Hehe, after the quarrel, my boyfriend quietly disappeared into my life 5

Updated on psychology 2024-07-13
57 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Maybe what your friends said was right, maybe your friends just wanted to use a few cold words to soothe your guilty and anxious feelings, maybe what your friends said was just "what your friends said" in your eyes. Your love is still your own, it is exclusive to you and him, if you love him, then you should be brave enough to make further efforts for your unintentional frustration of feelings, at least for the fall of this relationship and his departure. If you are also unable or bored to continue the relationship, then such a silent ending may be the best ending, even if each other's lives in the future have long been strangers and become so-called "familiar strangers".

    Listening to your own opinions is the best opinion, and bravely chasing or bravely letting go, all so that you can bravely find your own happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't push him too hard lately, send him some words of concern and greetings every day. If he doesn't ignore you for a week, I guess as your friend said, he wants to break up with you. A person who loves you will not leave you to dry and will not be indiscriminate about your feelings.

    When you send a message to open the door and ask him if he wants to score.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Send you famous poems by chance.

    I am a cloud in the sky, occasionally projected in the heart of your waves—you need not be amazed, much less rejoice

    In an instant, all traces were wiped out.

    You and I meet on the sea of night, you have yours, I have mine, direction;

    It's good for you to remember, it's better for you to forget, the light that shines on each other at this rendezvous.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I've never seen such a stingy man, so it's better to stay away from him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't rush, maybe he just needs time to think. Either ask him how he played, or leave a message and ask him to report his safety.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't his parents know where he went? Have relatives and friends asked? Check out the Internet café nearby? Otherwise, you can only call the police.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How is this boyfriend like a little woman?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This kind of man ... Think for yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    What your feelings are like can't be judged from the above few lines.

    As a girlfriend, of course, you hope that your boyfriend can think from your point of view, but you have been doing it for 3 years, so the little things in life may not let you everywhere, which does not mean that he does not love you, maybe he thinks you are willful. The reason why other girls told him to turn it off, and he acted immediately, I think it was just out of politeness. However, as a boy, you should take the initiative afterwards, and you will turn off ** in the end, which proves that it is really in the way of others, and your boyfriend should take the initiative to reconcile with you.

    In fact, there is no one right or wrong in your case, everyone's thoughts cannot be exactly the same, and it is someone who is so close to you, these are just a small test for both parties, as long as you don't keep it in mind. The longer you drag things out, the bigger the seams will be. In the emotional world, the onlooker can be said to have no right to speak, feel it with his heart, and deal with it by himself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How can I get him to take the initiative to apologize to me?

    Have you ever thought that you could quarrel just over such a trivial matter? Now I question your relationship with him, maybe you care about him so much that you care about everything about him, but what I want to say is: why do you have to impose your own preferences on your lover?

    Give him a little space, too tight love will suffocate him!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't bird him, put it to the test.

    Save when you get married and regret it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's nothing, it's a small thing, it's a little thing, it's a little bit, it's a little bit of a little thing, it's a little bit of a little thing, it's

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Take the initiative to apologize? It depends on whether he is that kind of man, and some men would rather break up than apologize to girls. You have to pay attention, many times the precursor of a breakup is that he doesn't care about what you say, doesn't carry out your orders, and is cold to you.

    I'm interested in your 20 Reward Points, can you give them to me?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell him not to get married, and let the woman go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really love him, why do you care who apologizes first, I think the mutual understanding and understanding between the two is the most important thing! It's really not easy to have a true love. I hope your boyfriend will be happy!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, you are not suitable, break up, especially couples who are about to face marriage, you must carefully review whether your other half is suitable for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Looking at your situation, in the case that you suspect that he has a new girlfriend, (he also took the initiative to tell you that he has a new girlfriend), it means that he wants to give up, and find a new girlfriend without breaking up with you, no matter what the reason, this person's character is not very good.

    If it's just to be angry with you or something, then he shouldn't shut down no matter why he is on QQ and not stealth, you can give up because of his behavior, which is a betrayal.

    His QQ is online, mostly to see if you are still looking for him, to see if you have anything to say that people are angry, and they don't care, but when you calm down, you will think about some practical problems.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You've already said you're dead set on him, so you don't care if he's online or invisible.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As far as quarrels are concerned, then you really don't have any principled problems, so let's try to change them.

    1. Break point, first find a reason to buy a small gift for him, so that even if he is very disdainful on the surface, he may be embarrassed to be particularly cold. Then send some text messages appropriately, which can be amusing and fun, not necessarily to express your love for him, but gradually.

    2. Then deliberately make something he likes to eat, and tell him that he will taste it, and he doesn't need to eat a lot.

    3. Deliberately get some coupons, just ask him tactfully if he has time, and he must be very cold and say that he doesn't have time or ask you directly about something. You just say that there is a coupon or something, and it's a pity not to go (this coupon is best bought for the other party's parents). Be careful not to feel strong and show that it's a pity (as if you want to take advantage of that).

    4. Women's magic weapon, "coquettish". Don't be embarrassed to use it, it's nothing to be coquettish with your husband. Versatile. A woman's strength lies not in who said who said who during the quarrel, but in letting her husband know that we were unreasonable, but so that he had no motivation to lose his temper.

    Feelings need to be saved, why did I quarrel with my husband to coax us before, because there is a number of savings in the "emotional savings card", but the withdrawal speed always exceeds the amount deposited, and it will naturally hurt after a long time. Men are also human beings, they can also be sad and vulnerable. Landlord, don't lose your temper too often, okay?

    Don't think I'll put up with him every time, so I'm humble. If there is no principled problem between husband and wife, don't quarrel at every turn, it hurts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Take the initiative to find him, and then sit down and make it clear, I don't mean to sit down and argue about whose fault it is, but to talk about it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't cold war, ask him, talk to him, even if you quarrel with him and make him angry, you can talk to him and solve the problem!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Calm down and think about who is wrong, the problem is ** and quarrel, and then find a time for both parties to calm down and have a good talk.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Apologize very sincerely and gracefully, and ask the other party for forgiveness for saying what is wrong with you!

    If the other party does not accept and review his mistakes with great grace, then kick him - what does a man with no stomach and no grace want him to do!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you are angry, most people will feel that they have no feelings for each other, wait for a while, be good to him silently, let him also feel your dedication, don't pester him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Since he's not for you, break up. Don't bother. There will also be joy in breaking up.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let him see the changes you have made for him, and if in the end he still feels that he has nothing to say, then decisively divide it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Make it clear your feelings for him, if he doesn't want to continue, forget it, feelings can't be forced.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    98% of women lose at the point of not being able to calm down, and you say that if people suddenly become less attentive to you, you can't hold your breath and start the state of a crazy woman, and you will lose a mess.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What did you say that hurt people? Let's talk about it, if the other party really doesn't want to be with you anymore, you don't have to force it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This may be a momentary anger, and it's normal to quarrel, it's up to you how you deal with it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you care, let him see your changes. Otherwise, why bother to be together, it is a matter of time before you break up.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This is a manifestation of irresponsibility, he actually chooses you, then he must be responsible for you, responsible for his actions. Such people are not worthy of love.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It is said that when you are angry, everything is false, you don't care, after a while, everyone will calm down, and it will be fine.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Can you try to change yourself now, or maybe he will change his mind? If you really can't do it, just let it go

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    "I don't care about my feelings at all" is better to say less about the online words, most people are on the matter, when they are angry, they are angry, and it has nothing to do with the consistent thinking, if you expand one thing to see, it will only be a vicious circle of contradictions getting bigger and bigger, and finally ending dismally.

    Let's try our best to reconcile, even if you don't want to, at least you have to work in a good direction to have a future.

    It is better if you can't get through for a while, and it will be much easier to communicate after both sides are calm.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You should have been very angry at the time, but he was in a hurry, so he said those words in a hurry and turned off the phone. When he calms down, he'll be better. I don't know what you're arguing about, but it's not just one person's reason.

    If you still love him, please find a chance to give each other a step down. It's better to apologize to each other!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If the reason for the quarrel is to blame you, he may just say angry words, and when the anger is gone, you can talk to him well and strive for it. If the quarrel is to blame him, his fault, and now he is so arrogant, then he is not worth it for you to beat him again, and you will ignore him when he comes to you again in the future.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you love, you have to work hard to fight for it, and in love, men and women are the same, and they need courage.

    Even if we can't walk together... At least I won't regret it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This means that he is tired of you. It is usually accumulated bit by bit. You don't usually care enough about him.

    Proposed to break up many times. Hurt him many times. often beat and scolded him.

    Or living ink. Don't give face in front of your friends. There must be several of them that you will encounter ...

    She's tired of your bad habits.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Men are all the same, the temper can't pull up the nine cows, but the temper goes fast.

    My husband is a similar character.

    Once I unintentionally spoke, with the word roll, my husband really left at 11 o'clock in the evening, ** immediately turned off, I went to the station to find him,. He went into hiding, and the next night he contacted me on his own and reconciled with me again.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The boy's skin is actually quite thin, just give it a step down How can two people not talk when they are together

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    He said that, what are you still calling him? A big man still has a temper, what kind of man is it.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Maybe he's doing something important and can't be disturbed?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    What do you want to do? To be honest, no matter how angry you are, you can't beat your wife, because your wife is used to hurt, not to be angry. What do you think of yourself?

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I think I'm unlucky!! Had such a "good" boyfriend!!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Hmph....Let him apologize to you, this kind of person is not worthy of a girlfriend, etc! If you quarrel over something, you have to tell us to evaluate it, otherwise it won't work if you say something wrong.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Call back.,Grandma's is not a man.。。

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It is not easy for two people to come together, no one is absolutely right, who is absolutely wrong, talk to him well, tolerate him, understand him, and at the same time let him understand you, communication is the best way.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Does this garbage guy want him to do it? You're good-looking, be my lover.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    It's emotional, and it will be fine after a while.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If you love him, go to him. It doesn't matter if you adopt it or not, but friend, go to him and don't make him feel sorry for you.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    My personal opinion, since he can't control his emotions so repeatedly, there is no need for you to be so tired to keep it. I want to open a point.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Childishness Think about whether it will happen in the future.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Put your mind right, play with your own, and let him disappear!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Personally, I think that girls don't take boys too seriously, and if you still go to him, he will use the same method of playing missing to make you anxious in the future. You just wait for him to come to you, don't even text him, in short, don't let him think you're looking for him. If you really want to find it, you can find it secretly.

    Even if you find him, don't reach out to him. After waiting for a week or so, he still hasn't looked for you, then I think you can let go, this kind of person is not worth your wait.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    This shows that he is too immature, if you feel too tired, it is better for everyone to calm down!

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I think you should think about why two people are quarreling together, think more about each other's feelings, or they are both tired.

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