I want to communicate with mature people and how to become mature people

It's normal to be confused.

Nowadays, many people are confused about what they are looking for.

As the sentence goes: I am like a fly lying on the window, the future is bright, but I can't find a way out".

Maturity is not something that can be matured by chatting.

A lot of things if you don't experience them yourself.

You'll never understand what it's like.

It's like a child.

No matter how he communicates with those mature people.

The effect will not be great.

Young people inevitably do the wrong thing.

Detours. These are all normal.

Just don't go down the slope.

It's all casual.

Get along with others with kindness, give more sincere praise and encouragement, don't easily doubt others, or even despise and dislike others; We should respect and trust others, listen to each other's conversations, do not impose our own will and opinions on others, and be helpful and accept the emotions and help of others. Practice has proved that with good interpersonal relationships, there will be a good mood. Therefore, schools should encourage students to carry out a variety of beneficial club activities, so that students can interact with more people through participating in social activities and club activities, and establish good interpersonal skills in communication.

It seems to be a bit of an advertisement, but I want to say that when mature people are also naïve, and the same thing seems to you to be naïve, but when you are also mature, you can understand that it is not naïve but more mature.

I'm also 21 ha!! I'm also obsessed with life or, talk to me to make you open your heart and never regret it!

Because I can't find anyone to talk to! I can't talk about it

If you're mature yourself, then mature people will be interested in what you have to say.

If you are immature ... There is no common language building.

If you are a teacher, I am more depressed, hehe.

You think the chat is free, and you have to charge money.

I'm a mature person.

Because mature and stable people will really be more comfortable and more secure to get along with.

Especially for women. If you find a particularly naïve boy, you feel like your son, you have to take care of it every day, and you have to talk to him about something and your own ideas are immature, and you feel that you are very powerful, and the girl will be very tired. In addition to his very mature thinking, a mature and stable person is also very mature and stable in what he does, so he will feel very relieved to be with such a person, and he doesn't have to worry about anything or be afraid, after all, the other party will handle it very well.

So everyone likes this sense of security and comfort, because when they get along with mature and stable people, such people are very warm, and they will take care of other people's feelings. I will also help others do some other things in life, which is very caring. And mature people are also very prepared to do things.

If a person like him is with him for a lifetime, he will live a very happy life. Because you are always the one who is taken care of, because in the process of getting along with a mature and stable person, there will be fewer quarrels between you, if you yourself encounter any difficulties in life, you can completely seek his help, you don't need to be too strong when you are with him, you just need to rely on him.

Get along with maturity, there is no psychological pressure, and you can learn a lot of things at the same time, mature people have worked hard in the society for many years, and they have experienced the sophistication of human feelings, the world, and the gains and losses of personal honor and insults, can grasp the proportions, deal with things at the head of the way, and at the same time will not easily offend people, and mature people will have a relatively relaxed environment, and there will be a good mood.

Because mature people can be responsible for their own behavior, and they have their own opinions when encountering things, and mature people have a strong sense of responsibility, so most people are willing to get along with mature people, who would want to get along with a childish person?

Because mature people are not very naïve, they are easier to get along with, they will not lose their temper, they will be more cautious in dealing with problems, and they will care about the feelings of others. It will be more secure and more comfortable together. You can also learn a lot.

Because mature people have a lot of knowledge, experience, see things more thoroughly, and have a certain analytical ability, with such people, you can learn a lot of experience, men and women make up for their own shortcomings, so most people are willing to be with mature people.

Because mature people have more advanced thinking and more appropriate handling methods, they can learn a lot of principles about dealing with people when they are with mature people.

With immature people, you will feel that you are particularly naïve, if you are with mature people, you will feel that you have become more stable, this is what people often say that people are virtuous and virtuous, and birds fly away with Luan and Feng, so everyone wants to get along with mature people.

Mature people have rich experience and knowledge, and have their own unique opinions, and will learn from them where they are lacking.

Because mature people do things calmly and calmly, they will not be untrustworthy, mature people will not be careful, mature people will forgive others for their small mistakes, because they have experienced it.

Generally, mature people have higher emotional intelligence, and it is easier to deal with this kind of person, and they can enter the atmosphere faster when they speak. Very comfortable.

Because acquaintances know each other, and they are relatively familiar with each other, so they are sure of what to do? In this way, everyone is still very comfortable, after all, people are old, and good clothes are new.

This belongs to the normal phenomenon of mature people. What do workers do? It's all magnetic, or it's more stable, so it's still a very good choice for honest and honest people to socialize.

Generally, mature people are very sensible, know how to be considerate, care and love, have a sense of security, can tolerate and tolerate themselves when encountering things, and feel very happy and happy!

Mature people don't get tired of getting along, they know the warmth and cold, and they know the truth. That way you will be less angry. It's okay too.

Why do most people want to get along with mature people? Because mature people do things? Understand, quite steady, he is, so this is what people want to do with mature people.

You can learn a lot from getting along with mature people, and you can gradually become more confident and stable.

It's not most people, I just like to get along with simple people. The main thing is to get along with simple people, and you don't have to think about so much mess. To like is to like, and not to like is not to like.

Maturation consists of two aspects.

One is physical maturity. It will take time.

Second, the mind is mature.

Mature people have personalities and are independent. Increasing age, experience, or even going through vicissitudes does not ensure a person's maturity. Maturity requires a healthy and free social environment, as well as the ability to think independently and to reflect on oneself.

Maturity does not exclude innocence. True maturity is the unity of reason, wisdom, innocence, and morality. Maturity is not vulgarity and philistine.

A sign of maturity.

1. Being able to think about problems does not mean that you are mature because you have more knowledge, mature thinking is to use known knowledge to infer the unknown.

2. Deny yourself.

Denying oneself and constantly denying oneself is a necessary condition for maturity, and it is also an important sign of maturity. Self-denial is a profound ideological activity, which is motivated by the knowledge of truth and self, not by self-effacing and self-contempt. Denying oneself is the result of thinking, not "touching the situation".

As long as you reflect and face yourself from time to time, you will deny yourself from time to time.

It is not easy to know oneself, it is equally difficult to deny oneself, and people are most likely to be self-righteous and stubborn.

3. Learn to be tolerant.

Tolerance is not only a symbol of maturity, but also a state of mind. The childish mind is never tolerant, they are extreme, angry, blindly acting, "evil as hatred", and they themselves repeatedly make mistakes that cannot be "tolerated", they strive for perfection, but they do not understand their own shortcomings.

4. Pay attention to simplicity.

From the perspective of thinking ability, the sign of maturity is to have a new understanding of "simplicity", and no longer regard simplicity as simple, or in other words, no longer despise simplicity. Truth is simple, and this simple truth is in the ordinary and simple daily life. Being able to find and discover the truth from simplicity gives you the deepest truth.

5. There should be a goal in life, and the goal is the direction. Doing anything without direction is superfluous.

Maturity is built up by experience.

When you think back to the past, you feel like you didn't do well enough or badly, and that's a sign that you're maturing. There is no specific method, you can only rely on yourself to collect it in your life. Accumulate your experience and slowly mature.

And it also depends on the individual's comprehension. If you don't understand it completely, you have to understand it again. Or you can think about every thing you do, say a word, do an action, think more, and you will slowly mature.

Don't be in a hurry! good luck

Endure loneliness, be good at thinking, calm and calm, realistic, have a sense of humor, and at the same time be steady and generous, others tell you what maturity is, you will never understand, you have to experience it yourself, learn to love someone, be responsible for him, find a job, be responsible for the work itself, are all manifestations of maturity.

Mature people will plan for the future, arrange life and work reasonably, be stable and mature, have a strong sense of responsibility, and be thoughtful.

The biggest difference between a mature person and a naïve person is in the mentality. Mature people are mentally mature, give people a sense of security, can be relied on, and can be trusted. If you want to be a mature person in getting along, you can try the following methods:

When mature people encounter problems, they are very calm at first, they will not be in a hurry, and they don't know what to do, because they have rich experience, even if they encounter difficult problems, they also know that panic cannot solve the problem, they must calm down, think about the solution to the problem, and use their brains.

Faced with a problem, mature people often have many solutions, and when they get along with others, they often consider many factors, and will think about others from the perspective of others, and will not only think about themselves, so their emotional intelligence is very high. But maturity does not mean tactful, mature people just will no longer lose their temper casually because of some unnecessary little things, they will control their temper, on key issues, will not be willful, do what they want, think of a play. Mature people know what to do and what not to do.

In fact, if you want to really become a mature person, you don't have to be too anxious, after you have experienced some things, you have some experience, you have understood a lot of things from some people and things, and you have summed up a lot of experience, and you will slowly become mature, but maturity does not mean that you have lost your innocence, not to think about things so complicated, but to take care of many aspects, so that more people are satisfied, learn to care about other people's opinions, face other people's mistakes, you must learn to be tolerant, generous. Learn to look at the strengths of others, not just look at the shortcomings of others and keep them going. Of course, mature people also have to learn to let go.

If you want to be a mature person, you can't avoid knowing how to be sophisticated, and in getting along, remember to say more things that the other party likes to hear, and then keep your own ideas in your heart!

Then to be a very mature person, then first of all, you must become very mature, and you must have some ideas of your own, so that you can slowly become very assertive and thinking.

When doing things, you must consider the other person's feelings and think about the problem from the other person's point of view, so that you can be a mature person.

Mature people are not pretending, they must improve their knowledge and skills, improve their temperament, and be rational and not impulsive in dealing with others, in order to be a mature person.

The first thing to do is to be cautious in your words and deeds, always pay attention to your words and deeds, and consider every word you have to say, so that everyone can get along with you happily and feel that you are a mature and stable person.

No matter what you do, don't panic, be in a hurry, have your own opinions on doing things, and don't be incoherent when you speak!

If you want to be a very mature person, then you should first make your mind very clear, and then you must think about things very maturely, so that you can have your own opinions on everything.

Speaking can only be said through the brain, you can't just say things that hurt people, you must have your own principles for doing things, you can't do things willfully, you must be thoughtful.

What about my humble personal opinion about wanting to be a mature person? First of all, you have to have a mature heart, stop complaining like a child in everything, talk less gossip, and do more practical things.

It's when you've had setbacks and experienced things that your peers haven't. When you no longer think about what maturity is, you will be mature Maturity must have rich knowledge reserves, reflect your own connotation and cultivation, do things steadily, not impetuous, not frivolous, do not ask some shallow and boring questions, care more about others, have your own opinions, try to be reasonable, show your charm, care about others, do not be arrogant, do not have inferiority, be confident and humble at the same time, bring warmth to others, respect others, independent self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement.