What do you think is the difference between a person who can talk and someone who can t?

People who can talk make people comfortable, and the more they listen, the more they love to listen, and people who can't talk make people feel disgusted. This has little to do with social experience, some people will say what others like to hear since they were young, and they will pat themselves on the back, and some people are over half a hundred years old, and they are also telling the truth. Those who can talk will not be wrong in their future; People who can't speak, the future is not obtained by pleasing people, and people who can talk may not tell the truth, it makes people comfortable; People who can't speak, while disgusting, are not necessarily false.

There is really a big difference. People who can't speak are like bitter melons, and the words they say don't make people feel a trace of sweetness, and the most ridiculous thing is that some people who can't speak regard not being able to speak as upright, which makes people listen to the fire. Being with someone who can talk is like eating candy, and whatever he says is to your heart.

Talking is really an art, and I probably don't hate people who can't speak, but I will definitely like people who can talk.

It should be the difference between introversion and extroversion!

Introverts like to bring up topics on their own when chatting, while extroverts like to be brought up by others! Then answer the call yourself! Introverts love to bring up topics on their own!

And extroverts are good at answering words! In other words, extroverts are good at listening to other people's topics! Then answer the call to express what you mean on the topic!

And introverts like to find their own topics for others to listen to! As a result, I always care about what others say about me.

Introverts are not good at finding topics. It's often just someone else asking and answering; Extroverts, on the other hand, are very good at finding topics, and topics are very novel, they are issues that everyone is good at, and they are always good at controlling the power of topics. Extroverts are also very enthusiastic and good at making friends.

Likes to socialize, likes to be lively, and likes to laugh. Introverts, on the other hand, prefer to be quiet and do not like to participate in social activities. I don't really like to make friends.

For example, if you meet someone you know on the street and you greet him warmly, and he will come and say hi, then he may be an extrovert. If only nodding. Smile and wait for you to continue the question, it may be introverted. What do you see?

Yes, extroverts are also good at listening to other people's topics, and one educator once said: learn how to be obedient before you learn to speak. If you're not talking about what everybody wants. Then you won't be able to listen, let alone speak.

Talkers are generally outgoing, they generally pick what others like to say, and most people will have a desire to communicate with them. People who can't speak are more introverted, and although they don't talk well, their words are the most authentic.

People who can talk are generally very rigorous in doing things and will be very successful, people who can't talk do things with rough lines and big grin, things are often not done well, and people with high emotional intelligence will generally talk and make others feel happy.

I think there's a big difference. A person who can talk, you are very comfortable talking to him, and you will think that his emotional intelligence is very high. And talking to someone who can't speak, you're going to be annoyed.

You must be desperate to end your conversation with him.

I think the biggest difference is whether you can make the other person feel happy, the person who can talk will always take care of the other person's emotions and make everyone feel relaxed, while the person who can't talk is always embarrassing and don't know how to continue the conversation!

Reflected in a person's ideological and moral quality and cultivation level, people who can talk prove that their IQ and EQ are very high, people who can't speak are too honest, telling the truth will always be easy to be misunderstood, easy to hurt people's self-esteem.

I think that people who can talk will be very popular and appear to be very cultivated, and people who can't talk will neither like nor appear to be uneducated.

People who can talk will make people like and make people feel very smart, and people who can't talk will make people feel very uncomfortable.

Someone who can talk to him will feel comfortable after everyone communicates with him. People who can't speak can be very anxious after communication, and it's incredible.

The difference is that if I say that I can be rounded, you will die if you say it.

The difference in the number of bones in the mouth.

First, the depth is different:

It is the former who thinks from the perspective of the listener and thinks about the listener; The latter starts from their own point of view and considers the feelings of others less. A person who can't speak, although he has a frank temperament, although he has a straight voice, a manifestation of his true temperament, but often has no skills, so it is easy to offend people, so it is easy to hurt people's self-esteem, it is easy to make the other party unable to go down the steps, it is a kind of person who can't speak, his life is destined not to go too far, mainly related to the performance of a person's IQ and EQ.

Second, emotional intelligence is different:

The former has high emotional intelligence, is popular everywhere, and has a good career development; The latter has low emotional intelligence, is easy to offend people, and has limited career development.

3. Different measurements:

The former is more broad-minded, optimistic and open-minded, and less affected by the mood of others; The latter likes to drill into trouble, has poor emotional control, cares about the immediate reaction of others, and is easily influenced by others. The one who can talk is sacrificing himself for the betterment of others; People who can't speak are in the process of not thinking about others for themselves. For the better development of individuals and society, we should all strive to be a person who can speak!

First of all, correct a concept, being able to speak does not mean being a sycophant!

Talking is a language art, not some sycophancy. When I was working in a company, I had an old lady who was very skilled in speaking. A tricky and difficult thing to do, when others report to the boss, they often encounter a gray judgment, and as soon as she comes out, she is invincible.

Chatting with her, even if it is a subordinate, there will be no pressure, and there is always a feeling of spring breeze. That's the beauty of language.

In the workplace, it is very important to be able to speak. Being able to speak can not only gain good interpersonal relationships, but also improve work ability. If you can't speak, your grandmother doesn't love your uncle, your colleagues don't cooperate, and your leaders don't want to see you, which can be described as miserable.

So, what's the difference between a person who can talk and someone who can't?

One, a talking person, tactful; People who can't speak, directly. People who can talk, the tone is more tactful, so that people are not stressed. People who can't speak are straightforward and unscrupulous, and people are emotionally difficult to accept.

Second, the person who can talk, soft; People who can't speak, blunt. Speakers tend to have a consultative tone, not a commanding tone, and everyone will like it. People who can't speak speak are blunt, and everyone will be disgusted.

Three, the talker, praise, the talker, mean. The one who can talk is good at complimenting, which makes people feel like a bosom friend. People who can't speak are vicious and disgusting.

Fourth, the person who can talk, the humble retreat, the person who can't speak, the competitive. Those who can talk know how to retreat from humility, and they will not fight to win. People who can't speak are competitive and like to distinguish between winners and losers.

Five, the person who can talk, warm, the person who can't speak, indifferent. People who can talk know how to imitate and respect others, which makes people feel like a spring breeze. People who can't speak are selfish and indifferent, which makes people shudder.

Sixth, those who can talk blame themselves, and those who can't speak blame others. When a person who can talk to a problem, the first thing he does is to reflect on himself. People who can't speak, when they make mistakes, are the first to shirk responsibility.

Seven, the one who can talk, listen, the one who can't speak, nag. People who can talk will never talk too much, they will talk nonsense, they are good at listening. Those who can't speak are chattering and chattering.

Eight, the talker, analysis, the talker, argue! When there is a contradiction, the person who can talk is not in a hurry or annoyed, and deeply analyzes and guides step by step. Those who can't speak are bare and arguing.

Nine, the person who can talk, think twice, the person who can't speak, impulsive. Those who can talk will never fire guns indiscriminately, but think twice. People who can't speak tend to blurt out without thinking.

Ten, those who can talk, understand, those who can't speak, justify. Talkers are empathetic and will put themselves in the other person's shoes. People who can't speak are self-centered, have no heart of understanding, and only have the meaning of justification.

I think it's good to be able to speak, but it's easy to say the wrong thing, and it's easy to say the wrong thing, and if you don't speak, you're quieter, you're more calm, and you're able to observe before acting, and it's not easy to say the wrong thing and have disputes.

I think when you say that, think about what would happen if you were in his position, and I think your words would be very convincing, very intimate, and not fake.

People who can't talk rush to say, people who can talk want to say, people who can't talk shout and say, people who can talk whisper, people who can't talk belittle to say or filial piety, people who can talk hold and say, people who can't talk say it straight, people who can talk turn around and say, people who can't talk Tongtuan who say it, people who can talk talk about it, people who can't talk talk about it themselves, people who can talk let others say it first, bureau code.

There is a big difference between a person who can talk and a person who can't. People who can talk must be left and right, and they have very good popularity. A person who cannot speak will offend people as soon as he opens his mouth.

A person who can talk will have many friends, and a person who can't speak will offend people without knowing it.