How do I tell my classmates parents to buy something collectively in a class group?

If it's something that is needed collectively, you can ask the teacher and let the teacher come forward. However, if it is an individual act that feels important to your child. At least you shouldn't say it alone in the group, you can go and talk to the teacher and ask for everyone's opinion.

If necessary, it can be done.

After all, some parents have good family conditions, and some family conditions are not good, and even if they buy it, they may not be willing to buy it in the end. So it's best not to grab the probe. Be sure to appreciate it later, but the teacher or the school will say it in the group after deciding.

Hello landlord, in this case, you can talk about it in the group, but the final decision depends on the opinions of all parents.

With the advent of the Internet era, the connection between teachers and parents is getting closer and closer, and the troublesome things that used to need to be notified one by one need to send a message to the head teacher, but now only need to send it in the parent group formed by the class teacher, and the parents of students can receive the notification. It's just that if there is convenience, there will be trouble.

In the past, parents did not communicate with each other, and all problems were communicated to teachers through the parent committee, which played a role in screening and filtering, and teachers could also reduce most of the affairs. But now it's different, all the parents of the students are in a group, and everyone can get their hands on Teacher Aite, which encourages some parents who are eager to perform to appear.

These parents are happy to express themselves in the class group, and from time to time send something they think is interesting to the group, thinking that it enlivens the atmosphere, but they don't know that for teachers, this behavior is just increasing the workload, after all, the existence of parent groups has only one purpose: to inform students' parents to cooperate with teachers.

Today, let's summarize what low-level parents like to post? I hope you don't meet it.

Parents who like to lead the rhythm in the group.

"With rhythm" is an online term that literally means the same as the literal one, which is the act of deliberately inciting other parents to follow suit.

When the teacher posts a parent-child assignment in the class group, individual parents who don't want to do it will take the opportunity to say something that seems neutral but complains, which is rhythmic. Maybe these parents still think that they are speaking out, but they don't know that in the eyes of the teacher, they have become a "thorn" who does not cooperate, once the teacher has an opinion on the parents, it is a matter of time before the child is harmed, after all, the teacher is not a saint.

Here it is recommended that parents who are dissatisfied with parent-child homework should have a private chat with the teacher to solve the problem, do not compare themselves with Chen Sheng and Wu Guang, and want to expose the rod at every turn, otherwise it will appear that the emotional intelligence is very low.

Parents who love to tout their teachers in the group.

Some parents may say, I don't have a rhythm, I just want to please the teacher, right?

In fact, although the teacher will not be irritated by the parents who blow the rainbow fart, the parents in the same group may not be the same. They are all backbone elites who have worked hard in the workplace for many years, and they all know what ideas are in their parents' heads, and patting on the back is always a behavior that cannot be elegant, and it will also make other parents rebel and feel that your level is limited.

Therefore, after the teacher praises the child, the parents only need to say "thank you, teacher", and there is no need to send a series of thanks, and it is not for the parents to join the party and take the oath.

Parents who have a strong desire to talk personally.

If the first two types of parents have low emotional intelligence, then the third one is the worst.

Earlier, I witnessed several times in the group of Lele Kindergarten, three parents directly staged emotional entanglements in the group, not to mention personal privacy, and also tearfully asked everyone to comment, but I didn't know that other parents didn't care.

Finally, children are meant to play together, and no one can guarantee that other parents will say anything to their children. Even if it is for the sake of the child's face, parents should not be too sincere in the group.

The first thing is what to eat at home, like to show off in the group, such parents are purely faulty, the second thing is to buy a new car at home to show off, in fact, the level of the family is not very high, afraid of others looking down on it, the third thing, is to buy some beautiful clothes to show off.

Parents with low levels will post boring links in the group that have nothing to do with their children's class learning, such as Pinduoduo to help bargain or vote among relatives and friends, which will not only disgust other parents, but also make teachers feel embarrassed.

First, I always like to post some links in the group, such as how to educate children. Second, always post some cheesy and cheesy in the group. Third, they may also blame the teacher in the group and feel that the teacher is wrong.

Parents with low levels always like to show off their children's grades in the parent group, as well as their children's serious studies at home, etc., to satisfy their vanity. In addition, these parents always compliment the teacher in the group and say good things about the teacher in order to please the teacher.