**. Children who are often disturbed only by encouragement, praise and praise from their parents tend to be full of self-confidence, lively and cheerful personalities, and have an uplifting mental health.

A good, warm and democratic and harmonious family education allows children to be nurtured in a loving environment from an early age, and the child's perception of the world will be sunny, positive, and full of love, and the sense of security is easy to satisfy.

The incompleteness of the family can easily cast a shadow on the child's young mind and make the child feel insecure. Families with tense relationships and frequent quarrels can also make children anxious, autistic and reluctant to communicate with others.

First: the family environment affects the child's development.

Because environmental factors are extensive, regular, natural, and accidental, children will be affected in various ways. In particular, the characteristic of spontaneity, which has effects that are parallel to and contradictory to education, when the child's physical and mental development can sometimes be favorable and positive, and sometimes it may be bad and negative.

Second: Parents play an exemplary role model for their children's growth.

Family is the cell of society, the first environment of children's lives, and the real "enlightenment teachers" of children are their parents! Teaching children to be human beings is the primary condition for children's growth, when children look at the world with an inquiring eye, and at the same time, when they know new things, in his eyes, the most common is their parents, and their words and deeds are expressing their own attitude towards life. Therefore, as a parent, you must set a good example for your children.

Third: the importance that parents attach to rotten education affects their children's growth.

Most of today's parents are busy earning money and want to provide a good living and learning environment for their children, and they will ignore the heavy envy of their children's education. Some parents may simply think that sending their children to the best schools and having the most advanced learning tools is an investment in education. In fact, parents' attention to education is not only a simple material investment, but also more of a child's psychological care and care.

Family education has a great help and influence on the children in the group, mainly in the following aspects:

Cultivate good moral character. Family education can help children understand the values of reason, justice, conscience, etc., cultivate their moral thoughts and moral concepts, and let children become social talents who are responsible, responsible, and respectful of others.

Develop a positive mindset. Homeschooling can inspire children to be confident and enthusiastic about the future, so that they can establish a positive attitude and bravely face challenges and difficulties in order to better meet the challenges of life.

Develop self-directed learning skills. Family education can provide children with a good learning environment and resources, exercise children's self-learning ability and spirit through homework, independent reading, etc., so that they can be better at independent learning and lay a solid foundation for their future learning career.

Enhance family affection. Family education can enhance the emotional connection between parents and children, let children feel the love and support of their parents, and also cultivate children's sense of family responsibility and family awareness, laying the foundation for family harmony and stability.

Enhance social adaptability. Family education can cultivate children's good communication skills and interpersonal relationships, so that they can better adapt to society, and at the same time, it can also shape children's independent thinking and new thinking, laying a solid foundation for future career development.

In conclusion, home education is an indispensable part of a child's growth process, and it can imperceptibly influence children and bring positive effects to their growth and development.

Parents mainly accompany their children, encourage their children, find their children, and praise their children, so that they can make their children better and better

As parents, it is not right to educate children in this way, we should communicate more, communicate more, encourage children more, and praise children's strengths.

It is not right for parents to punish their children for watching TV all night, and it is necessary to communicate more with their children and communicate, rather than simply punishing children like this.

It is not a good idea for parents to punish their children for watching TV all night, and it may backfire, affect the child's mentality and normal growth, and also damage the family relationship.

In fact, this kind of punishment has no effect other than hurting the child. Watching TV all night will not make a child dislike TV, nor will it make him stop watching TV after a class, let alone educational.

Watching TV is not a bad thing, after all, TV shows are censored and generally good for your child's physical and mental health. The disadvantage of watching TV is that you can't watch it uncontrollably, watch it all the time. Instead of punishing in this way, the father should reason with the child and make the child understand why he should be punished.

Now, punishing children is in vogue. If your child is not good at studying, let them do heavy physical work, let them go out to pick up garbage, etc. This kind of education method may be somewhat effective at first, but if it is used too much, it will not only be useless, but it will be counterproductive.

Therefore, when the child has a problem, parents should calm down, communicate with the child, educate and guide the child with the right method, reason more with the child, and believe that the child will listen slowly.