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It shouldn't go on anymore and you should leave your boyfriend and the family as early as possible. Making choices early will also keep you from falling into such a deep position and avoid future harm.
The other party's family is indifferent, indicating that they are not satisfied with you. When you are in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, if the other party's parents recognize you as their daughter-in-law, their attitude towards you will be very good, and there are many mothers-in-law who will pretend to be very good before marriage and give their daughter-in-law problems after marriage. If you are not married now, and the other party's parents are very indifferent to you, it can only prove that they don't like you, and they don't treat you as a daughter-in-law in their hearts, if you insist on being with your boyfriend, and your relationship with his parents is more difficult after marriage, they will embarrass you everywhere, in order to make yourself happier in the future, it is better to leave early, which is good for you and your boyfriend.
Try to fight for it and don't be yourself. If your boyfriend who loves you very much doesn't want to be separated from him, then you need to find out why their family treats you this way. If it's because of some of your habits that they don't like, then you can change it, and slowly your relationship will ease.
If your boyfriend complains about you behind your back and misleads them about you, in this case, I advise you not to fight for it, because your boyfriend does not love you and will not think about it for you from your point of view. If they feel that you are not worthy of their son and are indifferent to you, then you don't need to fight for it, in this case it is difficult for the other family to accept you.
I also hope that the future will be happier, if your relationship before marriage is so bad, then you will have more problems after marriage. Your mother-in-law doesn't like you, and she will often mislead his son, so that your little couple will often quarrel, and your relationship will be seriously affected in the long run.
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Your boyfriend has a very bad attitude in front of his family and treats you badly, you can communicate with him well when you are alone with him, I hope he can respect you, don't always yell at you in front of his family, and if he doesn't respect you, you break up with him again. He can change you just in accepting Him.
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There is no need to continue, if it doesn't hurt, you don't want him, there are many good men, and there is no shortage of him.
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You deserve to be yelled at, why do you have nothing to live in? You're not a family, you're just friends, and your master's family is supposed to cook.
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In fact, this is the crux of the problem, so don't continue when you don't need to go down, but there is another possibility that I didn't treat you as an outsider, but I haven't passed the door yet.
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In that case, there is no need to continue.
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Very serious to you in front of his family. That's because he wants to have face in front of his family, that's why he treats you like this. I hope my answer will be helpful to you, and I hope to adopt it, thank you.
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This is very normal from the man's self-esteem, the scene between you and me is only suitable for the two of you when you are together, a sensible woman should actively cooperate with her boyfriend's performance, he will feel that you can go up and down the kitchen, will like you more, if you don't cooperate will only increase your troubles, so how to choose you should know!
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Your boyfriend behaves very seriously to you in front of his family, in order to make their family feel comfortable, you see that my son is still quite promising, he can control his future wife, and his future daughter-in-law is also obedient, all kinds of performances for their family to see, then again, is your boyfriend not good to his family to you? If it's good to you, let's say it, if it's not good, then reconsider, in the future, when you get married to their family, he has to support you, otherwise you will be angry with your mother-in-law.
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Because he doesn't want their family to think that he is centered on you, and then he takes it seriously, that is, to put it bluntly, even if he tells her family, he doesn't treat him as a pinch.
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Your boyfriend is serious about you as long as he is in front of his family, mainly embarrassed to do some dear acts in front of his family.
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Some boys may prefer to save face, and they may feel a little more masculine and more macho in front of their families.
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Pretending to be machismo, appearing to have a status and a voice in the family, makes you feel that he is not a casual person.
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It shows that his family is a very traditional family, and he has to be in order in front of his parents.
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Men, men want face and dignity. Women have to save face.
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I want to have more face in front of my family.
Prove your status.
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Maybe he thinks it's unseemly to be in front of your family.
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It's all like that. I can't get tired of you in front of my family.
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It's not right for you to do this, there is no such thing as a parent, no matter what your parents say and do is right, you can't scold them in your heart, as a son of a person, if your parents are wrong, first of all, don't contradict them, listen to them quietly, and when they're done, you go and talk to them calmly, you have to say what they are wrong and what you think about something, where they accuse you, you have to say what you think through chat, not what they say, you don't want to listen to them and lose your temper with them, parents are the ones who brought you into this world, No matter who treats you badly, parents will not do anything that harms their children, and you must treat your parents with a grateful heart.
Yes, it can't be like this, it's all family.
Your parents are so impatient because of the wrong way of education. Is there something wrong with your own mentality. The way your parents educate you is certainly not right, but you are already 22 years old, you are already an adult, and you should be sensible.
Whatever your parents say, you're doing it for your good. Your actions are not accepted by your parents. Then you should be doing something bad.
Reflect on some of your practices and ideas about why you are not accepted. Parents want you to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and you can live a good life. You are 22 years old, and you still have a rebellious mentality, how uncomfortable your parents are!
You have to seriously reflect on your heart and your thoughts, your parents think you are not doing well, have you seriously thought about what you have done? You are so old and still scolding your parents, and some people think it's strange that you are filial. You can't just say that you're bad, and your parents shouldn't scold you.
It's your parents' fault. They should also reflect on themselves. Both sides reflect on what they have done.
If we continue like this, we can only hurt each other.
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I think since their family doesn't approve of you, and your boyfriend doesn't side with you, then you should think carefully about the relationship. At the very least, feelings should be based on mutual respect. In this way, the relationship will be long-lasting.
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This is the influence of your parents, if your parents don't have this kind of influence, he must have a different opinion of you, he may give you, the idea to judge this is a preconceived concept. I think my boyfriend still lacks his own concept.
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His father always told him. I'm not good, that's not good, and then every time we quarrel he insults me with these words. In fact, as a parent, it is wrong for a daughter-in-law to say this.
The daughter-in-law should not be blamed, nor should she say bad things about the daughter-in-law. Over time, contradictions will accumulate.
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Boyfriend fathers have a lot of influence on your boyfriend.
The projection of his father's words succeeded.
So he agreed with some of his father's statements.
Therefore, it will only be said when there is a quarrel.
Look at it on a deeper level.
Your boyfriend is unhappy with you.
I suggest that you state this calmly and objectively.
Communicate well.
You can ask your boyfriend.
What do you think I need to improve?
Let's talk.
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He should love you very much, and he fell out with his parents who gave birth to him and raised him for you!
It's all done so much for you, it's normal for him to complain a few words, be good to him!
I wish you all happiness.
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Two options:
First, break up, second, forbearance.
There's nothing to say after reading it.,I think you can do it.,Ordinary girls can't stand it.,You're not stingy like that.,It's only 200.,There are exams.,And small expenses.,And so on really annoying.,You're not comfortable because you buy things for your niece.,You think the money itself is not enough and you should be able to save it.,But your boyfriend should be a face-saving person.,Hey! There's nothing you can do, 200 can't do anything anyway, just let him be, I'm thinking of a way, I'll definitely get through it, bless you!
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I think she may not like to show sweetness with you in front of everyone, maybe she is embarrassed or doesn't want to show your goodness to everyone, let everyone know, it has something to do with her personality. Actually, it doesn't matter, you don't have to mind too much, at least she didn't tell you not to be nice to her, didn't she. Otherwise, ask her the reason in person, and I'll tell you.
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