Is it a single minded person who still wants to be chased by many people?

I don't dare to say that all emotionally dedicated people think so, but this situation must exist. Because there is no conflict between emotional single-mindedness and the desire to be favored by others.

First of all, I think that the more emotionally dedicated people are, the more cautious they are when choosing their partners, and they dare not easily surrender their feelings. In this case, they will of course want to have a plethora of suitors available to them. In addition, the more people pursue you, the more you can show your personal charm, no matter who you are, you will be a little vanity, and being pursued by many people can really satisfy a person's vanity greatly.

Presumably, there must have been people around you who like others because they are liked, and they are with that person because they like the feeling of being liked by others.

Secondly, most people who think like this lack self-confidence, so they want to prove that they are worthy of being liked by others, and when they can fully realize the flashing light in themselves, they will no longer pin their own recognition of their value on others.

Then, if the person he likes wholeheartedly can give him positive feedback, then he will definitely not have this desire to be pursued again. Being able to be liked by the person you like is something that is liked by a hundred suitors, and it adds up to the satisfaction of the person who is emotionally single-minded.

However, although they want to be liked by others, it does not mean that they will like those who pursue them, in their hearts, they are still very loyal to the people they identify, and there is no need to worry about them being swayed by the people they like because they are pursued.

For example, celebrities, especially those stars with super popularity, many of their fans must be very eager to pursue their idols, but for stars with so many suitors, what they hope most is to be able to make the people they like become their fans, right? If your favorite person can become your fan, even if your original fan is gone, right?

I think this is why some celebrities are willing to take great risks to publicly admit their relationship when they are in their prime, just to give each other a name.

If your lover or your significant other still has many suitors after being with you, and if you believe in this person's feelings for you, then even if he thinks that he is a little proud of his style, he may just deliberately want you to be jealous. I believe that he will definitely keep his bottom line.

Like to be chased is a matter of vanity, it is undeniable that everyone has vanity, but not everyone will be controlled by vanity, if you are easy to control vanity, then you can't be single-minded, since you are a single-minded person, you will not let vanity in this regard, even if the most primitive idea in the heart should still want a lot of people to chase, but you can suppress your own desires. This is the difference between a single-minded person and a normal person.

As far as this question is concerned, the question is the true inner thoughts of this attentive person, that is, whether there is any resistance to this kind of being chased by many people? Everyone wants to be excellent, and everyone likes to become, which is the most basic self-motivation of people, which is undeniable. And although vanity is a derogatory term most of the time, everyone understands in their hearts that no one will not have vanity, even if he is excellent, he will definitely have vanity, which everyone has.

Therefore, no matter how single-minded that person is, in terms of satisfying vanity, even if he doesn't like it very much, he will never reject it, so it can be said that he wants to be chased by many people in his heart, but this does not constitute a turning point with his single-mindedness, so single-mindedness and hope that vanity will be satisfied, that is, the act of hoping to be chased by many people is not in conflict.

It's not that single-minded people have to put an end to other emotions and six desires, which is certainly not possible, but many times, I have to say that their self-control is definitely not comparable to us. Therefore, these people still have a lot of advantages that we can learn from, and as for vanity, everyone has it, so naturally there is no need to make any judgments.

Being chased by many people means being liked by many people and recognized by many people. Whether this kind of liking and recognition, whether it is outward or internal, it is a very happy thing. I think everyone wants to be liked and recognized.

Therefore, in the heart of a dedicated person, he also wants to be chased by many people, but it does not mean that he is not single-minded.

If you can be chased by many people, it is a reflection of your charm. I've always thought it's nice to be chased by others, but being chased by too many people can cause trouble. Therefore, only people who are really chased by many people can experience this feeling, and we, as ordinary people, still can't experience this kind of trouble.

Hoping to be chased by many people does not mean that you are not single-minded, because if you are not chased by others, you will agree to others, others will chase you, this is a recognition of you, you only recognize others, will you agree to others' pursuit. Therefore, there is no necessary connection between not wanting to be chased by others and being really single-minded.

Just imagine, if a person is very ordinary in all aspects, will others chase her? If she looks average and has average ability, then she is not attractive at all, and everyone wants to be better. So hoping to be chased by many people is also a kind of self-requirement.

Because you yourself have to be excellent to be chased by many people. However, many people want to be chased by others, which is also a manifestation of vanity. In general, it can be a hassle to be chased by others, because you have to think about how to respond to others, and the way others chase you may also be troubled in your life.

However, ordinary people like us can't experience it.

I think that a person who is very single-minded in her heart can only show that she is very serious about her feelings, and if she recognizes one thing, she will move forward bravely, regardless of herself, regardless of any obstacles. But single-mindedness and being chased by many people are two different concepts. Recognizing one thing and fighting for it can only show that she has a very resolute character and is not disturbed by the outside world.

Being chased by many people shows that she is very attractive, which can boost her self-confidence. Why don't you want to be chased by a lot of people? <>

I've heard my teacher talk about it before. She asked her daughter if she had been chased when she was studying. Her daughter said no.

Then he was very disappointed and said that why is your charm so small, you have to continue to work hard. Therefore, in everyone's heart, whether old or young, at least in my opinion, she still hopes to be chased by many people, which is an affirmation of herself. And she will meet different people in the process of being chased.

There are a lot of people who will care about her very much. If a person likes you, then he will care about all your things. Surrounded by such a love, I believe that no one can refuse.

Because even if a person is strong, no matter how hard she behaves, she is still eager to be loved, eager to be noticed by others and eager to be recognized by others. So if your friend or your partner is being chased by a lot of people. I don't think you need to be jealous or anything.

It means that your vision is very good, and you have a crush on her, which means that you are excellent because she chose you. If you're in a situation where you're being chased by a lot of people, I think you should be thankful. Or at least you shouldn't hurt those who love you.

But what the outside objects do to you is still very big. You can't be half-hearted, you still have to identify the most determined things in your heart. At the same time, I don't think you should play ambiguous with anyone.

If you don't like someone, you should refuse in a gentle way, instead of hanging on to them and talking to another person, which I think is a very immoral behavior.

In this society where everyone wants to get true love, how much true love exists, and many people think that if a person can always love someone single-mindedly, then this person must love her and can do whatever she wants, and can forgive all his little willfulness.

In fact, everyone longs to be loved in their hearts, some people will always be very good to other people because of love, and will always be very dedicated to love, but what can be done in this way, so it can't prove that a person loves you completely, because you don't know if he loves your colleague or not, whether he will still be so good to others, all you can see is that you think he is very good to you, that's all.

In this era of lack of love, we all desire to be loved and cared for, no matter boys and girls will have more or less such thoughts, but this does not mean that it is because of weak character or what, in fact, this is because we live in this busy society, parents are running for a career to give us a better life, so some people will feel that they lack love, so their hearts are eager to be protected, of course, there will be a strong sense of happiness when being chased by more people.

When you make a choice between a person who loves you and the person you love, you will definitely choose those who love you instead of what you love, and slowly you will find that only those who love you will never abandon you, and those you love will only be completely dependent on him when you are good to him and care for him. This is why most people now choose a person who loves themselves rather than themselves, so I think that no matter whether someone is very dedicated to you or not, but in his heart he is eager to be loved, no matter how the person around you is, cherish and love him, because everyone will eventually choose a person who loves themselves instead of themselves.

It has nothing to do with many people chasing one, and single-mindedness only likes one even if many people chase it.

What is single-mindedness? People who are afraid to take risks and try new people because of fear. It is the nature of animals to want to be chased, and if you have the psychology, others will also have it.

I think tolerance is very important in love, but mutual respect is also inevitable, I don't care about your feelings at all, always use cold treatment to solve the problem, at first you can be tolerant, but this is just a time and time again to consume your patience and love for her, I think it is best if you can communicate clearly with her, if you can't communicate clearly, just do yourself, go with the flow.

Everything has a law, such as a dream bubble, such as dew and electricity, should be viewed as such, and there is no separation from the fear of the Buddha.

However, sometimes it is annoying to face many suitors, how to say, being chased by people you like, of course, if you don't like it, you must want to treat him, people are the same, everyone has a love for beauty.

No matter what the boy is, the first feeling of a girl being chased by someone usually swells up with a sense of superiority, and then she will judge the boy by her own eyes.

Of course I was happy. Some people chase to show that they are excellent, and there are many people who chase them, which means that girls are super attractive, but it also depends on what kind of person the girl is chasing, and it also depends on the environment in which the girl is chased by many people, but no matter what, it is a happy thing for a girl to be chased, and it also proves that she is charming!

It can also be annoying. A vain woman may find it cool and like to show off to others to show how popular she is. But some women like a simple life, and having someone who truly loves them and likes each other is the best arrangement from God.

This kind of seemingly enviable thing may also be a kind of trouble for the person concerned. You think that she is thirsty, someone hands water from school, someone follows home, and someone is hungry, and someone makes an appointment to eat, but in fact, the trade-off in her heart is very messy, and it is difficult to maintain a relationship with every boy who chases her, and it is difficult to maintain a balance.

Not necessarily, there are many suitors for beautiful girls, that's a certainty. However, it is not necessary that every girl will be cool if she has more suitors. There are always people who harass and some girls are annoyed.

Only a girl with a strong sense of vanity may find it cool and like to show off to others, but to show how popular she is. But many girls like a simple life, and having someone who truly loves them and likes each other is the best arrangement from God.

Not necessarily! If there is a boy who is attracted to the girl to pursue him, he will definitely be happy and happy in his heart! But if you don't like the type, refuse and stalk, the girl is more distressed, rather than secretly very cool!

This depends on what kind of character the girl is, it's good that a lot of people chase her, but if you want to end up she can only be with one person, material girls may like to feel this way and enjoy the process. And some girls may pursue a quiet life, and they don't need to be pursued by many people, which brings her trouble and disturbs her original life.