Learn to get along with conceited people, how to get along with conceited men?

In fact, many people will have a little bit of conceit. There is also the need to learn to empathize: the conceited person will not be aware of his conceit, and perhaps he is indeed outstanding in a certain ability, and has been provided for before.

He will mistakenly think that it is his true evaluation of himself, and he is kept in the dark by himself, which is actually pitiful. Only when they find a gap between their subjective evaluation and their objective reality can they realize that they have this problem.

First of all, you can't at least let him look down on you, because the conceited person thinks too highly of himself, so accordingly he has a high eyeliner for others. If you are not even objectively inferior to him, then in his eyes it is even worse. You can humbly show your unique strengths and specialties, and let him know what it means to have people outside the world, and there is a sky outside the sky.

But don't let him think you're deliberately comparing yourself to him, as that will make him seriously hostile and prejudiced against you. Although conceited people have a wrong perception of themselves, they still understand what efficiency is. If you can make rapid progress in a short period of time, although you have not yet surpassed him, he will also think that maybe one day you will surpass him?

In order not to let that day come, then his self-esteem will not allow it too much. They will secretly pay attention to you and learn from you. If he's lucky, maybe he'll find out his shortcomings and help him get rid of his conceit,。。

Summary: The most important thing to get along with an egotistical person is not to let him look down on you, which is the basis for getting along on an equal footing. And show yourself, but not too high-profile, so that he gradually pays attention to you. At this time, if you can pretend to be confused, try to pretend to be confused

If he has a bad nature, he can still try to be friends with him, after all, no one wants to be lonely.

Learn from him and make yourself strong.

The attitude that a conceited and arrogant person shows every moment, no matter who he is, he shows that attitude, and after a long time, this attitude grows on his face. Even to you or to his friends, he will give others this feeling of conceit and arrogance, everything has nothing to do with appearance, but he usually uses this conceited and arrogant expression too much, resulting in himself being the spokesperson of this expression.

To get along with them, you must have a good temper and emotional intelligence. They generally don't care much about your feelings, only about their own mood or their own interests. If you have strong ability, the ability is far superior to him, then you should be stronger, conceited people are generally admired by people they believe in, and sometimes their conceit does not exist at all in the face of some people.

If it is not necessary, stay away from such people. Admittedly, super-conceited people are really annoying, and it's hard to get along with them. So in my opinion, if it is not necessary, try to stay away from such people, out of sight and out of mind.

If you really can't avoid it, you are classmates or colleagues and have to work together, I think I have a few suggestions that may be a reference for you.

Don't argue with him about the right and wrong of things. Because we all know that the biggest characteristic of conceited people is that they are super confident in themselves. Getting along with such a person and praising him will only make him more conceited, but if you refute him, the other party's extremely conceited personality will definitely argue with you to the end, so the best thing to do is not to comment on what he did and pretend not to see it.

But there are people who like to go above and beyond. When he meets conceited people. On the one hand, he looks down on the other, and on the other hand, he works hard.

Go beyond this conceited person and let him know that he doesn't have that capital. Such a person is also a person with lofty ideals and goals. I also think that such a person can hit the conceited person.

Conceited people are usually very afraid of failure, and one of our classmates was like that. Particularly good at studying, but very conceited. Let him collapse when he is hit.

Confidence has been lost ever since. In fact, conceited people also have weaknesses. The person who pays is not very good for his own life.

We should not be a conceited person, we must be humble and cautious, and we must know that there are people outside the sky, and we will never be the person with capital conceit.

There will always be a variety of people in life, each of us is an independent in this world, which determines that everyone has a unique character, some people are confident, some people are self-reliant, some people are narcissistic, and some people are conceited, in life we will always meet those who are very conceited, in the face of all kinds of things, how to get along with a conceited man, I think there are several ways to solve it.

The first method is the auto-ignore method. The environment is there and it is impossible to change, only you can change, don't try to change the environment you are in to change yourself, people who don't measure themselves will always suffer the consequences, in the face of that conceited man, you can choose to ignore him, compare your lives without intersection.

Even if there is a place where the lives of the two of you intersect, then you can nod and smile politely, don't try to make friends with such a person, if you come out with this decision, the result will not only hurt you physically and mentally, but also leave a shadow on your mental theory.

The second method is obedience. Conceited men are very macho people.

Yes, they are overconfident, so in the face of such a person, if you like not to provoke right and wrong, choose to obey such a man, follow this man's ideas to work or live, if you are a mild-tempered person, you can tolerate such a situation, you can give it a try.

The third method is the method of staying away. Conceited people are very scary, especially conceited men, they don't have the same maternal love as women, from childhood to adulthood men are a kind of rational and cold existence, whether it is love or family affection or friendship, they don't care too much about these feelings, there will occasionally be a ripple in their hearts, but the appearance is always very bland. In the face of such people, stay away.

I have a very egotistical male colleague, and every time I deal with him, I am both helpless and angry, and occasionally I find him ridiculous.

When he first came to apply for the job, I passed by the personnel department and heard him talk to the head of the personnel department, describing how strong his connections were, how prominent the work he had done before, and how rich his experience was.

The next day he came to work, in the same office as me, and when I saw him, I thought that there must be a good show in the future, after all, a person with a lot of inner drama like him is the first in the company.

After that, he would be late for at least half an hour every day, and I kindly reminded him not to be too public, which would easily cause disgust from the leader.

He didn't think so, and told me about his almost legendary life experience, saying that it didn't matter if he was late, the current boss didn't dare to fire him, and if he left, who would do it, with a fearless attitude. I'm speechless.

Once the boss came to the office and asked him: "I heard that when you came to apply for a job a few days ago, you said that you knew the boss of such and such a company?" Then you can help me build a bridge, I want to do something with him. ”

He was stunned for a long time and then said hesitantly: "Well, I used to know him, but now I can't contact him." The boss left with a black face, and the rest of the office began to laugh quietly, but nothing was said.

When a person is too conceited, there will always be a day when he will be exposed, and I don't know how embarrassed he is in his heart.

When colleagues in the office need to work on documents, he often looks by with a teacup, just like a leader inspecting. Then point to a certain place and say, "You can't do this in this place, you have to think differently" or "You have to do what I say, otherwise it will never work".

Some colleagues believed his suggestion and did what he said, but they were often scolded by the leader and then returned to do it again.

So even if he put on a confident and confident look again, no one believed him anymore, which made him extremely embarrassed.

It didn't take long for him to be dismissed, because of the lack of ability to be a master and a master, and I think that conceited people will always end up suffering from themselves, and we don't have to give them any advice, because they don't listen, as long as they live in peace on the surface.

Such men are self-righteous, and if they want to get along with him, sometimes it will be difficult, and if it were me, I would stay away and ignore him.

Most of the conceited people look down on others, feel that they are better than others everywhere, selfish, rarely care about others, conceited people have strong self-esteem, contact with them, must not hurt their self-esteem, conceited people are also very inferior. If you want to get along with someone who is conceited, you must first understand the reasons for his conceit. Is it because of strong self-esteem that he is conceited or because of inferiority, or he is already very good and has conceited capital.

You can get to know these gods through the conversation with him, and I think people who are conceited because of their high self-esteem take a joke seriously, they are more angry, and they will refuse any help from others. People who are conceited because of low self-esteem love to compare, die to save face, and are better than others everywhere. Some people are better than others regardless of their family background or their own conditions, and people here have conceited capital.

It is easy to grasp the topic, communicate better, tolerate each other more, communicate more about everything, put yourself in the other party's shoes and think about it, as long as the other party is not particularly excessive, you can bear it, and try not to conflict with the other party. I think people should get along with each other with each other, if you know that the other party has strong self-esteem, and you have to show your advantages in front of him everywhere, then the two people will not become friends in the future, and may become enemies.

Be open-minded, be kind to others, treat everyone around you sincerely, don't be too careful about everything, and get by. If another person wants others to treat her, then he should treat others with the same attitude, don't blindly ask for nothing and don't want to give a little, and treat the friends around him with an open heart, so that you can get more friendships.

Conceit is only one aspect of a person's characteristic, but if you think that he is excessively conceited, then it is possible that you think that his behavior is bad.

I think in fact, in terms of personality, as long as you don't enter into psychopathology, that is, into psychosis, you don't need to judge him for being good or bad. It's a bit selfish, but his self is good to himself and his own people, and some people like to be conceited, which naturally means that his self is more complete, and he doesn't care so much about other people's feelings.

In fact, I know a lot of conceited people, because although these conceited people don't care about other people's feelings, they are actually very talented people, and some people are even well-read and rich, and they are not like ordinary ordinary people at all, they are ordinary people.

When you go to chat with them, you will find that they can bring you a whole world, and you can have your own opinions and opinions on a different topic every time.

I remember one time in high school when I was with a liberal arts student.

Chatting, he talked to me about the topic, why do women don't like to get pregnant, while men like to have children?

You know, for a 16-year-old me, I thought it was incredible to talk to a guy about such a topic.

People like them, under normal circumstances, talk to you for a while, and find that you have nothing to talk about, so they will naturally not talk to you anymore, because they feel that your world is too small and not as wide as theirs, and it is a waste of time to talk to you.

If there is really a very conceited person who is willing to communicate with you at this time, then you should thank him, because he gives you the opportunity to understand a world that you have never seen before, so it is a good choice to communicate with them more and treat them with a very open and respectful mind.

It's very simple, obscene development, follow him whatever he says and do, let him wave!

First of all, you have to think about what kind of mentality this kind of person has. Generally speaking, they are young, have not experienced any setbacks, the first 20 years have been smooth, in school or in life may occupy a little advantage or temporarily ahead of others, did not roll over the big waves, so they think that what they have experienced is the whole life.

People who are overly conceited often have a sense of superiority in speaking and doing things, a sense of superiority in honey, and feel that everyone is a spicy chicken except for themselves. Obviously I am a loser, but I feel that I have successfully reached the top, become the CEO, and reach the peak of my life. In fact, he may still be boiling hot water in the rental house and waiting to eat instant noodles.

This kind of person you let him be prodigal, obscene and developing, and he will be the king in the end. Let him continue to immerse himself in the world of his own life winner, don't persuade him, don't care about him, what he says is what, he says that he has a monthly salary of one million, you express envy, let him wander outside, there will always be a big brother who can't stand it to come out to clean up on him, you remember to send some fruit to see him when the time comes.