Modern people divorce at every turn, what do they really think?

Because people are under more and more pressure nowadays, sometimes they will quarrel at home for a little thing, and because of a little pressure, the two may fight and have a relationship breakdown, and after a long time, the relationship between the two people has become weaker, so the divorce rate is getting higher and higher.

Now that society is more open, young people have their own ideas, and their understanding of marriage is not particularly profound, it is very likely that they will choose to divorce under impulse because of a small problem.

The main thing is that now modern people's lives are getting better and better, and then they want to live a better life, and if the happiness that this marriage brings to them is not as strong as when they were single, they will consider divorce.

Now the material and living standards are very high, and the reason for divorce at every turn is that since it is not suitable, there is no need to force it, both parties will not rely on each other, and their self-ability is also strong, so there is no need to wronged themselves.

It is probably because they feel that the society is so open now, and they don't necessarily have to force themselves, if they are unhappy in their marriage, of course, they have to divorce and find their happiness again.

Modern people are different from our parents, and nowadays people will not swallow their anger, they will not tolerate each other in marriage, and if two people have a bad relationship, they will divorce.

Because people nowadays are very yearning for freedom, and they are very open-minded now, they divorce at every turn without any fear.

Because many people don't value marriage now, they think that marriage and divorce are very casual things, and they can find the next one if they divorce if they are not suitable.

Because two people can't get by, they feel that those who can't get along should leave instead of torturing each other.

Because today's young people are very avant-garde and very impulsive, and in many cases they are also very impulsive when they get married, so they will not expose their problems until they get married.

Because they are particularly impulsive, and they don't have any emotional foundation, they don't particularly like each other.

They are now more serious about their feelings, if it is not for what they like or is not suitable, they will not settle.

With the development of science and technology, the problems between people have also changed with the changes in life, and people's thoughts have also changed, and they will no longer think about red tape about divorce.

1. Changes in the social environment: In recent years, the social environment has undergone great changes, and the progress and development of society have greatly improved people's living standards, but it has also brought some problems, such as: social competition has become more intense, the pressure on the family has become greater, and the contradictions between husband and wife have become more.

2. Mental factors: In modern society, people's mental pressure has become greater, and the communication between husband and wife has become less.

3. Changes in social concepts: With the development of the social Zen code society, people's concepts have also changed greatly, and the contradictions between husband and wife are considered to be solvable, and if the contradictions between husband and wife cannot be resolved, they will choose to divorce.

4. The impact of laws and policies: With the development of the law, the threshold for divorce has become lower, and the divorce process has become more convenient, making divorce a viable option, which will lead to an increase in the divorce rate.

First, at this stage, only children account for a large part of the male and female, and the mode of getting along with husband and wife is prone to problems. According to the survey selected from the report, most of them were only children who had been married for 2 to 7 years in the past two years. In the process of growing up as an only child, many lack the skills to get along with their peers, and many people may have problems such as ego, selfishness, willfulness, and temper.

Therefore, after getting married, two people with similar personalities are together, and they will inevitably not give in to each other, and when the conflict occurs, they will not give in to each other, so it will cause marital conflicts, and when they are irreconcilable, they will choose to divorce.

The second is that the time spent together before marriage is long, the relationship has been burned out in advance, and when you enter the marriage, you often lack ideas to solve the problem. Men and women at this stage often have a period of free love before getting married, and the premarital cohabitation phenomenon is widespread, so that many unmarried men and women have actually entered the marriage mode in advance, but it is different from real marriage, so some contradictions and problems can not really be reflected. When you enter the marriage, those hidden problems will be highlighted, and you lack the idea to solve the problem, and you will be disappointed in the state of the marriage, which is also the reason why many people complain about each other and are different before and after marriage.

Third, the sense of responsibility in marriage is not strong, and they will break up if they don't agree. The concept of freedom of marriage has deepened, and there is freedom to marry and divorce. Therefore, it gives the illusion that divorce is a right.

It is a fashion of the concept of marriage, and I feel that I am a modern youth and have a sense of progress. Therefore, when encountering marital problems, instead of trying to find a way to solve them, they easily exercise this right to freedom and regard divorce as an inevitability.

In fact, sometimes it's angry, sometimes it's helpless, but most of it is just talking, after all, it's a husband and wife, and they get married because they love each other, so it's impossible to divorce so easily.

I have also heard that many men also like to talk about divorce at every turn. I have the impression that men are less good at and unwilling to communicate than women. Although this is called a stereotype by many people, it is true that most of the male protagonists in the stories I have seen and heard are.

When a couple argues, a woman can talk about her feelings and needs for hours without stopping, but a man doesn't. They don't know how to deal with the chatter, they don't know how to solve the moment, they just want to escape, they just want to be quiet, and a word of "divorce" can simply and brutally achieve this ultimate goal.

And the more simple and crude people insist on a black-and-white mode of thinking, where the husband is either a good man or a bad man, and the wife is either a good woman or a bad woman. When there is a conflict between two people, it is obviously not so serious, and there is still room for negotiation, in their opinion, there are only two options: separation and non-separation.

When you were young, you quarreled every day, and when you were old, you still walked with each other's hands. This dedication is true love! When you started, you wantonly said, we are true love, we want to get married, and after getting married, you find that all these routines are not right, and you shout that you can't go on, and you want a divorce or something.

Your true love is so cheap!

Because when you are angry, you will lose your mind, you will become impulsive, and when you are impulsive, you will say something that is inconsistent, and when you are angry, you will regret it, so don't talk nonsense when you are angry.

Because in their opinion, divorce can solve some problems. Without seriously thinking about it, the real problem is with themselves, not with the marriage itself.

Because there are more and more divorced people now, everyone thinks that divorce is normal, and no one will think that it is unusual, and people who like to say that they want to divorce at every turn must not know how much harm divorce brings.

Because when you are angry, you are very impulsive, and when you are impulsive, it is easy to say something more extreme, but in fact, this is not the true thought in your heart, but you just want to scare the other party.

Because they feel that saying divorce can make the other party give in, many people like to talk about divorce at every turn, but in fact, this practice is very stupid.

Because when the emotion reaches that peak, it will involuntarily say divorce, but most of the divorce that is said during a quarrel is not credible. Real divorces are peaceful.

Because many people are very impulsive when they quarrel, they will blurt out some very excessive words, such as divorce and the like.