What should I do if no one wants to help when my family dies?

When a family member dies, no one wants to helpOf course, it is to say good things and beg people everywhere, relatives, friends, colleagues, neighbors, classmates, ......It's really not okay to spend money to find someone to helpThere are shops that specialize in one-stop funeral services.

1. Say all the good things and ask for <> everywhere

I usually don't walk around with everyone, but now that someone in the family has died and no one comes to help, this scene is also very embarrassing.

What to do? The deceased is the greatest, of course, it is necessary to seize the time to deal with the aftermath.

No one wants to help, so they can only be cheeky and beg people everywhere, say good things everywhere, and this is the only way to do it.

Stretch out your hand and don't hit the smiling person, as long as you can handle the funeral for your family, nod your head, and accompany the smiling face, even if you kneel.

People say whatever they want when they go, and when they need help, and if they can't find someone, they have to find a way to find someone.

As long as the attitude is sincere, you will get help from others.

Society is a big family, and everyone is willing to help the disadvantaged.

I won't stand by and take the initiative to help.

After getting help from others, you must thank them in person, and you can give them some gifts to express your sincerity and gratitude.

02. Spend money to find someone to take care of the aftermath <>

If you go around begging for help, no one is willing to help, and the last way is to spend money to find someone to take care of the aftermath.

Ordinary people often say that money can make ghosts grind, and as long as money can solve things, it is not a problem.

There are many who are engaged in the funeral service industry.

one-stop service, no need to ask for help, as long as you are willing to spend money, you can handle the family's funeral affairs very properly.

Such people are very easy to find, usually given to funeral homes.

Hit ** and there will be relevant people to contact.

If you want others to help you, it's better to spend money to find someone to take care of the aftermath.

As long as you are willing to spend money, there is nothing that cannot be done, and when a family member dies, there is no need to save money at this time, and the money that should be spent will be spent.

Epilogue <>

The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article.

People must understand the world, live in the crowd, and don't seem to be mavericks.

Without relatives, friends, colleagues, etc., it will cause psychological problems after a long time.

If you have more contact with people, you will accumulate valuable experience in life, and at the same time, you will have connections.

If there is something white at home, others will take the initiative to helpUsually don't hand it over, and when it's time to use it, there is no one, so you can only blame yourself for this matter.

Then after you are done with everything by yourself, don't contact these people anymore, people have always needed charcoal in the snow rather than icing on the cake.

You should find some of your relatives and friends or find some of your own relatives, these people will definitely come to help you, and you will have a good way of dealing with the aftermath.

When you encounter such a thing, you can choose to spend money to find some professionals to help, which will also reduce a certain burden on yourself.

You can find the relevant funeral agency, they will take care of these things, and the ** will not be too high.

Netizen contributions: My family died, but my popularity was relatively poor, and no one came to help, what should I do?

It can't be helped, whether it's urban or rural. The popularity is poor, and the corpse can't even get out of the door. You can only hire people, and spend money to hire people to carry them.

This kind of person also has the advantage of saving money for banquets and thanking the Red and White Council. This is much cheaper than setting up a banquet for the help of the old folks. It's just not good.

At most, it will cost tens of thousands of dollars to solve the problem. I haven't even had a friend in my life, and I don't know if I'm bored when I'm alive. What are the ups and downs, how do you get through them?

How can he send his previous generation without the help of friends and family?

Now there is a one-stop funeral service everywhere, and there is a lot of profit margin in this, and this one without a counteroffer is a fixed price. If this person has no popularity in the village and no money, it is really hard to say, except for the village committee who came out to send it simply, no one else will come forward to help. This is how you treat people, and how people treat you.

Seven grievances and eight indignant people every day, no one should be treated as a good person, and this person with poor popularity cannot be worse. You can't blame people for not helping, people are afraid of helping out of trouble.

Interpersonal relationships and good relationships are accumulated and cultivated in daily life and between people, and they cannot get along overnight.

Especially nowadays, almost all of them are very self-interested. It's like there are very few people who can help, who can do practical things.

In the past, people were honest and virtuous, and they all loved to help others, loved to help, and people with good family conditions often went to help the poor. Just like building a house, weddings, funerals, and neighbors will come to help, even if they don't know strangers will help when they meet, and some people don't eat after helping, so they leave quietly. In the past, you asked the car to carry something, and at that time you didn't need money, but now even a driver's license costs thirty yuan, let alone help!

But no matter what, the deceased is great, no matter how bad the popularity is, there is no reason to be at home! A helping hand in times of distress will be remembered by the parties for the rest of their lives; The indifference in times of crisis will undoubtedly become a feeling that makes them remember those unforgettable days! In the world, less indifference, more warmth!

The question is: Are you one of the spectators when you need to do something?

At this time, the first thing is to ask some friends to help, and then give the other party some benefits, so that the other party will be willing to help you, after all, there is no way to solve this situation alone, you can only ask for help from others.

You can ask your relatives for help, and if you don't have anyone to help, you should be completely dependent on yourself, and don't always think about relying on others.

Ask someone to help, and as long as you're willing to spend money, someone will come and help.

You can invite some professional people to come and handle it, after all, even if someone helps, it is impossible to be perfect, and you still need some professional people to guide.

You can find some relatives of your own, or pay to hire some people to help you, or you can choose some white service people to help.

In such a situation, you can spend money to ask others to help, which can also reduce some of your burden.

The popularity is relatively poor, and no one comes to help when the family members die, what should I do? Truth be told, it's not surprising if this happens in a big city. Because in big cities, people are in their own ways, and there is little contact between neighbors, and no one cares about anything that happens to anyone's family.

But if this kind of thing happens in the countryside, then the family's popularity is really too bad, and it is really embarrassing to encounter this situation. But embarrassment is embarrassment, and the matter has to be solved in front of the eyes. So I think we should do the following:

The host took the initiative to bow his head and bring wine to every houseAlthough this method is very despised by the villagers, the matter has to be solvedWe can't let the deceased lie at home for a long time, not to mention that we are also at fault first. The villagers are very simple, as long as you are willing to bow your head, they are also willing to give you a hand and solve your problems.

If you can afford it, you can hire a professional funeral crewIn today's society, there are many talents from all walks of life, and as long as you can afford it, you can hire some funeral crews. These funeral crews that have only emerged in recent years are very professional, and they will provide you with a one-stop service, from the banquet to the burial, etc., they will handle it properly, and the fee is not too highThis will avoid your usual personnel movements, and can also save you some unnecessary expenses.

But wherever you live, you have to do as the locals do. If you live in a big city, it's normal to hire a funeral team to settle the funeral at home. However, if you live in a rural area, you can also hire a funeral team to solve the funeral problemBut the neighbors also have a great opinion of you, and you yourself feel very embarrassed and can't hold your head up in front of people.

In order to avoid the embarrassment of having no one to help us in vain, we should do it, and we must be present for the affairs of the neighborhood. When the villagers have something, we must take a hand when we have the ability, and the gift is more or less a formality, and it is best for people to be present. In doing so, we are actually accumulating contacts for ourselves, and when we have something, they will consciously come to help.

If you work outside the home all the year round and go to your hometown to participate in the affairs of your hometown, it is indeed too expensive, but you can ask the family members to <> the gifts

Nowadays, many young people have gone out to work, leaving only the elderly at home, and the elderly don't like to crowd in crowded places, so they downplay things in the township. In order to prevent no one from showing up when they encounter things in the future,It is best for the left-behind elderly people at home to give a gift to their neighbors. In this way, even if they don't help you in the future, they will definitely give you gifts when there is something in your family, so that there will be no coldness.

The old man in the village died, the popularity is not good, if you encounter this situation, you can only go to the meal, if no one helps, you can only go to the meal, invite others to be guests, so that you will not feel embarrassed, otherwise it will only be you who will be embarrassed.

In this case, it is better to ask others to help, and you should pay more attention to interacting with people in the village, and don't wait until you need to hire someone before you think of asking someone to help.

In this case, you can ask some professional team to help, and after someone in the family dies, you can also ask these professional teams to help you deal with it.

In my opinion, it is better to count on yourself than on others. But if that's beyond your means, then I think you should put your face down and ask someone for help.

There is no popularity in the village, and no one comes to help when a family member dies, so we can only ask for help from our relatives or some good friends in other places.

I think that when you encounter such a situation, you should contact your relatives and friends in time, and you should also think about how big your own reasons are for such problems.

In this case, you can only bear it by yourself, because this is because you yourself have not built a good interpersonal relationship in normal times, so it will fall to this point now.

In such a situation, you should give your relatives a **, and then let your relatives help, so that you will not be in a hurry.

In this case, you should go to your friends to help you, or take everything on your own and become an independent person.

You can ask professional funeral personnel to deal with it, and now these also have a one-stop service, and you can directly invite them, which is simple and trouble-free.

In such a situation, of course, we have to ask the patriarch to help. Because in the countryside there will be a respected patriarch. So when you have a problem, you should ask our patriarch to help.

1. The patriarch arranges personnel.

Every year before the Chinese New Year, the patriarch will hold a meeting in the village to announce some villagers' regulations, one of which is that after someone dies in the village, no matter how far away you are, each household must come back to help, and each household that does not go home is 1,000 yuan, and if you do not go home more than three times, no one will come to help after the death of the old man in the future. With this rule, the young people in the village will go home to help no matter what. Because everyone has an old man!

After the old man died, the head of the cluster would come and write a notice, and everyone should make a clear arrangement for what to do, and everyone should do their own thing.

2. Recognition of posterity and respect for the deceased.

This kind of white happy event to help, is the recognition of descendants, a manifestation of respect for the deceased, the villagers even if there is a big event to stop, this year in the village two old people died in a row, is the season of rice double robbery, the whole village people have stopped to harvest rice, 6 days in a row to help do things, and finally led to the continuous weather, many villagers of rice sprouted in the rice field, but no one scolded for this, after all, white help is a big thing, is a kind of respect for the dead.

Everyone collects firewood and the flame is high, huddle together for heating is the way of rural development, you help me in rural white things, I help you, you can reduce a lot of expenses, everyone will be old, there are old people in the village after the death of time or go home to help!

Yanzi has lived in the countryside for a long time and has a great understanding of the customs there, so let's talk about this matter today. In order to solve the problem of the death of the elderly in rural areas and no one to help, we need to do the following things: First, other people's families have weddings and funerals, and everyone should actively help, which is called au pair in rural areas.

Second, it is necessary to establish a good reputation among neighbors and relatives. The third is to find someone to help, and you can't let people help in vain.

When an elderly person dies in a rural area, it is not difficult to find someone to help.

First of all, we should have such an understanding, we should not feel as if young people nowadays have gone to work outside, so there is no one to help when it comes to weddings and funerals. In many rural weddings and funerals that Yan Zi has seen, there are still crowds, which shows that there is never a shortage of people to help, so what is the problem?

There is no shortage of help in the countryside.

It is necessary to actively participate in the weddings and funerals of relatives in the township and work for themselves.

Rural people seem to be more particular about courtesy. If someone else has a wedding, funeral, and other people should actively participate in it, and go to help others, these behaviors of yours are generally recorded in the hearts of others, so when you have something in the future, those you have helped will come, then the problem can be solved.

Be active in helping other people's homes and try to get involved.

It is necessary to deal harmoniously with neighbors and relatives.

I encountered such a thing before, the mother of a colleague of mine, their family wanted to repair the house, but as soon as the construction started, many people went to the town to sue them, and found that they did not build illegally. Why did so many people sue him?

If you don't forgive people in your mouth and love to take advantage of small things, of course you don't have friends.

It turned out that my colleague and her mother belonged to the kind of evil in the countryside, especially scolding, and liked to take advantage of small advantages, almost offending many families in the village. Therefore, this kind of person who has a bad relationship with his neighbors has a very bad reputation, so when it comes to weddings and funerals, it may be really difficult to find someone to help. So it's really important to be kind to others, to be kind to others, to help others is actually to help yourself.

To build a good relationship and have your own circle of friends.

Those who help should be rewarded.

It seems impossible to find someone to help without paying the price, and rural people call this ignorant or unreasonable. Therefore, if you ask someone to do something, you must give red envelopes to others, settle down with food, give cigarettes and drink, and ask people to do things, and give people thanks must be said in the mouth, so that there will generally be no shortage of helpers.

ConclusionIf you want to solve the problem of no one to help after the death of the elderly, you must first do a good job yourself, such as establishing a good reputation among rural neighbors and establishing a good relationship between villagers and neighbors. It is better to actively help than when others have something, and to the people who help themselves, they must be committed and paid, if they can do this, all problems can basically be solved.

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