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It's better to look at this in the light of your own strength and experience. There are many reasons why you like to turn on the lights when you sleep, do you wake up early, do you love to study? Is it because you put too much emphasis on learning and efficiency?
I feel that you are very depressed and very stressed, even so, you have to learn to regulate your life by yourself, learning is important but not everything. Man is still born to be happy. Why don't you release it when you're tired, if you hold it for a long time, something will happen sooner or later.
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This is a sign of insecurity, which may be related to what happened to you in the past. When sleeping, you can dim the lights appropriately and gradually turn off the lights. Others should be appropriately open-minded, as the saying goes, it is not about oneself, do not pay too much attention to the external environment, and focus on self-improvement.
Find a friend, talk, tell them about the depressing, and listen to the light ** can alleviate the psychological shadow.
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Work and study are stressful. Listen**, read some relaxing reading, take a walk, look at the scenery, find someone to talk to, and sleep enough for 8 hours. If you want to start everything, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, time will make everything. Slowly, it's light-hearted.
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Psychological effect, should be extroverted, do not always turn yourself in the introvert.
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Mental problems, lack of self-confidence. Participate in more social activities and contact more people.
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It's because you've heard too many similar incidents before, and it has planted an incomplete feeling in your heart that the door is open.
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It's normal. So do I.
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I don't think anyone will feel safe if they don't close the door.
But it's a bit strange to close the windows and take the curtains?
On a hot day, will it be the same?
How long have you been in this situation?
Did something happen at that time?
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It's just a personal habit, and it doesn't match the sense of security.
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It's a bit of a lack of self-confidence. Little brother. However, it is too hot this day, and it is time to close the curtains and turn on the air conditioner.
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Personality is more introverted I also have most of the faults you have, and at the same time, I may also have the faults that you haven't listed, everyone has some little quirks, put yourself in a normal mind, read more to make yourself stand taller, and be more mature, some of the faults will disappear immediately, don't think too much.
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You are missing only one thing, a sunny happy object.
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Adjust your mindset and talk to your friends!
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I don't think it's a sign of autism, it's a distrust of the things around you, in other words, an insecurity. This type of person is usually more sensitive, and a small sound, a small movement will cause this kind of nervousness and uneasiness. Try to get closer to nature and read more books that strengthen your mind!
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Typical autism, if often like this, is not only not good for the body, but also not good for the psyche, can only be more and more closed, the space is getting smaller and smaller, you should go out for a walk, make more friends, the cause of autism can only be answered by going to a psychologist.
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I guess it's a little special. But it doesn't have to be a mental illness, it's just a personal habit.
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What's the psychological shadow, right? Schoolgirl?
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Did you go through something? What you say is only superficial. It's not that you don't like to talk. It's stressful. As long as you don't do anything wrong, try to socialize with others. Talking will you die? Push yourself to try it out like this.
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So do I ... Depressed... I'm a woman.
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People always have to learn to grow up slowly, in fact, if you sleep by yourself, the first time you feel very scared, as long as you overcome, slowly you will get used to it, everyone sleeps by themselves for the first time, time, will feel very scared, just I am an adult, I remember one time, near our home, something happened, after hearing it, I felt very scared, I can't sleep in a room, but there is no way, I will overcome it, I am afraid that I did not sleep all night before I dare to sleep, but I overcame this time, next time, I don't feel so scared, little by little, I get used to it.
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No... I used to do that, and I'm not afraid.
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Personal character, not autism,
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Find a good person to sleep with, and you won't be afraid.
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Generally speaking, the door needs to be closed at night, at least the windows on the lower floors are closed, this is normal, don't give yourself a hint, feel that you lack a sense of security, I think most people are like this, as for turning on the small light, it is convenient to get up at night, and there is nothing important It is important not to suggest yourself.
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Maybe it's because you have other conditions, or it's because your experience has made you have a psychological shadow, like this kind of thing, well, you can only overcome it slowly, and slowly get used to it for a long time.
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If you really can't give up, try to give him a chance to change But sometimes it's not the age distance One year is not too big It's mainly the gap in inner maturity Personality is difficult to change in the world My suggestion is to find someone who is more mature than yourself So that you won't be tired And what aspect of insecurity are you talking about? If the boy doesn't even have the most basic sense of security, it's better to break up, but sometimes love is not easy to say, if the man is single-minded to you, and has a sense of responsibility, and is just immature in some aspects, you won't be disgusted with him, or keep it, because it's hard to find a boy in this world who makes you completely satisfied, maybe other boys are mature in the world, and other aspects are insufficient, this is the so-called house flower can never be compared to wild flowers, and look at other people's husbands are always better than their own husbands So if you think he has a lot of things that you appreciate, ignore the small mistakes, and if the big ones are insecure, it's better to divide it, youth can't afford to squander, and when it is broken, it will be broken.