Why is it bad to hesitate Why is it indecisive?

Hehe won't be infected by your friends. Hesitation doesn't mean lack of confidence! Everyone's abilities are limited!

Everyone will hesitate at times, depending on what happens. When you encounter something that is difficult to decide, first calm down and analyze the pros and cons, and then find out whether you have the corresponding ability to do it well. If you don't have enough confidence, it means that you still have to work hard.

At this time, the "self-confidence" is: start preparing for this from now on, and believe that you will do similar things well in the future. The signs of "lack of confidence" are:

Forget it, whatever, you can't do it anyway. In addition to sharing each other's worries, you and your friends would do well to motivate each other often! Tell each other about each other's strengths, recent happy events, or recent good news ......You can be proactive first.

Have you thought about it? Someone else's wedding is about to start, and you can catch up now, but you're wondering which dress I'm wearing This is hesitation! As a result, you have to apologize to your friends!

Haha, this is a joke, but the reality is like this, not confident, this is actually not a problem That is that you have not yet reached the end of the mountain, do you believe that there are immortals Do you believe that there are pancakes falling from the sky? Don't believe it, friends are your backing, family and your home, your hands are the beginning of happiness, your steps are the guarantee of success, other people's experience is theirs, only you are as fierce as a wolf, I think only others are not confident You know? Come on!

Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

Yes, hesitation does not mean lack of self-confidence, everyone's ability is limited.

The hot-blooded man should be happy and revenge.

1. Why hesitate:

There is hesitation or there are two or more things with similar interests that make it impossible for us to decide which one to choose. Thinking shackles action.

2. How to make a decision:

People who hesitate seem to have a hard time making decisions, and when you hesitate, you might as well communicate with parents and teachers. Understand the good and bad of things through the Internet in many aspects, and then write down the benefits and disadvantages of the things you hesitate about on paper to see which one is more. If not, it means that whatever you choose is the right thing, and you can use a coin toss to decide.

3. Mentality after the decision:

Don't always regret your decision, since you decide that you can't go back, then don't look back, maybe after a few years you find out how right your decision is.

4. Hesitation hazards:

Indecision brings us more pain, and when we hesitate, we may miss out on a lot of things. Rather than hesitating, it is better to make the next decision, which is our decision no matter what. Keep trying, and I'll believe you'll just think you're making the right decision.

5. How to look at hesitation

Being hesitant shows that we value it, we are trying to do better on our own, and we have also found the problem of our hesitation. It means that we are improving, and it is good to have such a distraction, and I believe that we will succeed in this way. Overcome our own problems and we will be better.

One day, there was a young man who was in love who wanted to go to his lover's house, and to find his lover to come out and spend an afternoon together. However, he hesitated to know whether he should go or not, and was afraid that after he went, he would either seem too presumptuous, or his lover would be too busy and refuse his invitation. So he was in a dilemma for a long time, and finally, he reluctantly made up his mind and got into a taxi.

However, as soon as the car entered the alley where his lover lived, he began to regret that he should not have come: he was afraid that he would not be welcome this time, and he was afraid that he would be rejected by his lover, so he simply hoped that the driver would pull him back now.

The car finally stopped in front of his lover's door, and although he regretted coming, since he came, he had to reach out and ring the doorbell. Now he had to hope that the person who came to open the door would tell him, "Mademoiselle is not at home."

He rang the doorbell for the first time and waited for 3 minutes, but no one answered. He forced himself to press a second time, and waited another 2 minutes, but still no one answered, so he thought with relief, "The whole family is out."

So he went back half relieved and half disappointed, just thinking to himself: this is fine. But in fact, he was sad because he couldn't arrange this afternoon.

Can you guess that his lover is now a**? His lover was at home, and she had hoped from morning that the gentleman would come to her suddenly and take her out for an afternoon. She didn't know he had ever been here because the electric bell on her door was broken.

If the gentleman had not been so hesitant, if he had banged the door with his hand and no one answered, as he had been when someone else had a visit, they would have had a happy afternoon. But he didn't make up his mind, so he had to go back and forth in vain, secretly disappointing his lover.

When making decisions, make decisions on the spot, and accept the challenge anyway. The greater the challenge, the greater the opportunity. In fact, there are many such opportunities that are often lost in front of the eyes of those who are too hesitant.

Feel the proverbs. Any winner does not necessarily win every game, but only wins. However, if you are often afraid of defeat and don't even dare to try to face it, then the chance of victory will not be in your hands.