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<>I think the first and most important thing is to recognize the facts, whether you love each other or not, the separation has become irretrievable, the facts are in front of you, if you are willing to face it and move forward, then everything will be very simple, but if you are obsessed with the memories of the past and can't extricate yourself, then there is nothing anyone can do to help you.
One way is the newcomer, find a newcomer to talk about the harm that the old person brings you, I think this method is not bad, because in the relationship between you in the past, because of deep love, so you are used to having him by your side all the time, and you are also used to having someone to share your joys and sorrows, and suddenly separate, so that you yourself have only one person, and then you are alone, everything is done alone, so that you will be very passive, and it is easy to think too much when you are alone, and it is even more difficult to get out. So at this time, you need someone to accompany you, even if he can't completely replace his place, but at least there is someone to accompany you and wait for you when you are most uncomfortable, isn't it, so I think it's really a good way for a new person to replace the old one.
The second is to go out for a walk, leave this city with your common memories, the two of you must have left too many common memories in this city, such as the road you have walked together, the snacks you have eaten together, the place where you often sit in the café, every time you see these you will inevitably touch the scene, you will feel uncomfortable, so it is better to stride away without looking back, go out for a walk to see the outside world, go to the place where you once wanted to go but have not been to for various reasons, to see the outside of the mountains and the sky, Maybe the mood will be better, there are too many colorful things in life, not only the scenery on him, we sometimes don't limit our lives too narrowly, go outside to see.
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<> time and new love are the best medicine to forget a relationship.
I think the time is the fastest effect of new love. If you can't accept your new love, then it is advisable to choose a time.
Using time to forget a person is the most cruel way to yourself. I feel that after a long time, I will slowly forget, in fact, this method is equivalent to self-harm, time can make a person forget a person, but the premise is that it first makes you feel pain, it hurts to the heart, it hurts to die and live until the pain is numb, and there is no longer a feeling, at this time we say that time teaches you to forget a person. Time makes you forget a person, the process is painful, it is by helping you recall, helping you precipitate memories to make you dilute, forget how easy it is to talk about a person, time will also play two different effects, or let you forget completely.
Either let you remember it deeply.
The new love forgets a person the fastest, but this is the most selfish. You are helping yourself to forget what was once by consuming the love that others have for you. Obviously there is a person in your heart, but you want to accept another person, trying to dilute your past through this person, this way is selfish, and the starting point of this relationship is also unfair, others are giving, but you are consuming.
Although this method works better than time, when you are lonely and helpless, there is someone with you, and finally you are moved to transfer your love to this person, but it may not be acceptable to a person who has truly loved this way.
Although it is very long and painful to forget a person with time, for me, I am willing to bear it, and when I am completely numb, I will accept others with my new self.
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If you can't help it, you can reconcile.
Your life is for you to see, not for others to judge. If the other party didn't break up because of a matter of principle, but just a decision you made on impulse, you can bow your head to the other party and admit your mistakes and reconcile. In this way, you will not be troubled all the time, and the time in your life when you could have been happy is not much, and why should you choose to worry all the time when you can make yourself happy?
How to get rid of the troubles of love, four suggestions to help you get rid of the troubles of feelings.
Don't think of your "fake breakup" as a game theory.
In the world of love, the big truth can't play a role, and it may not be possible to deal with it by using rational methods to solve problems. Love is not a game theory, it is difficult to distinguish who is right and who is wrong, and there is no such thing as whoever takes the initiative is wrong. If you are more afraid of losing each other than face and who is right and who is wrong, then it means that everything that happens is not as important as him, and don't treat love as a battlefield, and vow to die to divide the winner and loser.
How to get rid of the troubles of love, four suggestions to help you get rid of the troubles of feelings.
Make yourself better after leaving him.
A woman can make her life better after leaving her other half, and she will not let herself suppress her emotions and live a serious and happy life every day. There may be some habits that cannot be easily changed at the beginning, but it only takes 21 days to develop a habit, you only need to replace your original habit with a new one, and it is completely okay to get out of the pain of falling out of love.
How to get rid of the troubles of love, four suggestions to help you get rid of the troubles of feelings.
Break up rationally, don't be reluctant.
If you are very calm and choose to break up, have removed all all misunderstandings and troubles, and finally choose to break up as the result of your love, then you don't want to give up, because everything has been analyzed, but you still choose to break up, which means that your relationship has really come to an end.
How to get rid of the troubles of love, four suggestions to help you get rid of the troubles of feelings.
Love is never reasonable, if you have experienced a long time of long-distance love and suddenly break up, I believe that many people will have some unwillingness and some reluctance, so there will be a stage of hesitation and not knowing how to do it. But if you want to rely on rational thinking to analyze, only by getting rid of the troubles of loss as soon as possible and working hard can you get better love.
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Although it is said that time can dilute everything.
If you still love him, you can't forget it.
If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.
Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.
If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.
If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?
If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.
You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?
Time will make you forget it.
If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.
If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.
I hope the landlord can be happy!!
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Go ask for more! What the hell is the reason! Don't let yourself regret it! ~
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It's hard to forget him. Because I've been through it too, but if you really forget about it, he thinks about his bad things. I want him to do something sorry for himself.
As long as it takes a long time, it will become the most familiar stranger! It would be impossible to really forget him. Unless you're frustrated.
It's simple, fall in love with another person. I've been hurt before. I've been thinking about her even though I've been hurt, but now my wife and I are so sweet that I'm about to forget about her, I don't want her and I don't hate her.
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