My wife complains and blames men and parents all day long, is there something wrong with her head?

Hello this friend, at that time your wife was not in a problem with her head, let me look like it was because of the family, of course, it can also be said that maybe the burden of the family is on your lover alone, complaining and accusing you of understanding him, as a husband you should collude with your lover more, not to accompany him more, to use your side is not to go out for a walk, or the two of them watch a movie and eat outside, give him a sense of security.

Let him feel that you love him, maybe you are busy at work or in all aspects, you have no time to communicate, and the conditions at home are not very good, so your lover is upset, and will complain and accuse you or your parents, I can understand your lover's feelings, maybe it will be fine after this stage, I hope you understand him everywhere, give him warmth and love, and wish you happiness.

Of course this is not the case, it is not that there is a problem with the mind, but complaining about the man and his parents means that he is under more psychological pressure now, and you should learn to channel it. In this way, you will be able to keep your lover in a calm heart.

The key is still a question of men. No woman is willing to be a resentful woman by nature, if a man has strong enough financial ability to make his wife fall in love with a man and fall in love with his family, he will naturally not complain and blame men and parents all day long.

It's not the head that's wrong. It's that your wife has requirements for you, but you don't meet your wife's requirements now, so your wife is full of resentment.

The wife complains and blames the man and his parents all day long, which is not a problem with her head, but just a personality reason.

I think you should have a good talk with your wife, so that you can solve the conflicts between each other, and tell your wife that if you have any grievances, you are willing to listen to her.

As a husband, you must turn the situation around for your parents, sit down with your wife and discuss whether you should be better to your parents, your parents are our benefactors, and without them, you and my husband and me.

As a husband, he should enlighten his wife, after all, he is his own parents, and he should be tolerant and let his wife become very generous, so that his wife can feel better.

Wives generally don't complain for no reason, first observe to see what the problem is, if it's really the parents who are doing something wrong, you talk to them alone, in fact, there is no bad mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only a husband who can't do things.

You should make a round and suggest that your wife should not complain to her parents, and that if there is anything to come back to you and tell you alone, you will solve it yourself.

I will communicate with my wife and try to solve the problems in my own family by myself, and don't trouble my parents. After all, their parents are also getting older, and they tend to think about complicated things and worry about them.

will give a certain amount of enlightenment to the wife, and will also make some changes according to the things that the wife complains about.

I think if you make your wife sad, you may not be doing your duty as a husband, and you should be kind to her.

I think you should communicate with your wife that complaining is not good from the perspective of respecting the elderly or being an example to the children.

Tell my wife more about the difficulties of my parents, what they do must have their reasons, so that my wife can understand them more.

As a husband, you may really have some deficiencies, you can correct them, and let your wife know that you are repentant.

You can ask your wife to ask the question clearly, if it's your parents' problem, talk to your parents, but if it's your wife's problem, talk to your wife.

Of course, you have to let it go, as long as your wife doesn't complain to her parents, just put up with it.

The situation where the husband often complains and blames his wife may be due to the fact that there is a communication barrier between the husband and wife, and there are emotional and cognitive deviations between each other. The husband needs to express his dissatisfaction and dislike by complaining and blaming, but the negative effect of this method will lead to deeper and deeper conflicts between husband and wife, and even affect family harmony.

In this case, it is recommended that both husband and wife should communicate actively and try to understand each other's positions and ideas. In the process of communication, we can find common ground and solutions with each other by discussing problems, rather than unilaterally complaining and blaming. Husbands and wives should respect each other's feelings and ideas, try not to allow conflicts and emotions to accumulate, and communicate and solve problems in a timely manner.

In addition, couples also need to build a good relationship of mutual trust. Only when each side can trust each other can we reach consensus and achieve substantial rupture in the process of communication and problem solving. Couples can build trusting relationships by enhancing their understanding and affection for each other.

For example, you can improve your understanding through common interests and hobbies, or express your preferences and feelings through regular exchanges and communication.

Finally, couples also need to maintain a supportive and considerate attitude towards each other. Whether in work, life or emotionally, couples should support and care for each other, so that each other can feel the value and importance of their existence. Couples can also increase their emotional interaction with each other through small romantic actions, such as watching movies together, going for a walk, or participating in some activities together.

In short, to solve the communication barriers and conflicts between husband and wife, it requires the joint efforts and understanding of both parties. Husbands and wives should communicate their problems in a timely manner, discuss and solve problems, and at the same time, they need to maintain mutual understanding and respect, and establish a good relationship of mutual trust and mutual support. In this way, a harmonious, stable and happy family can be built.

It's like your own child is fighting with someone else's child, and you can't rush over and beat other people's children, this is a normal reaction, and it is also your husband's trust in you. Because mothers are elders, they are meant to be respected, not to be blamed.

Because you give birth to him and raise him, if you quarrel with your daughter-in-law, and your son is on her daughter-in-law's side, you don't want your son.

See what is the reason why the husband protects his mother, and whether he stands on the side of the word "reason" or is "one-sided" and only blindly blames his daughter-in-law towards his mother? If it's the first one, then both parties should apologize when they talk about it, and if it's the second one, then why not divorce?

The solution of this kind of thing has already given the answer to Zhiduoxing Wu Yong at the beginning of the Water Margin. When the daughter-in-law says it's not fucking, and the mother-in-law says the daughter-in-law isn't, they don't talk when both of them are there.

Such a man can only show that he is a mother's treasure man, and his daughter-in-law is an outsider in his eyes.

If the woman is too strong, causing her mother-in-law and husband to have almost no status, and they are shouting like a leader, then I'm sorry, congratulations on doing that yourself, no way!