A girl who can t speak becomes a girl who can speak

I also usually like to lock myself in the house, I don't like to play and I like to read! But I still like to surf the Internet!!

Hehe! A class of people! Introverts! But I'm a boy!

yes, alas, I'm like this, I don't know what to say to people, and during this time I came into contact with a good girl, and I like her very much, but I just don't know how to talk. Alas! Sorrowful.

It's not easy, I'm a boy who doesn't like to talk, and I also want to change the following. It's a bit hard.

You are the same as I used to be, but I can't do it now, I have become cheerful, but it is not something that can be achieved in a short period of time, to accumulate slowly, I am by hosting speeches, dancing and sports activities so that I can exercise myself, and I will be integrated with everyone, I naturally have something to say, in short, I must intentionally challenge myself to exercise myself, there will be times when I make mistakes and am very embarrassed, don't take him seriously, others will soon forget it, summarize my experience more, and dare to speak to be able to speak.

In fact, the easiest way is to have a more outgoing and cheerful friend by your side, let him (she) infect you, don't be too deliberate, time can change you My friend and I are such a happy couple.

You go out and make more friends, and when you make a real confidant, you will tell her everything on your mind, and the most important thing is to go out and exercise yourself!

In fact, I asked the same question on QQ last week, but they gave me a good answer, be confident, read more books, not be timid, and have more contact with others.

If you don't mind, let's make friends.

Similar to me, I've tried, but I can't change it. It should be hard for me to change my personality.

Same as I used to, but now it's better.

I'm also a girl who doesn't like to talk, and I can't find a topic with my friends. So I just go online, and there is a big difference between online and offline, maybe because I don't have to face real people online, and some things can be said more freely.

Every time you don't want to speak, you force yourself to speak, you can say it in the mirror when you're alone, and the language of introverts is also a level, that is, shyness, as long as you overcome this level, it's no problem.

Since you haven't been very good at talking to girls since you were a child, then you should practice more, and you should try not to meet that girl first.

Lest she find you boring and lose interest in you if you have too much contact, but you must keep in touch and text or something.

I don't know what to say if I text it.

Then ask your friend.

Especially the kind of heterosexual relationship is better.

You can start by making friends with girls who are more generous and get along with you, but don't feel that way at all.

Play with them more.

Talk to them more.

See what they like.

What do you like to talk about.

Try to thicken your skin

The night before you meet her, get ready to go.

Think about what to talk about when the time comes.

Ask her what questions and what actions to write.

Hands should be there.

I don't know where to put it when I get nervous.

That's all I can think of...

What is there to be afraid of, you remember to chat with a girl, try to find topics that the other person is interested in, ask her what she likes, what hobbies she has, and then try to find common ground between you.

As long as you can do what I say, I believe that not only will you not be cold, but you will have a good time.

I can have a second time, and I'm basically already a little bit of a good feeling, just let it go.

I see that you are also more shy, watch more of Zhou Xingxing's spoofs, funny, and exercise your guts.

Don't be afraid of the cold field, and when the time comes, you will naturally be hot-headed and talk about something.

If it really doesn't work, just pull her around and say something, what's beautiful, or something.

Hee-hee, that's basically impossible.

Unless hee-hee. You let go of those heavy thoughts.

Can you consider her a good friend for many years?

Maybe hee-hee.

Relax and lose your face.

Quick-witted, eloquent, and articulate.

Articulate Eloquent.

I can blow straw into gold bars.

Since you hate it, you need to change it slowly and have the confidence and patience to help you exercise.

This has a lot to do with personality Expand your life circle more Meet and contact some good friends with cheerful personalities You can also often look at the mirror at home and practice speaking in the mirror You can put some of the words you think in your heart Prepare a speech in an orderly manner Practice speaking in the mirror Read more books on this subject Have confidence in yourself If you don't believe in yourself, you will become more and more afraid Provide yourself with more opportunities to speak When you have time, sit down and think slowly and summarize your own problems are ** Write down the time or times when you feel successful or satisfied with your interactions, and record the same times when you are dissatisfied or unsuccessful, and make comparisons, which will help you discover your root problem, including who you are talking to, what topics, how you use words, how you say them, and summarize them like this, and slowly you will become what you are satisfied with, and you need to plan and change in that direction to have the possibility of achieving what you want.

Take your time and improve yourself in work practice!

Eloquence is not achieved by a setback, but requires the accumulation of knowledge and active cultivation.

First of all, you have to be bold to speak, you must first learn to observe some details of others, to see how others can speak well

If you want to succeed, you must be eloquent, don't be weak, don't be afraid of being embarrassed, in fact, speaking in a public place, everyone will inevitably have stage fright and panic, this is hell, cross this hell, it is heaven, everyone can try to step out of hell. So don't let those boring faces and self-esteem mess up your life, go crazy and say what is in your heart!

Like me, it's customary to listen rather than take the initiative to speak.

We feel the same way, and we work together.

Some young students often suffer from their lack of communication and introversion. Some of them are personalities that have been cultivated over many years. Can you change this personality and develop the ability to be sociable?

As the saying goes: "The country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult to change." That's not entirely true.

"Difficult to move" does not mean that it cannot be moved. With the reform and opening up of society, the frequency of personal communication and the increase of social practice, and the broadening of knowledge, there will be great changes in personal concepts, consciousness and character. As long as you consciously pay attention to changing your personality, you will get good results.

In addition, it is necessary to establish confidence, put yourself in the right position, find yourself, evaluate yourself correctly, and do not be domineering, nor arrogant, without self-esteem, nor overwhelmed by inferiority. We should live among people with modesty and prudence, without humility or arrogance. The way to change the introverted personality and learn to communicate is also to expand the amount of information you have, read more books, read more newspapers, care about world and national events, expand your knowledge and broaden your horizons, and pay attention to enriching your spare time, such as playing ball and calligraphy

Playing chess, etc., you can increase your interaction in these activities and subtly change your personality.

When it comes to character building, you can do the following: First, make yourself likable and want to be a good friend to others. (1) When you encounter troubles, you may want to assume that you are in a state of happiness and leisure, and over time, you can naturally develop a happy personality.

2) Try to use your free time to do what you like and participate in different activities, so as to expand your social circle and increase your knowledge. (3) Writing down your daily feelings, wishes, and dreams in a "secret diary" will not only help you get rid of your worries, but also help you learn how to express your inner feelings. (4) Don't expect perfection from yourself.

Also pay attention to your own sense of humor.

Second, before you start building friendships with others, think about whether you are genuinely interested in them and whether they will make you happy. (1) Be friendly. (2) Accept the character and viewpoint of others, and do not force others to change.

3) Pay attention to personal style, do not blindly make dedication to friends, friends should be based on the principle of mutual assistance. (4) Tell your friends about your feelings and thoughts, but pay attention to the depth of your fellowship to avoid awkward situations. (5) Understand that true friends have the following characteristics:

will not degrade you to elevate yourself; will keep your secrets; I won't slander you, I won't mind how you are dressed; Diplomatic relations will not be severed outright. (6) We must have a mentality that is willing to change, always be ready for change and change, be flexible and creative, have a democratic and equal character and the spirit of abiding by the law and keeping promises; It is necessary to make people constantly improve their personal skills and be good at dealing with themselves. Modern people should realize that a person's future and life depend on their own skills.

This is a characteristic of today's times.

In addition, while using language in social communication, there is another factor that cannot be ignored, that is, non-verbal factors. What are non-verbal factors? It is the movements, expressions, environment, etc. of our conversation and communication process that affect our communication all the time.

It's all exercised, and if you put him in that kind of environment, you will naturally be able to speak well

Good eloquence is in faith ...

Whatever you say, you have to know why you say it?

You have to believe what you say, and there is a belief that mine is right.

Then, even if you have 10,000 reasons to be able to make what others say is incomplete, don't do it, you have to be reasonable, advance 3 retreat 1, so that your good eloquence can convince others, and you can be regarded as really good eloquence

Deal with others more, or read more famous books, participate in some courses and training courses, and improve yourself. Also cultivate your own interests, such as: dancing, singing, etc.

I think you have to practice this a lot, such as selling things and dealing with people who can speak well, but I think I need to have some talent.

I'm just giving advice, and I'm not going to say it, see if you're useful.

I'll talk about it when I've thought about it, and I'll think about it when I'm done.

Boys who can't talk are cute.

Open your heart and say whatever you want!

It's impossible to be able to speak all at once.

You're going to grab something she's interested in.

Hurry up and investigate her preferences.

It's easy for you to watch more movies.

There's a lot of teaching people to talk, chasing girls, whatever, etc., and if you see more, you'll be able to talk to more female friends, just talk more, and be able to speak.

It's all trained

I recommend you watch a movie by Chow Yun-fat The Amorous Son.

When you meet your beloved, blushing and unable to speak, it is a common problem that plagues all male compatriots, first of all, before confessing, you must have courage, you must have confidence that you will succeed, do not be nervous, go with the flow, I believe that your beloved will fall in love with you.

I wish you lovers to be married.

I also don't know what to say in front of girls.

Read more books. And talk more. It would be nice to know more people you don't know. After a long time, you will definitely be able to speak well. But at the same time, you're going to be fickle. Maybe it's a lie or something.

But it won't hurt anyone. The heart is right, and it won't be. If you don't do it yourself, you will harm yourself.

Learn to speak to yourself!!

Like an old man, talking to himself.

Imagine a situation you encountered, and then assume that the other person is talking to you in a very difficult tone and harsh words, and you think about it yourself.

Stick to daily practice, or practice meaninglessly.

It won't be long before you're a great talker!

The most practical thing is to find an organization to train yourself and learn by yourself is to read books and newspapers honestly and communicate with people if you have something to do with it.

In fact, people who talk a lot talk mostly nonsense.

Just pick the key and say it.

It is necessary to deliberately force yourself.

You have to know that a person who can speak the Tao must have a wide range of knowledge, only a little bit about everything, so you have to keep accumulating knowledge every day, and the second is not that all knowledgeable people can speak the Tao, this is the need to communicate with people, and play and communicate with more lively, active, and cheerful friends, so that you will also be slow and cheerful and talkative. This is the so-called "close to Zhu Zhechi." The one who is close to the ink is black".

The practical thing is to collude with others more, just say it, and don't care whether what you say makes sense; But you have to be thick-skinned. If people don't love themselves, they do everything; If you love yourself too much, you will do nothing. Don't be too self-respecting, take advantage of the elasticity of self-esteem.

When you can say that others have nothing to say, you are a person who can speak well. I wish you success.

I used to have the same troubles as you, but since I bravely participated in the job fair of the host of the school's theatrical evening and met a large number of master speakers, my diplomatic activities have been considered formal.

At first, we didn't know each other, but I thought I'd try to make the most of myself! I started to be bold and fit in with the people who dared to speak in front of the public, who were from the elite of various secondary schools, and I was determined to become as eloquent as them.

Gradually, I discovered a rule: if you really want to achieve a goal, you won't miss an opportunity to seize it. We have maintained a relationship with each other since then.

My friends all found me to have a certain attraction, and I had an extra hand when it came to questions in class. Let's summarize the reasons together, and it is my appropriate words that can be gathered into a ball like a light floc floating in the air.

It was "Goal, Confidence, Practice" that made me successful as a moderator, and I hope my experience can be helpful to you!