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2.Is it domestic violence? If yes, it is not recommended to continue.
3.Of course, looking back, marriage is definitely not so simple, and there are many things to consider, such as some people think about fame, and some people think about life. If each other lives independently, is financially independent, and the relationship between each other is not strong, and it is really not suitable to go on together for life, you can break up and take advantage of your youth.
4.If you choose to continue, you should communicate with each other in depth, find out that everyone still has a common pursuit, a common goal, and live a good life.
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You are also the heart and soul of your parents, and you are also a dignified person, why should you be beaten by him? Mutual respect is the basic principle of getting along with husband and wife, and his use of violence against you shows that he does not respect you at all, so he cannot get along. If he does it again, divorce it, or you'll be hurt constantly!
You can't sustain a marriage alone.
Your happiness is in your own hands, the result of your own choice, not given by others. Be responsible for your own happiness! Be brave enough to say no to unbearable living conditions! The most painful thing is not the tragic encounters, but the "acquiescence" to those encounters.
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You can't change your temper, there's no need to continue.
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I was depressed, so why marry him? Because he's handsome, rich, and has an RV! Can say!
Then it's time for you, men have money and become bad, handsome flowers! Find someone who loves you, loyal and honest! Hey, then again, you can't look at it!
What's wrong with this world, good men can't find their wives, and.
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None of them are right and none of them are wrong.
Reflect on yourself and calm down before making a decision.
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Give him more warmth and try to change him... If not, break up quickly.
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Do you think you can live with him?
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The husband and wife have been married for 5 years, and the husband's temper is very irritable, as a wife, people should consider blindly forbearing, which will have certain benefits for the whole family. After all, two people have been together for 5 years, and the wife has adapted to her husband's temper, and there are many women who just say that they want to leave their husbands, but they can never make the determination to leave their husbands. Because women are accustomed to getting along with their husbands, if the husband only has some temper problems, they can ask the husband to make changes, so that the family can get along better, and women can only choose to live for the sake of their children.
In the relationship, everyone will have their own rights, if a woman feels that the relationship with her husband is not particularly good, she can directly file for divorce from her husband. But the premise is that because they don't have any love for each other, they feel that living with each other is like spending their days like years, and they can't feel the care of their husbands. And the husband is still irresponsible.
is just a waste of women's time to be with such a man who lacks age. It also makes women realize that some trivial things in life are mixed together, and they will think that their lives are not good. <>
In the process of getting along in marriage, no one's life is truly smooth sailing, and women should also learn to tolerate it appropriately in the relationship. A person with a bad temper will slowly recognize his own problems when he sees the blind tolerance of others, or women can change the way they get along with their husbands. Treat your husband with the same attitude as she treats his wife, so that he can discover his own failure.
Because of the relationship between people, many people cannot see their own problems, but they can clearly observe the mistakes of others. <>
During the period of 5 years of marriage, the husband and wife must have children, and they can only choose to endure for the sake of the children. Because many parents want to be a good example for their children in the process of getting along in marriage, as the husband and wife spend more and more time together, you will cherish each other more and more such a marriage.
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I don't think you need to blindly forbear, because the status of two people in potato love is equal, two people should tolerate each other, understand each other, early love can be more long-lasting and beautiful, if you blindly tolerate, it will only make your husband's temper more irritable, you are enjoying life in love, not wronged.
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I don't think so, because if you continue to be patient, then you may need to endure for 10 years, 20 years, or even 30 years, two people together is not only a concession for one party, but also requires two people to work together to maintain a good marital relationship, so at this time you should sit down with your husband and talk about the shortcomings you have and work hard to correct them, so that the relationship between the two couples is getting better and better, and life is getting happier and happier.
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I don't think it's better to be patient, after all, you have been forbearing, and you won't let him change. It may also contribute to his prestige, and you still have to resist.
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This is a very personal question that requires a variety of factors to consider. Before deciding whether or not to continue your married life, it is recommended that you consult and evaluate with a professional marriage counselor or psychologist. Here are some considerations that may be useful:
1.Whether there are still positive and good aspects of the marital relationship. Despite your husband's grumpy temper, if you think there are still positive and good aspects to your marital relationship, consider working to save your marriage.
2.Whether your husband's temper tantrum will cause you physical or psychological harm. If your husband's temper tantrum is severe enough to cause you physical or psychological harm, it is advisable to take timely steps to protect yourself and consider whether a divorce is needed.
3.Have you tried to improve your marital relationship? If you've tried to improve your relationship and still can't fix the problem, you may want to consider whether you need a divorce.
4.Do you feel empowered to handle the situation? Dealing with marital problems requires a high level of emotional maturity and coping skills. If you feel that you are not equipped to handle this situation, you may need to seek professional help.
In conclusion, deciding whether or not to continue married life is a very personal matter that requires a variety of factors to consider. It is recommended that you have a consultation and assessment with a professional marriage counselor or psychologist to help you make an informed decision.
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After seeing what happened to you after marriage, I feel very sympathetic, very surprised that your husband will behave differently before and after marriage, such as Hu Gaoguo, you feel that the other party does not bring you joy after marriage, but more sadness and restraint, in the case of fruitless communication, it is recommended that you still choose to follow your inner thoughts to make a decision.
You mentioned that your husband will lose his temper because of a trivial matter, and you are the weaker party, my personal advice is that if you don't know how to do it now, you should protect yourself for the time being, don't hurt yourself in the quarrel, and try not to quarrel with him if you can sit down calmly and talk about the problem, and protect yourself is the most important thing.
When you are hesitant to make a big choice, it is recommended that you ask your parents or other elders in the family for their opinions, or ask your trusted friends for their opinions, to find out what other people think of your marriage to your husband, and perhaps you should also learn to be tough, after all, the relationship between husband and wife is equal, and you are not the weaker party.
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There are a lot of short-tempered people, and this actually depends on whether you can tolerate it, just live if you can bear it, and separate if you can't bear it.
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When two people are together, no matter what problems they are facing, emotional stability is too important. Because under the premise of emotional stability, we can better think about how to deal with or solve the problems we are facing. If the mood is unstable, there may be a big dispute, which will further intensify the problem, which will be more detrimental to the solution of the problem.
Of course, this also applies to all kinds of relationships, e.g. between relatives, friends, etc.
Bad emotions are contagious.
Bad emotions are contagious, not only hurting yourself, but also hurting others. Because in the case of a bad mood, there are often irrational behaviors such as saying some cruel words, and these behaviors also greatly hurt the other party's heart. It's like a sentence "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June".
How do you control your emotions?
1. First of all, you have to calm down and think about everything before you speak. Don't say hurtful things because of impulsiveness and the quickest moment.
2. Secondly, empathy, think about it from the other party's standpoint, and figure out the reasons for your bad mood, which is more conducive to prescribing the right medicine and solving the problem.
3. Finally, it is to communicate more and communicate more, so that you can understand what both sides think faster.
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I can understand your mood right now.
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