What are the characteristics of the person you hate the most?

It seems that some of the most hated people have some nasty traits, and I don't believe it you see that their behavior always makes people look contrived. There are several reasons for this:

Type 1: People who are lazy and slippery at work, when the team works hard together to achieve a goal, sometimes there will be people who seem to be working on the surface, and when others are not paying attention, the work given to him in the end must be procrastinating, which seriously pulls the team's hind legs.

Type 2: People who love to spread gossip, there is a kind of person in the workplace who loves to talk about other people's rights and wrongs and gossip, you can't listen to it, and from time to time she will pretend to whisper to you mysteriously: You know who it is.

In fact, everyone will reject her in their hearts, because everyone is worried that they will get close to her, and maybe one day they will become the protagonist of her gossip story.

The third type: workplace villain, the biggest problem of this kind of person is not only to pat the leader's sycophant in everything, but also especially like to step on other colleagues and make small reports with the leader, so this kind of person is called "villain".

I'm glad to answer for you, but I think the most annoying people have the following characteristics:

First, I like to gossip behind other people's backs.

It is very annoying for a person to gossip about others behind his back, because this kind of person does not understand the whole process of the matter, or when others explain it to him, he also takes it out of context, only looks at the part he cares about, and then adds fuel and vinegar to talk nonsense everywhere and slander the reputation of others.

Second, sloppy.

The so-called "people rely on clothes, Buddha relies on gold", people who work quietly always make people feel comfortable. Sloppy and unkempt people are obnoxious.

Third, speculation and slippery.

This kind of person works the fastest, and the credit is always the first. The hard work of others is the most effective in the team, and "the upper lip touches the lower lip" when the credit is invited, and it becomes your own credit.

1.Ignores people, treats others arrogantly, and has a very bad attitude.

2.Chewing the root of the tongue behind his back, one set in front of him and one set behind his back, so that Ling Zheng is keen to make small reports.

3.Emotional management is 0, he goes on a rampage or collapses at every turn, and asks others to clean up his emotions.

4.The ability is extremely poor, and he can't wait to let someone repeat it to him from beginning to end when he sends a notice. Eyes are a good thing.

5.As a matter of course, he asks others for help, and he doesn't know how to cooperate with each other, and the giant baby is reincarnated.

6.Volume kings, work thieves, workplace slaves, etc. Those who understand are frankly repentant and understand.

Selfishness, greed for small gains, love to swear, swearing, etc., generally people with bad moral character will be hated by others

First. The one who has no one in his sights.

There are some colleagues who never feel that there is a problem with him, he always feels that other people do not see things thoroughly and always misunderstand him. Until one day, when he saw someone even more arrogant than him. He realized that Hong's arrogant characteristics were really annoying, no matter how good he did, no matter how strong his nuclear envy was, this way of being a man would still make the people around him very unhappy.

Second, people who are not the same.

In the workplace, there is another type of people, they always say some nice things in front of others, so that others feel that they are genuinely good friends, so they will always give them convenience, and when they encounter difficulties, they will be willing to help them get through difficulties. However, after a long time, you will find that they often slander others behind their backs, especially those who are promoted and raised quickly.

The so-called see people's hearts over time, after a long time, those people who are in front of them and behind them will be recognized by others, so the colleagues around them will gradually become estranged from them. Communicate with them less often, and eventually make them the lonelier person in the team and eventually have to leave.

In fact, the most important thing to be a man is sincerity, whether we are at work or in life, we should not deceive others, how to express what we think in our hearts, we must not say good in front of others, and be said bad all the time, this kind of character is the most annoying in the workplace. I don't like such a colleague the most. In short, no matter what kind of noisy person we meet.

Be careful. Different people have to be treated in a different way.

A friend told me that he didn't like his friend Cortana, because Cortana often scolded people, and she was simply an unreasonable person.

After he said that, I realized that it seemed to be the same! I didn't think so, I thought it was because she knew a lot and believed that she was right, so she often tried to provide a lot of information to others, or tried to get others to agree with her.

For example: I say I am anemic. So the face looks dull yellow.

In this sentence, I just express my physical condition, and I have no hope of ** it or not satisfied with my physical state. She will say what you have to eat more of this and that, don't exercise so much. I said that I like sports, exercise makes me healthier, and how can a woman not be anemic.

She said it's not right for you to think so, you haven't had a baby yet, and if you're anemic, it's good to have a baby. I wondered why we were talking about having children...

So I don't usually take her seriously, and I end the conversation with her when the conversation is almost over, so I don't feel that I don't like to talk to her, but I know that it is her heart for the sake of others.

Another friend of mine didn't like Cortana, which I could understand at first, but after I got to know this friend for a long time, I realized that they were very similar, they both liked to persuade people, and they liked to compete. In his words, he likes to scare people.

I was also very uncomfortable when I was first scolded, and always hoped that I would do what he said, and that I would agree with him. It turns out that they are the same kind of people, and if he didn't tell me about Cortana, I wouldn't think they were similar.

It turns out that when we see something in someone we don't like, we also have it in ourselves, but we can't see it ourselves, and we project it on others thinking that it is someone else, but in fact it is ourselves.

After I showed this phenomenon, I had to communicate with them in a different way, and I couldn't help but reply and argue at first. But yesterday I learned 1 value: correctness itself has no value.

So even if you argue with him about whether it is right or not, even if it is correct, it is meaningless.

When I figured it out, it dawned on me. I don't need to communicate with him in any other special way, I just need to listen to what they say, and I won't be competitive with them. Because whether they are scolding or refutating, they are trying to persuade in the hope that someone will listen to them.

I'm caught between them, and I don't participate in their wars, and I don't like each other, so there's no way, who calls same-sex exclusivity? Ha ha.

Although there is a tradition of women first, but since it is ugly, let's talk about the most annoying characteristics of men.

Rhetoric without connotation, you have to pretend that you know astronomy and geography, and you know everything and everything;

makes his appearance look like a beggar, greasy but thinks that men don't have to clean himself up;

Discuss women's stuffiness, evaluate them casually, point out women from God's perspective, score them at will, and think they are accurate and sharp;

open-mouthed, casually ridiculed, and thought he was humorous;

Empty-eyed, can scold Fang Xuan in everything, and be self-good;

Regardless of time or space, smoke at will;

Customize the age of women, thinking that women who are more than how old they are are worthless;

unable to face up to his own shortcomings, refusing to admit all those who are better than himself, and even slandering behind his back;

Love to inquire about gossip and spread gossip at will.

Let's talk about the annoying characteristics of girls:

pretend, pretending to be cute as real cute, and being coquettish to everyone;

Any man can recognize his brother, and he is never taboo about the difference between men and women;

Our Lady's heart, the superficial kindness, when she suffers a loss, she sells all kinds of miserable and dirty water;

Financially not independent, but also laughing at the efforts of others;

Negative emotions that can't be stopped, broken thoughts, interfering in other people's lives, and having to say that it is for your good;

Be mean, always remember your own efforts and others' debts to yourself, others are your own, and your own must only be your own;

sarcastically slandering people who are not as good as themselves, slandering people who are higher than themselves behind their backs, and speaking coldly when others are working hard;

blindly follow the trend, consume higher than their own ability, and have a saying "Women should be kind to themselves." ”

Unrealistic, forever wrapped in fantasy and unwilling to face reality, unconcerned about the trouble it brings to others.

1.Love to lose his temper, blow up at the end of the shed, and can't stand the imperfections of others. It is easy for such people to keep their friends away, because their temper is too big, and they will explode at one point, which makes people speechless.

2.Love to complain, complain when encountering a little trouble, and can't accept your own shortcomings. Such people can easily keep people away from them, because their mentality is too bad, they can't accept their own non-burying and staring, and they are always complaining.

3.I can't accept my current self and don't want to change. Such people are always unwilling to change themselves, unable to accept their current selves, always wandering in the same place, unwilling to move forward.

4.Too self-absorbed and unwilling to listen to other people's advice. Such people are always reluctant to listen to other people's opinions, and are always in their own world, doing what they like.

5.Too selfish to think about others. Such a person will only consider his own interests, unwilling to pay for others, always thinking about what he can get, and never thinking about others.

6.I don't know how to be grateful, I don't know how to give back. Such people are always bent and blind to the efforts of others, and do not know how to be grateful.