My mother in law dislikes me for being lazy, how can I get along, and what should I do if my daughte

Be more understanding and tolerant, and change your own problems.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship. It's very subtle, the mother-in-law can be said to be like a mother, but she can't really treat her like a mother. To get along harmoniously, is to be more understanding and tolerant, you respect me a foot and I will return you a foot.

As for saying that your mother-in-law says that you are lazy, laziness is usually the preserve of young people. When she is present, you have to find your own reasons and then correct the situation. There will certainly be fewer contradictions.

Mother-in-law is a term that is commonly used to address older women, including husbands' mothers, maternal grandmothers, grandmothers, and great-grandmothers. The husband's mother can also be called "mother", and in Guangdong, it is called "grandma". And because the husband's father is called the father-in-law, the two are collectively called the parents-in-law.

1. Give things to your daughter-in-law appropriately, don't interfere more after explaining, you can occasionally remind you appropriately, but don't always remind her, don't care when she does it.

2. You can try to discuss the division of labor and cooperation with your daughter-in-law and set the rules.

First, you have to make yourself more diligent and make your mother-in-law change her opinion of you.

Second, if there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is best to see each other less and not live together.

Third, the mother-in-law is old, and as a daughter-in-law, she should be appropriately tolerant, so that the family will be harmonious.

As the saying goes, the family is prosperous, a family that is not harmonious will only bring harm to the children, the mother-in-law's ideology is very backward, and there are some contradictions between her and her daughter-in-law, so it is inevitable that there will be trouble. A reasonable woman will never have a hard time with her mother-in-law, but reduce this conflict and contradiction, and try to tolerate and accept her mother-in-law, only in this way will the whole family be full of warmth.

First of all, if you do all the housework at home, then you can point to the housework you do and tell her why you say that you are lazy to do it, if not, then it is time to self-reflect.

Then go out and look for a job, work more than ten hours a day after having a job, and come back in the middle of the night to see if the mother-in-law has anything else to say, so the mother-in-law will obediently shut up.

You don't have to care, you can just be yourself, one person can't satisfy everyone, the best way is not to live with her.

If you dislike you, you just ignore her as if she doesn't exist. Say nothing and leave without returning.