What will happen to those who struggle in the end?

Those entangled people will eventually develop into a psychologically distorted person, because these people are particularly entangled, so their psychology will produce certain changes, and it is likely to change their psychology, which makes their psychology begin to distort and become different from normal people, a friend of mine is such a person, he is very entangled every day, he doesn't know what to eat every night, as soon as the night comes, he asks me, let me choose one for him, such a person is particularly entangled, he doesn't know what he wants, After a long time, he will become different from normal people, so I feel that he has become different now, and he has nothing to do every day and does not know what to do.

Those who struggle are ultimately unable to achieve anything. Because we are entangled in what time to use. I struggled with everything for a long time.

When I didn't do anything, I was still struggling there. I remember when I was in high school. My table mates struggled with everything, which led to a sharp drop in exam scores.

And I don't like to get tangled up in what I want to do and just get it done. At the end of the day, my grades were very high. So those who struggle will end up with nothing.

Those who are entangled have a bad life in the end, because of their tangled character, they have missed a lot of opportunities, so they have a bad life. I have such a friend around me, his personality is very tangled, no matter what he does is uncertain, once, his friend wanted to invest in a deal with him, but he hesitated, and finally made this opportunity, now his friend is already a small rich man, but he is still just a small employee, so those tangled people are very bad.

Those who are entangled in the end develop very badly, because they waste a lot of time on one thing, and they can't keep up with the progress of other people at all, and they will be left behind, my friend is like this, he likes to be entangled in one thing for a long time, which has a great impact on his work efficiency, because of this, it is difficult for people who are entangled to grasp the opportunity.

I feel that I am a very tangled person, do not do things decisively, often miss a lot of opportunities, miss a lot of people and things, now is facing college graduation, there are a lot of ideas, but there is no clear goal, like this, I dare not think about my own future, tangled shows that you do things more thoughtfully, this is not necessarily not a good thing, but the degree is slightly heavier, for most of us, the root of the entanglement lies in the uncertainty of the future and the expectation of the future.

Summary. Why do people get entangled?

Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.

The reason why people are entangled is mainly due to people's needs and motivations and the achievement of motivational goals"Conflict of motives"caused. People need certain objective conditions to ensure and maintain the development of their own life, if people lack these and auspicious objective conditions, the human body will present an imbalance state, to supplement this imbalance. People who are easily entangled usually don't have too many opinions and can't make up their minds.

If you want to overcome this problem, you need to clear your mind and have a clear and accurate attitude towards things, things and people. What things should be done and how to do the cultivation solution, where are the principles, and so on, you have to figure out by yourself. Then, you're doing things.

On the question of why people are entangled, let me briefly say that the reason why people are entangled is because there are too many problems in their minds, and the reason why they think too much is because you always want to do everything in all aspects, and it is not perfect, but often things are contrary to violations, because people and people's qualities are different, and ideas are also shaped.

Because there are so many undesirable things in the world that bother you ... YOU WANT EVERYTHING TO BE BEAUTIFUL AND PERFECT ... So it's good to wonder what to do ...

Be cheerful!

There may be too much desire, and no desire is rigid. Know how to give up and travel lightly.

This is the emotional problem to see if you are struggling with someone, or something, or something to someone:

1. You are entangled with someone.

So it means that you have been with that person for a long time, and you feel very entangled with that person. In fact, as long as you jump out, you are very close to him (her) that relationship, you can see that it is actually his nature, if you feel very angry with him, then there is no need for that, because the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change! From the perspective of a bystander, you will actually find her ridiculous and pitiful.

Because no one pays attention to him, he still thinks it's fun to play a one-man show. So, there's no need to dwell on it.

2. Entangled in things.

It depends on what you're facing. If you are entangled in why you call your father father, then it is not a problem of entanglement, it means that you have reached a dead end. In fact, it is really unnecessary to be entangled in one thing, because if it is entangled, it means that it is a problem that cannot be solved.

Let go of your kinks and you will be happier.

3. Entangled in someone doing something.

If you can't let go of your emotions, you will suddenly encounter an event, and you will think in one direction! Sometimes, if you put yourself in the other person's shoes, you will understand. If you can't think of it, then don't dwell on it, just ask clearly.

I always believe that in this world, there is still a love that will grow old hand in hand and never die. It's just that I don't have the confidence that I can meet.

1. Not clear about what you really want.

2. I want too much.

3. I don't know how to get what I want.

4. Do not accept yourself and others.

5. You can't ask for it, you can't let it go, and you can't change it.

The authorities are fascinated, people are living in their own "bureau", desperately trying to go out, but they are powerless, calm down, don't be unhappy for a certain thing, a certain person, people can only think openly, life will be easy.

This question of yours has left me tangled.

I think of it this way, when you're torn between the two outcomes you want most, people get tangled. It's also much better when you make a decision.

It's normal to get tangled, because tangled is the same as thinking.

Face the tangled: Face it head-on, in fact, the tangled itself is beneficial, as long as it doesn't affect your life. Tangled, it means that you are seeking change, and in the process of change, you will feel other things, this is your harvest.

Because I know people who have feelings.

<> in the final analysis, entanglement is often a combination of internal and external.

Internally, it refers to one's own heart. I am a little greedy and lack courage, which is the catalyst for entanglement.

Greed is the inability to accept the imperfection of one thing. I got the watermelon, which was sweet but heavy. Find sesame seeds that are not heavy, but not as thirst-quenching as watermelon. In his heart, he thought about finding something sweet and not heavy, but even if he found an apple, he would find a new tangle point - the apple still had to be peeled.

So the "perfectionism" mechanism in the heart began to work constantly, constantly looking for the truly perfect option. But you'll see that perfectionism is in quotation marks – because on the other hand, you don't have the courage to do so. Even if a perfect choice is found, due to the cost of time and energy, people who are entangled begin to struggle with whether to take action.

Well, there is no such option in this world. Take one of them, I feel that it is inappropriate, and then there is endless entanglement, so entangled that there will never be an answer, so it drags on.

When you see this, you will be very familiar with it, isn't this the psychology of many leftover women and men? I want to find a perfect other half, but I don't want to put in the effort to find it, but I have been passively waiting. To put it simply, I can't accept my own imperfections.

Externally, it refers to one's own lack of assertiveness. If people are struggling, they will tend to seek outside help in most cases. But because they don't have a sound psychological screening mechanism.

In the face of different opinions, it is only summed up in three words: "reasonable", and accept or reject it all. It has to be mentioned that Chinese-style education rarely cultivates students' ability to think backwards. So many people are incapable of thinking backwards about which suggestions are inherently untenable.

Because people are emotional advanced animals, they will have concerns when doing anything, and this so-called concern is what you call "entanglement", or it can be said that because people are thoughtful, just because this kind of thinking often makes people feel very annoyed, if anyone does not have [entanglement], then he is not a normal person. Be a man, don't complicate simple things, there won't be so many troubles [tangled], it's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be kind to yourself.

In fact, happiness is very simple, as long as we know how to be satisfied

This question is a good question, it can be said that the development of human beings and the continuation of life will inevitably produce such and such problems, in which no matter what happens, including scientific and technological progress, there will be entanglements, not to mention society, even if the family or further even a person will have entanglements, because it is impossible to smooth sailing, there will always be difficulties and unpleasantness, so there will be entanglements, if there are no entanglements, then there will be no development and future, and it is unimaginable to live a lifetime without entanglements.

Life life, born to live, in order to live, you will encounter all kinds of things, encounter things to solve, this process can not avoid tangled, there is no way, can only say that the heart is open, do not put anything in the heart, the heart is bigger.

Introverted and honest, take everything very seriously, I was too, I have to struggle for a long time when people say a word, hey! Temper and character, this has advantages and disadvantages, try to change it, right? As long as it's not a big thing, a matter of principle, you can pass it, you can't pass it, and it will not be over time, say rough, be a monk for a day, hit the clock for a day, say civilization, there is no stump that can't be crossed.