Hate your indecisive personality? 80

Don't hate this kind of character of yourself, hesitate, understand in disguise is cautious. It's right to think about things and think about them before making a decision.

A person's character is formed in a specific environment, and since it is formed, it is fully utilized. Some people are indeed decisive in the face of things, but more people make mistakes because they are too decisive, and at this time they will think that they still need to think about it more. So the good and bad of a person's character are relative.

Your personality is indecisive, but a lot of things just have to be thought about a lot, and you don't decide until you think about it, so it's not necessarily a bad thing to think about it. Just don't be too indecisive in some small things, small things must be cut through the mess quickly, and big things must be considered more.

At the beginning of people, nature is good, hesitation is your character, everyone's character is different, some people don't think about things to make a decisive result, some people think about it, hesitate like you, each has its own benefits, you just think too much, people are like this, slowly grow up in eating a trench and grow up wisely, people are old and sharp horses are the same thing, a person's personality will basically follow you, unless you have a qualitative leap in the future, maybe you can change your personality, Nothing else is possible.

Develop self-confidence. Lack of self-confidence, doubts about one's own abilities, and often make people hesitate. Perhaps, I want to be a referee for a sport, but I doubt that I can do it well. I hesitated in my heart, should I compete? Don't doubt yourself.

You should trust your instincts, and you must have much less to lose than to admit in your heart. If you ignore unnecessary worries and don't worry about whether it's worth putting into practice, it's easy to make new choices.

As long as we can enhance our self-confidence, we can choose not to hesitate on major issues, make quick and correct judgments, and make choices, which can improve or even change our hesitant character.

The reason why people have it.

Indecisive character.

Mostly. It is caused by factors such as timidity, caution and lack of ability.

For this. To solve this problem.

It is necessary to enrich one's own cultural knowledge.

Build a strong sense of self-confidence and willpower.

Such. will slowly change their hesitant surname.

It is my own heart that is more fulfilling and more motivated.

Get out of the house. Try to change yourself.

Emotional things can't be forced, listen to your heart, no decision is because you haven't encountered something that makes you make a decision, there is no harm in calming down first, and it is not necessarily right to break it immediately. Hesitation may be prudence, decisiveness may be recklessness. No one can easily pick up and put down the things of love, and of course it is okay if the love is not deep.

Don't worry about this, falling in love and breaking up will be easy to be in a bad mood, affect your mood, and if you are still looking for a job, it will make people feel more irritable. This is mutually influential, calm down and slowly adjust the state. When the work is on the right track, the mood will be a little better, and the relationship will naturally be a little smoother.

Look for a job well, the job will go well, life will get better and better, and slowly everything will get better. Don't be irritable, the more irritable, the bad.

If you know your shortcomings, you need to correct them. If you are hesitant to do things, you will miss many valuable opportunities. Hope, thank you.

This is due to personality, and it is not something that can be changed after a while. You can only try to avoid it as much as possible, and change it slowly.

Then be firm in your own ideas, slowly change yourself, only by changing yourself will you have different opportunities and gains.

Be a free and easy person, be a confident self, don't regret what you decide, and always look forward.

You just have to think about one thing, if you are with your boyfriend, in 3 years, 5 years, or 10 years, is the life he gives you what you want but me.

Because that's what your personality is! If you want to change, start next to yourself first, start today, and finish today.

There is no can't let go, only reluctance. Indecisive women mostly end in tragedy! There is an allusion to the constant interruption and the chaos.

First of all, you have to say what the reason for the breakup is, and then talk about something else, love is inseparable, it's certain, because long-distance relationships are more disconnected, and many times it's not a matter of decision-making, it's not that what insiders say is false, and only through their own experience can you know that process.

You are decisive and do not leave a way back, regret is useless, and you will make it!

The psychological cause of the indecisive character is the lack of assertiveness.

In the process of job hunting, job seekers fail to choose a job because of their hesitation and hesitation, which is generally manifested in the following situations:

First, it is a contradiction between one-step implementation and step-by-step. Many job seekers want to find the ideal job from the start, and after graduating from college, they want to apply for an assistant general manager of a large company. Unwilling to start with basic jobs. This will result in high and low levels.

Second, it is the contradiction between the ideal career and the actual demand. In the past two years, new economy industries such as network enterprises and IT industries have become popular for job seekers, but the threshold for these industries is also very high, most of them require doctoral and master's students, and some require a variety of additional capabilities, such as market development capabilities, marketing experience, etc. Most of the people who have really achieved success in this industry have practical work experience in traditional industries.

Third, it is the contrast between professional fame and income. A certain enterprise went to the talent exchange market to recruit, and the professional quota for secretarial and other clerks was very small, and the remuneration offered was not high, but it was crowded with applicants. Marketing majors earn two to three times as much as clerks, and the number of places needed is also large, but the number of applicants is pitiful.

Many college students tend to attach more importance to professional fame between fame and income, believing that it is embarrassing to work as a clerk in an agency because of the shame of working in marketing for many years. After a few years, the growth of each person is often reversed.

It's because of my own life.

Have you ever encountered something big, such as making yourself right because of a mistake in choosing to do something or.

It's a lot of resistance to making decisions. I really want someone to choose or arrange it for me... I was like this before, and I was quite unassertive.

Solving this problem is not a day or two, it takes years and months of perseverance. This process is to build self-confidence, believe that what you are doing is right, and the final effect is not good, but also to accumulate more experience and make yourself do the right thing in the future.

How to do it: 1 A very important thing is to do.

You have to be prepared for everything, big and small, and since you're afraid of this and that, you have to think about all the details as much as you can before doing it. Imagine every link, make every preparation, and you have a way to solve what happens, so that you can greatly reduce the chance of "this and that", so that everything is normal and according to your ideas.

2 In a daze, try to minimize, because time is precious, and that's you.

The water in the sponge...

3 wait until you. When you have done a lot of the above things, and you feel that you can still do something with your own ability, and it is perfect, you can try to arrange your own things, and it will be very handy.

The method is simple, but it is difficult for the average person to understand. The answer is "compromise and compromise", and many success books talk about a bunch of naïve truths such as being a wolf and being enterprising. In fact, it has no practical value at all.

Truly mature people will understand that the world is never subject to your will. All you can do is lower your desires to your own capabilities. Let go of all perfectionist tendencies, part ways with the pursuit of excellence, and give up short-term profit maximization, so that you are truly safe.

If you have a paranoid idea about everything in life, then you will not be able to act. Because you think you have to do it well, otherwise you don't do it. This kind of extreme paranoid two-level thinking has given birth to two kinds of people, those who have low self-esteem and depression, those who turn their backs to face the losers of life, or people like Hitler who have a paranoid and cold personality.

You have to understand that the world is not only about winners and losers, nor is it black and white. We don't need to get a perfect score in every homework in the subject of life, maybe only 60 points. And if a person has absolute ideas and ambitions, and thinks that either being a good person is rubbish, then he is much more likely to become garbage than successful.

The reason is simple, because he forces himself to do things that he simply can't do, he constantly strives for perfection and will continue to fail. Because, he can't allow himself to make a little mistake, and his plan of action is very rigid, without the slightest elasticity, and the slightest setback will inevitably cause the collapse of the whole situation. And his hurt self-esteem wants to make a big bet to quickly increase his wealth and dignity, and often so, his fate will be even worse.

Nike's slogan, just do it. Lowering your goals can effectively reduce the gap between your expectations and your actual performance. The achievement of life is not based on how big a step you take, but on the number of steps, direction, and time.

Rapid growth in the short term cannot be sustained. For example, the best thing to do is to do 100 sit-ups, just do 20, and then use ten times the strength to do the follow-up. But people do the opposite, often doing the most on the first day and then the first day is the same.

So, learn to compromise and compromise so that you can effectively complete your plan. Not perfect though. But there is no such thing as perfection in this world.

Method: When faced with many choices and unable to make a decision, you can list these choices on paper and carefully evaluate them to see which ones are most important to you and which ones you can achieve through hard work, so as to help you organize your thoughts, analyze calmly, and finally make a decision;

Treat change as opportunities and challenges, the future and hope, and everything starts with wanting to change, so that you will not be afraid to make new life choices and overcome hesitation;

Improve your ability to act, if your situation is very bad, when the opportunity comes, even if the future is bright, because you don't want to take action to take risks, too content with the status quo, you will find 10,000 reasons to stay the same and refuse to change, so you must have the ability to act;

Socialize with people who are courageous, innovative, and courageous, and learn some experiences from them that they did not have in the past, so as to promote their own growth;

Start from what you can, try to change yourself, let yourself experience some new insights and experiences, cultivate self-confidence and courage, slowly try more challenges, meet greater opportunities in life, constantly expand yourself, move towards success, and overcome hesitation;

If you are overly hesitant and unable to make a decision in the face of choices, which seriously affects your normal life and work, you can seek help from a psychological counselor to rebuild good self-esteem and self-confidence, and calmly cope with changes and opportunities in life;

Establish lofty ideals and pursue a happy life, if you want to change the dissatisfaction and unhappiness in reality, you can't stick to the rules and stay the same, but you must change yourself from the heart, change the current situation, only if you have a strong internal motivation to change, can you effectively overcome the psychology of hesitation and boldly try to change.

Be less calculating and be considerate of others. Think more about each other.

We have the willpower not to change ourselves, but to demand from others. Have a pair of eyes, don't look at yourself, and find fault with others. This is where troubles arise. Be your own master. Take full control of your own behavior, and do not let others affect your inner firmness.

Because ordinary people can't be their own masters, they can't control their inner thoughts. Let him fly around. I can't even perceive my sincerity.

It's all too scattered in the heart. So filter through meditation. Scattered hearts.

Achieve a central force. Know your own heart and be happy alone. Not because he has so much, but because of him.

Less care. Master your own heart, don't let him, mess around, is to master your own behavior, it is also equivalent to mastering life, learn to smile, learn to be happy, learn to be strong, learn to smile and face everything in life, take your mood relaxed, don't think too much, breathe in the fresh morning air, feel the taste of nature, o(o....More important.

First of all, praise for your self-reflection skills is a good start, and half the battle! If you change your character, you can change your fate! So it's hard to change, Mencius said

Stuck in the heart, weigh the worry and then do it. Hesitation in doing things is not caused by character, but is not accustomed to a decisive way of doing things Habit becomes natural, if a person is always hesitant to do things, and if he gets used to it, then doing things feels irresistible hesitation. Therefore, it takes a lot of determination to consciously change the habits that have been formed.