For a relationship that shouldn t have started in the first place, how to face it every day after it

Think more about your family. Job. Your life is not all love, but also a large part of family affection.

Think about whether your parents would worry about you if they were so sad. You will encounter many forks in the road of your life. If you're miserable every time, will you be able to make it to the end?

The last person is waiting for you at that intersection. Don't you want to be happy to meet him? Life is good.

It's normal to encounter ups and downs in life, and the key is whether you can be strong. It doesn't matter, you didn't live for him. Open as long as you want.

Everything doesn't matter. Without him, you have a happy chat with your friends and family, crazy shopping, and serious work. There are still a lot of things that need to be done for you, as long as you don't think about it deliberately, don't think about it.

Throw everything about him out. His one is still waiting for you at a distant intersection, come on! In addition to him, there are many blessings from your relatives and friends.

Let go of your mind and face everything calmly.

Memories have no power. Sometimes we are afraid to recall how we were in love with our lovers. In fact, it's just that I can't let go of this relationship for a while.

We are human beings, and we will have an attachment after being together for a long time. You'll be scared to think back to being with her, and you'll regret letting her go at the time. In fact, this is just a situation where one can't let go of himself.

Someone once said that time can change everything. I believe that one day you will be able to face your memories calmly.

I think you're too tired of yourself, it's over, you should let go of your psyche, hold on, it will only make yourself more painful, in the face of the place you once loved, I don't think you should deliberately restrain yourself to forget, or to remember, no one can help you, let time dilute him

People, if you make a mistake once, you should sum up your experience, and if you are hurt once, you should change something, whether you are too persistent with the same mentality and the same way for every love, will you sometimes be too extreme, so that others feel pressured and you still don't know, causing them to make you sad

Learn to turn your head in style.

No matter how uncomfortable you are, hold back yourself, don't let people look down on you.

Pretend not to care.

And it's not a big deal.

There will be more loved ones in the future.

I've had a similar experience, where I've had to face the cottage we used to live in, the place where we laughed together, after she left, but then I focused on everything at work and everything became so unimportant!

It's better to have nostalgia than an empty blank, you have to think so, at least there is something to recall, and it also proves that you have never been lonely, for the true you, what is not satisfied?

I just want to say to you, if you are cowardly, others will hurt you again and again, you have to learn to get what you want, and let go of what you don't want, and your life will be better.

There is a kind of love called letting go.

If the relationship we are talking about is destined to end and there are only 24 hours left, I will do my best to cherish every second of time left, handle the relationship with the person I love rationally, and put down the burden and look up at these three points. 1. If there are only 24 hours left in love, I will cherish every second and spend this last day with my lover. When there are only 24 hours left in the relationship, the first thing I want to do is to cherish every second of my present time and spend this last good time with my lover.

We will make the most of all the time in this last day, do what we love, and find ways to keep each other happy and happy, so that the relationship can end in a good atmosphere and leave good memories for ourselves. 2. I will deal with the relationship with my lover rationally in these last 24 hours. During the period when two people are in love with Lu Lingjian, a lot of things will happen to each other in the process of dating.

Some of these things are very warm, some are very romantic, but there will also be conflicts between each other because of different views. When there are only 24 hours left in the relationship, you should try your best to deal with the problems that have not been properly resolved between the two people, so that these things will not affect each other's future lives, so that each other can not be affected by the previous things after 24 hours, and can start a new life with relief. 3, since there are only 24 hours left in love, then Zao He has to look up and look forward.

If your love can last forever, then your future life is to manage this relationship well and rely on the person you love. However, since there are only 24 hours left in this relationship, I will have to start my life again in the future. At this time, all you have to do is to look up and look forward, welcome the new life with a positive and optimistic attitude, and pursue the perfect love that truly belongs to you.

In this way, you can live happily, love sweetly, and be happy every day in the future.

Many times we start a relationship, not because we love, but because we feel that we need a relationship at this time, and it starts! It's about falling in love for the sake of falling in love, and it's usually a lose-lose situation! So how do you reduce the damage and end this relationship that shouldn't have started?

First of all, no matter what the purpose is, when starting a relationship, you should respect and understand each other. In the process of getting along, you should not embarrass each other, make each other feel faceless, or can't get down the stairs. So, by creating contradictions, creating conflicts, making the other person disappointed in you, angry with you, and choosing to leave recently, this method is not advisable, so that not only does not respect the other person, but also does not respect yourself.

Secondly, when you have made up your mind and are ready to end the relationship. Be sure to be honest about your feelings and thoughts, suggest that you have a showdown with the other person, clearly and clearly express your heart, even if it will cause harm to the other person, express it. If you are not in a suitable relationship, there will always be problems together, since it is not suitable, don't drag the mud and water, be brave and be yourself, dragging not only can not solve the problem, but also cause more harm to the other party!

Once you decide to break up, then bravely express your views, even if you are blamed by the other party, or even misunderstood, all the consequences must be borne by yourself, and you must bear the results of your original choice!

To sum up, it is not easy to start a relationship, and it is not easy to end one. If you are destined to be together, you can go down together, if you can't be together, you can say goodbye bravely and honestly, you don't have to add too much drama to yourself, everyone can see it. Finally, I hope everyone can treat feelings carefully, feelings are not child's play!

The beginning of a relationship is of course enviable, but since it has been found that this relationship is not suitable, then you should cut through the mess quickly and make it clear to the other party immediately! This may not be well accepted by the other party, but it is important to know that if the wrong relationship continues, it will only be very painful in the end. Instead of being in such pain that you can't help yourself later, it's better to end the relationship decisively now, which is good for both parties.

Everyone hopes to find the right person and start the most correct and beautiful relationship, but we all know in our hearts that the right love affair is not something we can control, fate is a wonderful thing, love may be in the next second, maybe you need to meet a few passers-by, so that life is more colorful. Therefore, before you meet the right person, you must reject the wrong person in time and decisively, which will allow you to adjust your mood in time and embark on the journey of finding true love again.

The wrong relationship, even if it is broken, will make you continue to look for the right person. If you keep procrastinating, after a long time, not only will you be physically and mentally exhausted, but the other party will always be immersed in the beautiful illusion you set up for him and can't extricate yourself, which is almost unfair to both of you! Your procrastination and the other party's deep depression at the last moment of breakup will only taste full of bitterness and sadness.

You won't even believe in love! After all, the beauty you have lived in for so long is just a dream, and when you wake up from the dream, everything returns to reality, and this gap is really unacceptable.

So when you find out that your relationship is wrong, talk to the other person to see what the problem is at all, if it is not suitable then see you as soon as possible, if it is a love vignette, then talk about it well to make the relationship last longer and better!

If both parties think that the relationship should not be started, then when the relationship needs to end, as long as both parties can reach a consensus, the relationship can be ended very quickly.

If it's just that you unilaterally think that this is a relationship that shouldn't start. At the end of that, it is extremely necessary to have a certain amount of communication and communication with the other party.

When you are in a relationship that you unilaterally think should not start, then you should first express your true thoughts to your boyfriend or girlfriend, mainly to tell him that you are not optimistic about this relationship in your heart, how this relationship should not start, mainly to explain to the other party why this is a relationship that should not start, and you must speak very rationally when communicating and communicating, and consider the other party, and let the other party realize that your idea is correct. Then get the other person to accept your views and practices, and finally come to a consensus, and then end the relationship.

If the other party can't accept your views and opinions, then it is easy for two people to have conflicts. Because what you think is wrong, and what he thinks is right. A person who insists on leaving will definitely bring harm to the person who sticks to his post, and it is easy for the other person to hate you.

Therefore, at this time, you should not push the other party too hard, and then you should comfort the other party, and when the other party's emotions slowly stabilize, you should slowly continue to explain your thoughts and opinions to the other party. I believe that if it is really a relationship that should not have started, then sooner or later the other party will agree to end it.

If you really feel that being with the other person is a thing that you shouldn't do, then cut through the mess and don't hesitate anymore. The most taboo thing about feelings is procrastination.

If you do decide to cut off contact with the other person, do so as soon as possible. The longer you drag it on, the more painful it will be. Knowing that you shouldn't start, you should have controlled your mood in the first place.

It's hard to say anything about love. However, in any case, we can't procrastinate and hesitate in the face of feelings. If there's really no hope, then don't let yourself sink into it anymore.

Although it is very painful to ask you to separate from each other. After all, long pain is better than short pain. If you really don't have any hope of being together, then why bother? It's good for each other to let go sooner.

So, let's not overestimate the status of a person in our hearts, no one is irreplaceable. Now that you've decided to end the relationship, you have to cut through the mess and stop getting entangled with the other person.

If you really feel that you shouldn't start, let's make it clear for so long, there's no need to think too much, if you insist on delaying it, it will be worse for both parties in the future, and sometimes it's more unburdensome to be direct.

Or if you feel that the other person is okay and you are likely to accept him if you get along, then you can also choose to try it.

In fact, a relationship that should not have started should end as soon as possible, and you don't need to care what others think, even if others think you just want to have fun, you know that you are not on the line, for your own good and for the good of the other party, don't care too much about other people's opinions, just stick to what you want to do.

In fact, sometimes this kind of thing is very difficult, for example, some men will confess to you in front of everyone, at this time, because there are too many people, if you refuse directly, you are afraid of hurting her face, so most women will choose to accept it first, and then explain the situation tactfully in private, which is actually nothing, maybe he will be disappointed, but he will be moved by your behavior, and will not blame you.

In fact, it's good to be direct, maybe the other party won't be able to accept it at first, but after a long time, she will definitely understand you, not everyone can't accept other people's directness, especially this kind of emotional problem, the more direct it is, the less damage it will cause. And people should be selfish in life, even if they know that they will hurt each other, but there are some things you must learn to be ruthless.

Some feelings are not worth their constant giving, so they boldly leave when they should leave.

If you say you will break up, you will break up, and if you say you will leave, you will leave. Sometimes we need to be decisive, life can't afford to be wasted, and we have been grinding, so why bother? You shouldn't have started in the first place, and you know it in your own heart, so don't delay the time, just pick out that you want to break up and leave.

Isn't it okay to walk a little more freely? Wouldn't it be nice to start thinking about a new life again? The best way to end a bad relationship is to just go.

It's not ruthless, it's just not muddy. Be a casual and rational person.

By spending our time where we should be spent, we can make our careers better, we can make our studies better, and we can care more about our families. Maybe we don't have much time in the first place, and it's a fool's errand to spend time with someone who doesn't make sense. No one wants their life to be confined to anything, do they?

Be a smart person and know that without whom, we can all live well. Your own time is very important, maybe the other party doesn't take you seriously at all, so it's better to make good use of your time and live a better life.

Just don't get in touch anymore. Some people say that they can still be friends after breaking up, but in fact, in some cases, many people are unwilling to be friends with their ex, not to mention a relationship that should not start, and it should no longer be in touch, right? The most important thing is to make your life easier, if you are still bound by the things of the past, then you must not be happy.

We have reason to choose to give up, because we all have the right to choose happiness. If you don't get in touch, you will reduce the intersection, and then you will naturally get used to not having contact, and you will find that it doesn't matter if you don't have such a person.