Will the daughter who marries go back to her parents home or her own home?

Some people say that for married women, their mother's family will always be the home in their hearts, and some people say that for married women, their mother's family has become the closest relative, in fact, what is their mother's home, hundreds of people's tastes, although the taste is different, but the feelings of blood thicker than water can not change.

If your parents say that this is not your home, in fact, it is to let you live a good life in your in-law's house wholeheartedly, it is a kind of supreme love, your parents do not want you, do not love you, but for you to have a better future, because the rest of your life will take root, sprout and become a tree independently in that place called your mother-in-law's house.

In short, slowly you will realize that sometimes the daughter who marries out is really spilled water, but sometimes it is a wandering tree, and it is really hard to say that the mother's family is still not the mother's family! Don't just look at the appearance, be kind and cherish.

In fact, many people nowadays will not have some of the previous ideas, people in the past would say that the daughter who married out spilled the water, but now many people have changed this idea, and the daughter who marries out will return to her parents' home is also their own home.

The daughter's heart, of course, is still the daughter's home. But in the hearts of my brother or sister-in-law, it is estimated that it is no longer so. Parents will also leave their daughter at home.

Will the daughter who marries go back to her parents' home or her own home? Of course, my mother's home will always be my home.

My mother's home is my own home.

The brother-in-law is the biggest.

What are the grievances.

Mother's family is going to come out.

The daughter who marries out returns to her parents' home, of course, her own home, after all, she is her biological parents, and it is also the place where you were born and raised.

No, according to the old custom, the answer is to go back to your in-laws' house.

It is customary to say, "The daughter who marries out, spills the water", and the daughter who marries out is the person from the husband's family. Therefore, at the beginning of the new year, all families are reunited, and the daughter who marries out should also celebrate the New Year at her husband's house. There is also a superstitious saying that at the end of the year, the deceased elders will go home from the sky to enjoy the incense offerings of the descendants, and the daughters are splashed out of the water, which is an outsider, and the ancestors will not enter the door when they see an outsider and enjoy the incense.

According to today's new thinking, the answer is to go back to either side. As science education continues to spread, fewer and fewer people want to believe these ugly superstitious claims.

The daughter who marries is the daughter-in-law of the husband's family, and the son-in-law is half of the son of the mother's family. In terms of blood, it will not cut off the relationship between mother and daughter and father and daughter because of the sentence "spilled water".

Whether you can go back to your parents' house for the New Year depends on the old customs of each place. As far as most of the rural areas of Guangxi are concerned, the daughter who marries out cannot go home for the New Year, one is hindered by old customs and superstitions, and the other is to consider the daughter's husband's family, and after marriage, the daughter has her own family, and the family is reunited in the New Year, so the daughter should still live in the husband's house.

But except for the beginning.

First, on special holidays such as Chinese New Year's Eve and the 15th Day, the daughter can still return to her mother's home. And it must be returned, because there is a good wish for the newlyweds, that is, after the marriage, the newlyweds visit their relatives for the first time, and the relatives will return a considerable red envelope, wishing the newlyweds to spread out as soon as possible.

Without taking into account the customs of the old days, it is possible to:

1. The mother's family and the husband's family are neighbors or upstairs and downstairs. The two families had a reunion dinner together and spent Chinese New Year's Eve together. I will eat at my mother's house this year and my husband's house next year. More than a dozen people prepare the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner together, celebrate the New Year together, lively and lively, and enjoy the joy of the family.

2. The two families are relatively close, Chinese New Year's Eve is spent at the husband's house, and the second year of junior high school is spent at the mother's house. The son-in-law took his father-in-law's family home for the New Year together, and the neighbors were full of envy when they saw it, and the family was busy in their hands and warm in their hearts.

3. If the mother's family is across provinces or cities from the husband's family, you can consider spending a year in one family, so that the family on both sides will not be left behind.

In particular, if both husband and wife are only children, special consideration should be given to the parents.

Where to go back for the Spring Festival is for family affection, and when we are young, we work hard outside for a year, isn't it also for the family to have a better life. After a hard year outside, the energy is exhausted, and it is time to go home to the safe haven to recharge and prepare for the next year's struggle. The daughter who marries is the daughter-in-law of her husband's family, and the son-in-law is the son of her mother's family, so she is home wherever she goes.

Because after we have smashed the old traditions, we have not established new norms that are more perfect than the old traditions.