If you re a smarter woman, how do you deal with a friend s relationship with your boyfriend?

Forgive me for being blunt in saying the following:

It's not a TV series, it's okay to take the injuries you received before as a reason for others?

Who hasn't been hurt in the past? Oh, if your ex-girlfriend runs away, you can be suspicious of your current girlfriend as a matter of course?

A dignified man should be a person who takes care of others, but he makes the person who loves him so tired. It's sad.

Landlord, you two have put the cart before the horse. If there is no chance of improvement in the long term, then give up.

Your claim that you know he loves you is actually your own mistake for his insecurity for caring about you.

I'm sorry, forgive me for being so direct, if this person wasn't you, it was someone else, he would still be the same.

Affection is something that two people carry out in each other's most precious youth, when they are the happiest.

Instead of in the gloom and misery of the past, one sacrifices the love state he should have enjoyed, and takes care of the other physically and mentally exhausted.

Life is finite, and the quality of life is determined by oneself.

It's his business that he wants to live in the past, and you are not obligated to be with him.

If he is willing to come out, then you will be truly happy.

Otherwise, let him become a sister-in-law of Xianglin himself.

If the situation allows, you can consider working and living together, but if you can't do it, you should visit each other often, give each other more care, and don't let the other party worry too much about yourself.

Scold! As long as you change a little, you will be more active in caring about him, and he will feel that you care about him very much, isn't it okay?

When we're in love, we feel like we can change the world.

After getting married, let alone the world, I don't even have the confidence to change myself.

You'd better take a closer look, and if you're a bird, then just follow him. If you are a big tree and want to shelter someone from the wind and rain, you run away.

Hope has always been a friendIf not, then strangers.

Make it clear that you want to be friends with the other person all the time, you don't need to force other relationships, and you won't give him any chances. If the other party agrees, then you must be careful not to let the other party do anything for you based on their liking for you, and do not maintain an ambiguous relationship; If you don't agree, make it clear that the other person is a stranger when they meet again.

2 Introduce him to a friend who is more suitable for him.

This is the method used, and it is relatively reliable and indeed successful. But among the single friends around you, there is just a person who is more suitable for his personality and temper, and introduce him to him at an event or party, maybe you will become the next matchmaker.

Reduce the chance of meeting in personto cut off all other communications.

If none of the above methods work, and the other party is more persistent, then what you need to do is to cut off all communication with him, and reduce the chance that you will be able to meet, and use practical actions to express your rejection of his confession. A person who has self-esteem and wants you to be happy will never be pestered all the time.

4. Be resolute and find out the impossibleand then explain the reasons in detail.

If the unilateral severance of contact does not allow him to continue to stop, then it is necessary to resolutely pick out and talk to him once. Explain in detail the reasons for rejecting his confession, such as being busy with work and not having time, not ready to start a relationship, enjoying being single or even having a lover.

Of course, the relationship with friends should maintain a certain distance, and of course the relationship with the boyfriend is intimate, and sometimes, some problems should be communicated with the boyfriend in time, and the boyfriend should be told about it, so that it may be mutual trust.

Does dealing with it mean the way to get along? Or is the relationship bad, want to mend the relationship, or get together and break up? These three are very different and have different meanings!

What kind of relationship should be handled? For example: if this thing is not done properly, deal with it.

He did something wrong and helped him deal with it. If it is the way to get along, the meaning of the word is not (deal with it)! Summary:

Thoughtful and caring.

Learn a little psychology! Maybe it will help you.