Yang Jiang s We Together The wisest attitude towards life, but three words, which three words?

Mr. Yang Jiang's most intelligent attitude towards life mentioned in the book "We Three" is only the three words "it doesn't matter", which seems to be a simple three words, but actually reveals her philosophical attitude towards life, that is, to look down on everything, only inner stability is the most important.

In Mr. Yang Jiang's book "We", the wisest attitude towards life is: It doesn't matter, these three words. The mentality should be flat, look down on everything, and only inner stability is the most important.

It doesn't matter, these three words seem simple, but it is very difficult to do, because it requires a very open-minded heart and a very transparent mind.

Reading the touching place, there are tears in our eyes that make us see the preciousness of life, the sympathy and care of family affection, and the whole article is full of the brilliance of human beauty.

After reading it, I feel that the ordinary life of the previous period is true, and I must be a grateful person, and be a straightforward and honest person. The book also gives a sense of family warmth.

Thanks for the invite. Written by Mr. Yang Jiang at the age of 92, the book recalls the warm and plain, painful and happy past life of their family of three (husband Qian Zhongshu and daughter Qian Yuan). Although his daughter and husband passed away one after another, Mr. Yang Jiang also said in a special way:

I miss us alone. ”

The first part is very short, mainly because the author has a dream that is left behind by her husband, and in the dream she is alone and does not know where to go. Although it was just a dream, it was more like a true portrayal of her later life circumstances.

The second part is about the reunion and loss of a family of three on the "ancient post road".

The first time I read this part, I was full of doubts in my heart, why Qian Zhongshu suddenly lived on the boat, but Yang Jiang and his daughter Pawu came to the inn from home and went to the boat regularly every day to read Qian Zhongshu. Later, through the in-depth understanding of their family, it dawned on me. It turned out that everything was a dream woven by the author, Qian Zhongshu was admitted to the hospital because of his ill health, and his daughter was also in the hospital because of spinal problems**, and the home was no longer like home, so the author called it an "inn".

In the face of the illness of his relatives to leaving, the author has never explained the situation directly, which seems to be confusing, but it allows readers to experience it clearly and clearly.

The third part is more about the real memories of their past lives. The timeline is mainly from the couple went to England to study in 1935 and loved their daughter in Oxford, until the death of their daughter and husband in 1998.

In the clip of the British spring or studying abroad, we can see that the husband and wife have learned well, studied smoothly, and made many excellent friends in life.

With the birth of her beloved daughter, the family became more joyful and inseparable. Daughter Yuanyuan has been witty and smart, lively and lovely since she was a child, and is deeply loved by the elders in the family.

In this way, this part intermittently records the bits and pieces of the family's 63-year life, but it also reveals the extraordinaryness of the intellectuals' pursuit of life.

I want to say that the author is strong, but at the same time she has not come out of the pain, she is unwilling, cannot, afraid to recall that heart-rending time, using illusory dreams to filter out all kinds of details, in the dream of fear and uneasiness about death.

Yang Jiang said in the book: "The three of us are very simple. We don't want anything from the world, we don't fight with others, we just want to get together, stay together, and do what we can. "It's such an ordinary dream, but it also becomes an illusory bubble under the cruel reflection of reality.

Ordinary happiness is actually the most extraordinary, so please cherish everyone around you who you love and love you.

1.From now on, we will only die, and we will not leave again.

2.The three of us were together again. I don't need to speak, I feel comfortable.

3.The good things in the world are not strong, and the colored clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle.

4.The three of us have a lot of fun together.

5.I'm going to ask! My love is so good, and suddenly I was sentenced to death, why didn't I ask.

6.Lao She's "Divorce" looks at marriage from another angle. This happiness, the other happiness, Yang Feng's "We".

7.We are young and unsophisticated, but the most sophisticated and the most proficient are also criticized. Zhong Shu and I explained ourselves with this.

8.The good things in the world are not strong, and the colored clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle.

9.He made a vow: "From now on, we will only die, and we will not leave again." ”

10.There will be no innocent happiness in the world, happiness is always mixed with chagrin and worry, and there is no eternity in the world.

Yang Jiang's classic quotations from "We":

1. There will be no simple happiness in the world, happiness is always mixed with troubles and worries, and there is no eternity in the world.

2. Now the three of us are separated. The past cannot be left behind, the dead cannot be chased, and the rest of me will never be able to find them again. I can only relive the years we lived together and reunite with them.

3. If the parting is prolonged, will it increase or reduce the pain? I can't tell, but the farther I go with him, the more I'm afraid I'll never see him again.

4. We keep our distance from people who don't agree with us, and we seem to be proud. We are young and unsophisticated, but the most sophisticated and the most proficient are also criticized.

5. The shout fell in the wilderness, as if it had been swallowed, leaving no vague sound. The complete silence added weight to the dark night, and also deepened my loneliness.

6. I shouted loudly, even by name and surname. The shouts fell in the wilderness, as if devoured, leaving no vague sound. The complete silence added weight to the dark night, and also deepened my loneliness.

7. My heart was covered with tears one by one, and tears flowed down at this time.