Come in the question of Family and Love .

1.Your grandfather and your cousin's grandfather are brothers, this is the key, maybe you will have a lot of influence after being with that girl, for example: your grandfather will think that the girl is very attentive and is a bad girl, and grandpa will also feel sorry for his own brother, so there will be a lot of problems, can you bear it?

3.Your cousin must still like her very much, can you guarantee that the girl will not eat back grass?

4.How can you betray your cousin if you have a good relationship with him?

5.Basically, I think the nature of that girl, you have to think about it clearly, a girl who wanders between two cousins, if she really dares to be with you, you really have to think about it, because she is probably a person who is not serious about feelings, and does not think about things thoughtfully, you think, how can she not think about your cousin's relationship with you?

7.If you just think that dating is just and it's not marriage and talking so seriously, then it shouldn't be, if it's just fun, I advise you not to confess to her, it's not worth losing family affection for a girl, if you are with her in a serious and responsible manner, of course I won't say a word to support you first.

8.Basically, if it were me, I would confess to that girl, and if I was sincere, if she liked me, I would tell her that you and your cousin would break up, and we still have to respect our cousin, and we will be together again after a while, and time can also make us think calmly about whether we really love each other, after all, if we are sincere, we will not be sorry for our cousin.

Believe me, if it is sincere, the test of time is nothing, if it is not sincere, why sacrifice important family affection Think about it Whatever you decide Please be serious. I will also cheer you on and encourage you with a sincere attitude

I'm sorry, I'm not good at words, I'm conservative, so my words are a little didactic, forgive me

First of all, you have to figure out one thing, do you like her?

Love is not that others like you, you have to like others.

Let the rest be, nothing to rush.

Your marriage is closely related to your parents, and the person you spend your life with will also spend decades with your parents, and their relationship determines your happiness. If they are incompatible, then it will be difficult for you to live happily, after all, they are all your loved ones.

Your parents' point of view will be more mature, and they will make you take many detours on the road of life. But love is not determined by the preferences of your parents, maybe you are lucky enough to fall in love with someone who satisfies your parents, then everyone will be happy.

If you don't want to challenge the authority of your parents to decide your love, then choose your lover according to your parents' standards, you can try to date with the person they like, there is nothing wrong with this, the standards of the elderly are more practical, as long as you can be happy, why not?

And what you have to grasp is not to force yourself for the sake of your parents, they can't live for you for the rest of your life. Then there is the character of the person you are dating, which is very important for your future life, and you must be an independent, responsible man to do it, always dependent on your parents, or you don't know how to pay resolutely can't ask for it.

Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families. You should explain to your family when you are sure that you are in love and both parties have a desire to be together for a long time, and it is better to talk about it sooner rather than later. There must be a reason for your parents' denial, try to communicate with them, understand the conflict, and spend the least amount of time to resolve the gap between them and your girlfriend.

If you have a conflict with your parents, you must first communicate with your parents, let them understand the life you want and the female image you love, tell them what you want to be happy, and only when you and your parents agree on this aspect can they accept your beloved.

Then it depends on whether the other party has the ability to make you temporarily antagonistic to your parents

Without parents, there would be no you·· However, your other half is the one who accompanies you through the lower half of your body, so you have to think carefully

I'll let my parents know

And I'll let my parents know why I love her