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You're only 19 years old, and there's still a long way to go.
Since you feel sorry for your grandma, then live well.
What are you sad about, is it because your girlfriend left or you don't have money, or do you feel guilty about your grandmother, since you are not afraid of death, are you still afraid of that?
Why do you want to leave the pain to your loved ones when you die?
After bravely facing everything and persevering, it was another sunny day.
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It doesn't matter if you're serious or not, but why bother talking online if you want to die?
If you want to die, no one can stop you.
But I've always looked down on people who commit suicide. They are too humble.
You should understand that in this world, survival of the fittest.
Only those who can endure pain and persist can succeed.
And there is only one way for cowards who can't bear it, and that is death.
Do you know that there are thousands of people in this world who are much worse than you every day?
That's it. Shape up or ship out.
Also, you'd better not make your death more painful.
You know what? In Buddhism, suicide is the most unforgivable sin.
It's going to hell n floors.
Don't think I'm intimidating you.
I'm serious too.
You'd better get a counselor if you want to open a little bit.
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Only nineteen years old, there is still a long way to go, there will be no mud, there will be flowers and applause.
I suggest you use this money to buy a few books: Success Learning Inspirational. These things will give you a glimmer of hope for a while, and that will suffice.
Then buy a few more books: technical books that you were once interested in and thought could bring you good luck. Software production, or accounting, or law, etc.
Immersing yourself in these things all day long can also make you numb. As long as it's numb, it's fine. There will be no pain, and you will get out of the predicament quietly.
When you come out, these sufferings will become the wealth of your life.
Go on with courage. Not responsible to anyone. As long as you are right, you can do it yourself.
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If you still have a conscience, don't die if you're a man. Life is precious!
Warning, don't die! Otherwise, I'll be a suspect!
You can't be so selfish, don't you see that everyone doesn't want you to die?
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What can I say about you, since you left a message on the Internet, it means that you still want to live, right? Actually, what's the case, isn't life like that? You said you're sorry grandma, if you leave like this, why don't you do it, some don't have to die to be free, I'm not persuading you, I'm just for your poor grandma.
You said that there is no one in the world who is nostalgic for you anymore, but what about your grandmother? What did he do? Have you ever thought about doing this for your grandma?
Although there are tragedies that happen all the time, I still hope that this kind of thing does not happen to a child who is only 19, you say? I said so much that if you still want to die, then I won't say more, I'm just a passerby, and I don't have any malice, what to do, you should think about it.
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To put it simply, this is the feeling of rejection after a breakup. For example, after the breakup, the woman still can't let go of the man, and then she feels uncomfortable, she wants to get rid of this uncomfortable state of mind, that is to say, she wants to seek relief, and then she says to herself: "Be strong, I'm not uncomfortable, I'm not uncomfortable, I don't cry, I may be better if I leave him", but the more so, the more I can't forget that person, so it seems that this kind of indifferent slowness and strength is not a way to get rid of it at all.
In fact, the woman's original intention was to want the man to change his mind, so wouldn't it be liberated from that state of mind? Or maybe the woman has found the other half of her heart again, so she is also relieved, haha!
His friend is real, this sentence should be said that you understand that "being strong is not the kind of liberation I want". Use the most popular words to help you solve your doubts, I hope you can understand, here I will not drop the book bag with you, save tooth acid
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The essence is that a person who is not strong and ruins the hall, but because of experience or something, he has evolved into strong.
But this kind of strength is not strong, because this kind of strength is to suppress one's emotions or something, and the real one is not unable to let go of things or people.
From Neiling Yinxin, I understand that it is not possible to be strong enough to free myself from those sad emotions.
This is my personal understanding.
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It is not easy for people to live, and there are many helplessness and responsibilities.
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Don't listen to the words of the great sages. Let me tell you, the greatest meaning of life is to make oneself a little more comfortable, and if you have the ability, let your family live a little more comfortable!
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There are always many regrets in life, we are all ordinary people, we can't be waves, we have no external things, we can only look down on everything. A faint life walks lightly, and a faint emotion guards lightly. Life is not easy, you don't have to crave the understanding and approval of others in everything, and live your life quietly.
If the heart does not move, the wind can help. If you don't hurt, the years will be fine.
Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think. I think that people are more fragile and strong than I can imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears at a single word; Sometimes, you also find yourself gritting your teeth and walking a long way.
Being alive is the root, and everything is attached to this root. Life is not easy, and cherish it!
There is a river of sorrow lurking in everyone's heart. You have your pain, I have my hardships, it's not that I don't understand, I just don't have time to take care of it. Life is not easy, such as people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, want to be treated gently by the world, you need a strong heart and hard work!
Don't quarrel and quarrel, get along with each other and get old in a flash; Don't worry about it, less and less time belongs to you; Don't complain too much, it's really not easy to meet a sea of people; Don't tear each other down, maybe one day we will be separated forever; Don't worry too much and be kind to yourself. Life is not easy, but do it and cherish it.
If you are annoyed, look for fun, don't lose your happiness; Be busy, be idle, don't lose your health; When you're tired, stop, don't lose your life. In ordinary life, he is busy with work and at home. I don't want to make much progress in my career, I just want a sweet and warm life; I don't want to live a rich life, I just want my family to be healthy and happy.
All the mood that can't be passed, just look away; All the feelings that can't be let go will slowly fade with the passage of time. Therefore, we live not only for ourselves, but also for family and friends, when you struggle alone, you will inevitably feel lonely, but if you have faith in your heart!
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Since you are asking this question in the field of religion, then I will also come to you from a religious point of view. From a Buddhist point of view, people come to this world with retribution. Everything that happens to you now, including what you have encountered and your current state of mind, is retribution, brought about by your previous life.
Western religion believes that there is no place in life that is not suffering, and that we are suffering all the time. But we have to accept it, which means that we accept the judgment of the court, and we cannot escape the judgment. When we suffer a little more, we are tempered physically and psychologically, and in the end, it will be transformed into wealth in life.
Afflictions are bodhi, and bodhi is afflictions. If you transcend difficulties, difficulties will become your knowledge, and difficulties will be transformed into your wealth. Your life is sublimated.
So you have to develop your concentration and wisdom and endure hardships. It will work out in the end.
Speaking of death, you want to know the world of death, I'll tell you. First of all, it is very painful for a person to die, and when it is painful, the person's consciousness will no longer work, and he will fall into a coma. By the time you wake up, you're already dead, and then you're the bardo body, and the bardo body is actually your consciousness change.
The bardo body is a life and death for seven days, and you will encounter many realms in the bardo realm, which is the same as in real life. Eventually, you may encounter some terrible sights, and you will feel scared and want to run away. Then you will see a soft light that will move you away.
But that light is the six realms of reincarnation, and if you go, you will be inhaled, and you will be reincarnated and come back into the world. Therefore, the world after death is not good, and it will discourage you even more. Especially for those who commit suicide to escape from judgment, the realm encountered in the bardo realm is even more terrifying.
In fact, these realms are all changed by one's own heart, and the more depraved one's heart is, the more terrifying the realm becomes.
Therefore, I advise landlords to face life positively. If you have any difficulties in the future, you can consult our netizens. Isn't it okay for us to face the world positively and sublimate together?
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Do what you want, the biggest enemy is yourself.
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Well, I've got your back. But do it the right way.
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