The head teacher reminded parents that parents must not indulge in the major vices that will ruin a

Often spoiling children excessively, often scolding children, and often putting a lot of pressure on children, these behaviors may ruin a child's life.

These vices will ruin the child's life, parents must pay attention, first of all, the dependence is very strong, do not like to think, encounter any problems will find their own parents, wishes are not met on the temper tantrums, even start to beat people, do things half-heartedly, there is no beginning and no end.

Not caring about the child, often belittling the child, beating and scolding the child, and failing to provide a good learning environment for the child, these will ruin the child's life.

Parents are very disobedient, especially lazy, just play games and don't learn, if there are these kinds of performance, parents must punish him severely.

When a child likes to take other people's things, or rob other people's things, parents must punish him severely, otherwise it will hurt him if he becomes a habit.

From an early age, our parents will teach us to respect our elders, which is the basic etiquette that everyone has, and the foundation for a person's survival and development in society.

In the process of parenting, if there is a problem with the child's conduct. Parents need to punish them appropriately. Let your child recognize his mistakes so that he can correct them.

Parents are too harsh and loud when disciplining their children, and often lose their temper with their children will make their children timid, and sometimes they don't even understand why parents lose their temper, and they will suspect that they are not popular or that their parents don't love themselves, thinking that they can't do anything well, and they seriously lack a sense of belonging, and they are prone to inferiority and even cowardice, which affects the healthy development of children. If it is an excessively introverted child who yells and yells a lot, he will feel very inferior in the future, and he will feel that he can't do anything in front of others and has no self-confidence, and it will also make the child have no confidence in life.

If you yell at a naughty child, it will inspire the child to rebel. Such children will often work against adults and are not afraid of you. It also formed that he would yell at others in his later life, and a vicious circle would also be formed.

Everyone is in a different environment and has a different education. Yelling won't solve the fundamental problem. Parents are the first teachers of their children, they are role models for their children, living in a violent family, parents always use tantrums and violence to solve problems, and children will become very violent when they grow up, and they will also solve problems in a tantrum way, thus affecting their children's interpersonal relationships.

This kind of repressive education makes children feel that their parents cannot give them warmth and love, they cannot feel their parents' love for them, and children cannot express their pain or intimacy with their parents, and they are easy to feel pain in life and study; Affect children's self-confidence and lack of confidence in themselves. When children believe in their parents' "criticism", they will have self-denial, really feel that they are very bad, and lose confidence in themselves. If children are often reprimanded by their parents in public, they are prone to form an inferior introverted personality when they grow up, and even if they have a sense of self-optimization later, I am afraid that it will take a long transformation process, which will seriously affect work and life, and pay a huge price for it.

Children can become very low-spirited, introverted, uncommunicative, and irritable, which is not good for the child's physical and mental health if the situation is severe.

It can lead to lack of self-confidence and depression. Because loud scolding will frighten the child and become unconfident; And regular strict education will make children become untalkative and depressed.

It can be very stressful for children. It can even produce an autistic mentality. Usually reluctant to come into contact with outsiders. And there will be suicidal thoughts. I don't like to study,

It is very likely that the child will have low self-esteem, dare not speak, be very introverted, like loneliness, and produce the harm of depression.

1. Interrupt the conversation Why not ignore it: Your child may be eager to tell you something or ask you certain questions, but if you indulge in shouting at him to interrupt your conversation, it will not help teach him to think about others, let alone how to pass the time on his own when you are busy. The result will be that he thinks he has the right to attract the attention of others and cannot tolerate any frustration.

How to stop it: The next time before you want to hit or talk to a friend, tell your child to be quiet and not to disturb you. Arrange an activity for him or let him play with a toy that he doesn't usually play with.

If he pesters you while you are talking, you can point to a chair and ask him to sit there quietly and wait patiently for you to finish. Then tell him that interfering with others won't get what he wants.

2. Talk about aggressive behaviors Why you can't ignore them: When your child has a small conflict with a partner, you may not necessarily discipline him, but you should not ignore those small aggressive behaviors, such as pushing down a penis or pinching a child. Dr. Michelle, a parent consultant, believes that if you don't care, the child will become a bad habit when he or she is about 8 years old.

It is acceptable to let the message go unchecked that it hurts others. How to stop it: Respond to aggressive behavior head-on.

Pull the child aside and tell him, "That will hurt my sister." What would you do if he did this to you? "Tell him that it's okay to do anything to hurt someone.

Before the next time you go out, remind him not to be rude and overbearing, and help him practice what to say when he is angry. You can also give him a small punishment for Zheng Xian, and if he does it again, don't let him go out to play.

In the process of educating children, parents should not blindly tolerate their children and tolerate their children, that is, they should help their children develop some good habits, and at the same time, they should also help children develop some bad habits. Some of the bad problems in the child must not be used to, even if the parents are reluctant, they must be ruthless to discipline, otherwise the child will not be able to change when he grows up, and there will be endless troubles. For example, if parents find that their children like to shirk their responsibilities when they are young, they especially like to lie, or they are always grinding in doing things, have no sense of responsibility, and often lose their temper, and they don't know how to respect people, they must help them correct it as soon as possible.

Every parent wants their children to become responsible and responsible, but some children may not have the courage or self-confidence when they are young, so they always want to escape when they encounter things. Some children know that they have made mistakes, but they just want to escape and don't have the courage to admit it, so if parents see their children behaving like this, they must punish them severely. If the child does not even have the courage to admit his mistakes, it will be absolutely impossible to assume family responsibilities or social responsibilities in the future.

In addition, if parents find that their children always like to procrastinate, they should not indulge, because such children have no sense of time, and they are always easy to make excuses. Many parents may think that their children are still young and have no hands-on ability, so they feel that their children are slow to do things, but in fact, the habit of doing things has little to do with age. Children often do things slowly, it means that the child is particularly undisciplined, this habit is also particularly bad, the child may grow up to have a good attitude towards life, no self-motivation.

If a child often loses his temper with his parents in daily life and does not know how to respect people, it is also a very bad behavior, because every parent wants his child to be polite. If parents find that their children are angry with themselves, they must not indulge their children and must discipline them strictly. Parents' connivance is undoubtedly to make the child worse, and the child may use his temper to threaten the parents in the future, and he will become disrespectful and only take care of his own thoughts.

For example, children often lose their temper and are particularly willful. is not filial piety, filial piety, skillful drafts, and learning, and only cares about playing all day long. If you have wrinkles, you may be able to make your child rebellious and become the scum of society.

For example, children like to play with those bad discerning children, do not like to study, and will always contradict the teacher. The temper is particularly short-tempered. If you condone it, you may let your child commit a crime. Not sensible, not filial piety to the father and the hail mother,

For example, standing up in front of the whole class, being pointed at by all the children and saying "bad boy", or standing outside the door, etc. Repeated communication, but also to no avail. Such a teacher is not qualified for the basic requirements of a kindergarten teacher, so he decisively transfers.

How can the child endure it at such a young age, in order to avoid leaving a shadow in his heart, he must transfer to the kindergarten, and he must give the child a good sunny explanation.

Then you have to communicate with the child, understand the situation more, see why the child thinks so, help the child, guide the child, and let the child not be afraid. As a family, do you want your children to understand this truth from an early age, or do you want others to make a sense when they grow up? Think again.

After confirming that it was true, we reported the situation to the head teacher, and everyone's attitude was to change the teacher, and if it didn't work, we could only transfer to the kindergarten. It is better for parents to spend some time communicating with their children, guiding them, and communicating with teachers to understand each other.

Sometimes, if the attitude of individual teachers or nannies is too strict, parents can communicate with the class teacher and ask the relevant personnel to adjust their attitudes. If the teacher is very fierce to the children, it also means that the quality of the teacher is not good, and it is estimated that he must not have a teaching certificate.

In this way, at least let the children feel that when they encounter difficulties, they are all positive and have a hard work mentality. Then you can talk to the principal or the representative of the parent committee, reflect the relevant situation, and strive for the class to change teachers.

<>But that's the child's first impression of the school, and I don't need to explain how important the first impression is, right? But if it is excessively fierce, like a lot of **** events now, I think it is necessary to change the way that children can be happy to let the babies experience life, learn to understand the rules, and at the same time full of childlike fun. The female teacher's ** vicious face is still vivid, and I will never forget it in my life.

If the kindergarten teacher is fierce, then change the kindergarten! And it's human nature to have a bad attitude. Now my child is in junior high school, and he is a good child with a lively and cheerful personality and excellent character and learning.

It's not a good thing at all, because the requirements are too harsh, the child is very stressed, his emotions will be affected, and why is the head teacher so demanding on the child, and not his child.

I think this is a good thing, first of all, the class teacher can better regulate the behavior of the children, and at the same time, they can better motivate the children, and for the children, they can also help the children improve their grades and make the children better and better.

I don't think it's a good thing, some children have a strong rebellious mentality, they will disobey discipline, and if you restrain them too much, it will lead to psychological problems.

I don't think so, because every child's personality is different, and it is necessary to educate them appropriately according to their personality, rather than being just strict.

A good thing, of course. Now this can make children more demanding of themselves, and to a certain extent, it can also improve children's abilities and promote children's growth.

It's a good thing, because the class teacher is stricter, which can also help the children improve their grades and let the children have better development.

I think this is a good thing, which shows that the class teacher is very responsible for the child and wants the child to become a talent, so the requirements are particularly demanding.

It can be regarded as a good thing, because if the head teacher is more strict, the children he accepts will be more obedient, the grades will definitely be very good, and the children's self-discipline will also improve to a certain extent.

First of all, parents must make children realize that their attitude towards some things is very incorrect, and tell them that if they are not serious about some things, then there is no benefit to their future growth, and at the same time, they must know and advise their children to change this bad habit.

Plagiarize homework and study while playing with your phone. Plagiarism of homework, so that children lose the ability to think independently; Learning while playing with your mobile phone affects the quality of learning.

When studying, if there is a mistake, I don't change it in time, and then I don't judge the right or wrong after completing the question, I don't preview new knowledge, and I am very procrastinating when I do my homework, which is particularly grinding.

1 When he usually rests, he basically has no knowledge of books. A very good reading habit can make him interested in learning. 2.

Reluctance to make friends with other children will make him very isolated in his daily life, and he is unwilling to socialize with others, which will have an impact on the development of his emotional intelligence. 3.Always likes to lose his temper.

When he makes a mistake, if you reproach him, he will be very deep. This will make him easy to give up on himself when facing problems in his usual studies.