My boyfriend s parents are lukewarm to me, don t they like me?

Lukewarm may be because of the first acquaintance. They don't know how to communicate with you, and they will get to know you slowly, so don't be too anxious at first.

Don't think about it, that's it, they don't like you, otherwise they will definitely be in your feelings, and they will not be cold and hot to you.

There is a reason why he doesn't like it, or his parents are originally this kind of character. Some old people will not be too enthusiastic about people if they have a cold personality. Of course, if you don't like it, he probably won't let you go to the house.

Definitely. If there is no special preparation at the dinner table, just make a few dishes casually, or simply serve leftovers. And no one deliberately greeted you during the meal, which means that the man's family does not pay attention to this girl at all.

Imagine going to the man's house for dinner for the first time, and they should be prepared to show their welcome to you. But to put it simply, it means that I don't think about you at all.

Boyfriend's parents don't pay attention to the performance

1. I didn't prepare a meal intentionally.

If every time a girl goes to the man's house, the man's parents will not deliberately cook a few dishes because of your arrival, but will randomly deal with a few leftovers, which is one of the manifestations of the man's parents not paying enough attention. Although there is no need to put on a feast, there should be at least respect, at least make a few fresh dishes.

2. Don't talk to your potato limbs.

If you go to the man's house, and the man's parents only care about their own things or play, and do not care about your existence and do not chat with you, it may be that they do not pay enough attention to you.

3. The man's parents are noisy in front of you.

Although quarrels between husband and wife are indispensable, they should also pay attention to the occasion, if they are always arguing in front of you, it is also a lack of attention to you and do not take into account your feelings.

4. There are no red envelope gifts.

The first time a girl goes to the man's house, there is a custom of giving red envelopes or gifts in many places. If the man's hometown has these customs, but his parents didn't give red envelopes or gifts when you first went to their house, it may be that they don't pay enough attention to you.

When many women go to their boyfriend's house for the first time, they will struggle with whether they want to help with the housework. In this regard, I don't think it's necessary to be diligent at this high age, although it seems to improve the favorability, it is easy to lay a bad foundation for yourself, and if you can't be diligent at this moment in the future, it will backfire. And if you go to your boyfriend's house for the first time, you are asked to cook, wash dishes, and do housework, on the one hand, it shows that the other party does not respect you enough and does not know how to treat guests, and on the other hand, it shows that in their opinion, these are the future daughter-in-law's affairs, and this attitude will become a serious source of conflict in the future.

Normally, when a woman goes to her boyfriend's house, the other party's parents are polite and do not let the woman do housework, which is normal hospitality, representing their politeness and respect. And if they meet for the first time, the man's parents let the woman do the housework, and the woman is better off not marrying. Maybe some girls don't pay attention to each other if they don't pay attention to it, and they haven't been with them.

But women need to understand that this kind of inattention, in addition to their own cold relationship with their son, is not satisfied with you, and either is actually not a good thing. The stiff relationship in the family indicates that they have a big problem with running the family, and the boyfriend who grew up in this environment will naturally be affected, and it is very likely that the same problem will be manifested in the future family. And if they are not satisfied with you, then the problem will be more serious, and they will naturally create obstacles everywhere in the rest of their lives.

For many girls, when they communicate with their boyfriend's parents, they can experience the other person's attitude towards them, so in such a situation, if the other party's mother is not enthusiastic about themselves, then how can we get the love of others?

1. Express yourself positively

For boyfriends' parents, the reason why they are not enthusiastic about themselves is actually a very important reason because they don't know themselves well enough, so in such a situation, as long as we communicate with each other with our hearts and actively express ourselves, I believe that the other party will also have a great change in themselves. When I first met my boyfriend's parents, I also encountered a similar situation, but I didn't give up such a relationship because of their coldness, but more let them know themselves well enough so that they could truly accept themselves, so in the end we became a family.

2. Choose a gift that the other person likes

When we buy a gift for our boyfriend's mother, we can first ask the boyfriend to see what his parents like, so that we can choose a gift that is very suitable for the other person, and it can better reflect our own care. For parents, maybe they don't judge each other because of their looks, but more on the feelings between their children and an attitude towards themselves, so the best way to get closer to your boyfriend's mother is to get the other party's approval through gifts.

The above points are some of my personal opinions, and I hope they can be helpful to all of you. At the same time, I also hope that after encountering such a situation, you must not rush to choose to escape, but more bravely face it, believing that as long as you work hard enough, you will be able to get the consent of the other party's parents, and it is also conducive to maintaining such a relationship.

I will choose to break up with my boyfriend, because I really don't want to have such an unreasonable mother-in-law, then my life will be very miserable in the future.

It's good to go with the flow, after all, he lives with his boyfriend, and if he doesn't have a good personality with his mother, he will live separately in the future.

I may talk to my boyfriend's mother more and be closer to each other, so that they may gradually get to know me and like me.

I don't think it matters, I can only get along slowly, because I robbed other people's sons.

I think at this time, for the sake of my boyfriend, I need to try to live peacefully with my future mother-in-law.