A colleague pretends not to know what kind of mentality it is

Colleagues know and respect you at work, and rely heavily on your position in the company and the benefits brought by your position. Therefore, in the workplace, we need to distinguish the reason why colleagues know you, whether it is because of your person or because of your position, according to my years of workplace experience, most of them value your position and platform.

Interpersonal relationship. It is a kind of social relationship established by people in the process of production or life activities.

This kind of relationship will have an impact on people's psychology and will form a certain sense of distance in people's psychology.

It is the direct psychological relationship or distance that people have in their interactions, and it reflects the psychological state of an individual seeking to meet his or her social needs.

Sociology defines interpersonal relationship as a kind of social relationship established by people in the process of production or life activities. Psychology defines interpersonal relationships as direct psychological connections that people make in their interactions.

Chinese often refers to the general term of interpersonal relationships, also known as "interpersonal communication", including kinship.

Friendship, student-student relationship, teacher-student relationship, employment relationship.

Comrade-in-arms, colleague and leader and led, etc.

Human beings are social animals, each individual has its own unique thoughts, background, attitudes, personality, behavior patterns and values, but interpersonal relationships have a great impact on everyone's mood, life and work, and even have a great impact on the organizational atmosphere, organizational communication, organizational operation, organizational efficiency and the relationship between individuals and organizations.

1.Introduce yourself.

Introduce yourself in a concise, appropriate and creative way. No matter what kind of social situation you are in, the first lesson you want to expand your relationships is to learn to introduce yourself. Try to win by surprise. Let the other person remember you firmly, and remember the positive image.

2.Delightful style.

Develop a cheerful, lively personality and make the other person feel that it is a pleasure to be with you.

3.Humorous and funny.

Cultivate humorous words and deeds, humorous without losing proportion, funny without being frivolous, and giving people the enjoyment of beauty. Be humble in your dealings with others, be kind and respectful, otherwise things will backfire.

4.Look for topics.

Why do we often miss out on so many opportunities to make connections? It's because we often use those ** periods to rack our brains, but we still can't squeeze out a suitable opening sentence. Whether it's active or passive, you can open the conversation box handy.

Once you can reach this state, no matter where you are left behind, you will be able to quickly enter the situation, expand your popularity as you like, and create one excellent development opportunity after another for yourself in life and career.

5.Remember others.

Remember someone's first name or last name, take the initiative to greet people, and address them appropriately so that others feel polite and valued, giving people the impression of being approachable.

6.Calm.

No matter what kind of argument there is, you must be calm and not complain, so that not only will you be happy and self-contained, but others will also be happy.

7.Perfect yourself.

Build yourself into a useful person, someone who has a beneficial influence on others.

No mentality. There are good relationships between colleagues, and there are many contacts. There are also people who don't have any contact, and the relationship is generally not even related at all (colleagues are just in vain).

There is no need to call it! Especially in large units, there are hundreds of people. There are a lot of colleagues who don't have a lot of contact, and even more so!

First, it may be that he thinks he is more powerful.

Second, it may have something to do with his personal mentality.

Third, there may be some misunderstanding between you.

Fourth, maybe he's been in a bad mood lately and doesn't want to talk.

Finally, don't care too much, just watch it in a few days, and if it's still the same, find a time to talk to him to see what the situation is, and then make the next step.

If you are sure that he really sees you, then... It doesn't prove that he thinks anything about you, sometimes I do the same, when I see someone I know (just a basic understanding) walking over, I will have a feeling of being broken into, after all, I didn't expect to run into it.

In fact, the relationship is not enough.

This mentality is actually very embarrassing. Maybe you will fall into an inexplicable embarrassment at that time, and you will be very speechless. So this friend is a superficial friend.

It's just that I don't know each other, I don't want to have too much contact with you, and there will be good relationships between classmates, and if I don't know him, he doesn't want to have anything to do with you.

I must be in a state of confusion first, and then think about what the reason is, and the psychology must be weird, and I will associate many reasons.

There are people next to people, maybe they don't want people to know what they do, anyway, people have their own secrets.

Your colleague pretended not to know you when he saw you, maybe it was caused by a little estrangement between you.

It's possible that this colleague is more introverted, or it could be your problem.

Maybe you didn't know each other well when you were in the company before, or maybe you didn't have a good relationship, but you just knew each other

That must be his reason, maybe the relationship is rusty, maybe the other party's personality is too arrogant and a little disdainful.

You should also get to know each other again.

Explain that your relationship is only average.

I don't want to pay attention to you, why do you still ask the reason, and passers-by are better from now on.

I feel like there are many reasons for this, depending on my relationship with the person I avoided and what has happened recently. If you don't know each other well, it's possible that someone else forgot my name, or because of unnecessary greetings and embarrassment of not knowing what to say. It's a good relationship, and it's possible that something happens that makes him feel embarrassed to talk to me.

They recognized me and wanted to say hello, but when they saw that I didn't say hello for a long time, they were afraid of the embarrassing situation of no one responding after saying hello, so they hesitated and missed.

A classmate of my junior high school, and I and several other classmates were admitted to the county No. 1 middle school, she was assigned to the experimental class, I was one point away from entering the experimental class (the school also has a strengthening class), as soon as she entered high school, she completely pretended not to know us, met on the road, we will habitually say hello, she will avoid our eyes in most cases, I can't avoid looking at us with a strange face, but she is very lively in front of others, and more than 2,000 people in the school have almost heard of her. Maybe she thinks it's a shame for her to know classmates like us in the village?