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The journey of life is bizarre and full of beautiful landscapes, but also full of difficulties and obstacles. In this life, everyone will go through ups and downs, which are destined to be needed. No one's life is always uneventful.
The scenery at this moment is not necessarily the scenery of the first life. A low point at this time does not mean that you will be at a low point for the rest of your life. Therefore, as a human being, you must learn to face all the storms of life calmly and not be conceited or arrogant at the peaks and humble or arrogant at the lows.
It is the true wisdom of life to face all the storms of life calmly, not to show off to anyone at the peak, and not to disturb anyone at the peak.
People often feel tired and helpless when they are at a low point, so they always want to seek the care of others and seek the warmth of others. But this interruption is often counterproductive. Others may not be enthusiastic, and you may be unhappy.
The ups and downs of life are inevitable. What you have to do is take it in stride. Since ancient times, people's hearts have been unpredictable.
Sometimes, your close friends may not be able to provide you with care during difficult times. In this world, there are more people who have the same happiness and fewer people who have suffering; There are more and more false and false people, and even fewer are faithful to the truth; More and more people are putting the icing on the cake and even fewer people putting charcoal in the snow .........And you, as long as you are yourself, that's enough.
I really saw the state of the world and the memorable moments in the trough. You ask for help, you seek comfort, you may not be cared for by others, or you may be conflicted or even mercilessly ridiculed in people's hearts. Let go of bad emotions and adjust your mindset yourself.
Don't put all your hopes in others. Even if the other person cares about you very much, it does not mean that he is willing to share the pain deep down for you. You must understand that everyone is independent, more or less selfish at heart, and no one is obliged to share your pain.
When one is at a low point, bear it alone and don't bother anyone.
Don't show others your vulnerability and helplessness unreservedly, and don't let such negative emotions disturb the original happiness of others. This interruption will distance you further and further apart and will also make you more dependent on him. Even if that person is willing to give you charcoal in the snow, it's not a long-term solution.
Real growth is often in the midst of difficulties and obstacles. The pain and helplessness of the present is to be strong and to face it alone in the future. No one can help you all the time, you can only trust yourself.
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I think that's true. Because when people are at a low point, they have to find a way to try to get out of the trough, be yourself, and don't bother others, in the eyes of others, you may just be a joke.
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I very much agree, because when you are at a low point, you will realize that people are warm and cold, which will make you more negative.
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Because others can't understand your pain, and disturbing others with negative emotions will cause trouble to others, you must be self-reliant.
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Normal, because it's useless for you to go to someone else at this time, you have to learn to climb out of the trough on your own.
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I think this sentence makes a lot of sense, because when a person is at a low point, the people next to him don't want to deal with him at all, so it's just a shame to disturb others.
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From "Crossing" from Tagore's poetry collection "The Lover".
Rabindranath Tagore said: The sufferings, losses, responsibilities, sins you carry, and pain you endure today will eventually turn into light and illuminate your path.
No matter how hard and tiring life is, you have to get through it on your own. When people are at a low point, they should be alone and don't bother anyone. In life, some hardships are destined, and you have to survive by yourself. No matter how hard and tired you are, you have to hold on and carry it. Stand up straight, don't fall, laugh at life, and you'll win.
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Rabindranath Tagore (7 May 1861 – 7 August 1941) was an Indian poet, writer, activist, philosopher, and Indian nationalist. His representative works include Gitanjali, The Birds, The Sand in the Eyes, The Four Persons, The Family and the World, The Gardener, The Crescent Moon, The Last Psalm, The Gora Stool, The Crisis of Civilization, etc.
Born on May 7, 1861, Rabindranath Tagore to a wealthy aristocratic family in Calcutta, India, was able to compose long poems and carols at the age of 13. In 1878 he went to England to study, and in 1880 he returned to China to devote himself to literary activities. From 1884 to 1911 he was secretary of the Buddhist Society, and in the 20s he founded the International University.
In 1913, he became the first Asian to win the Nobel Prize in Literature for Gitanjali. In 1941, he wrote "The Crisis of Civilization," a last word that denounced British colonial rule and believed that the motherland would be liberated from independence.
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When you're at a low point, you don't want to alarm anyone.
2.After surviving this catastrophe, even if you give it to me, I will never guess how I will eat it like candy again.
3.If you find it difficult to walk right now, congratulations, you are on the uphill path of your life's journey.
4.In order to survive, it is necessary to give up the right to dream occasionally.
5., who is sad for the lost one? , all guests from other places.
6.Even an immature attempt is better than a stillborn attempt.
7.When you have time, ask yourself more about the direction of tomorrow.
8.No one will always be with you, but there will always be someone to accompany you for the rest of your life.
9.There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, only oneself that has stepped down.
10.Ask yourself why, not why.
11.Happiness will also have a time when the stove is delayed, and the answer can only be in your own hands.
12.Even if all catastrophes could be foreseen. I'm still willing to go.
13.This world is very fair, either you are comfortably poor, or you are desperate to do it.
14.Hongchen dreams more, and asks less about right and wrong. The past follows the wind, love and hate at will.
15.What you can afford is courage, and what you can put down is courage.
16.How big the pattern is, how beautiful the stage is.
17.The detours that life should take are indispensable for one meter.
18.The value of life is determined by oneself. You will be the designer of your own happiness.
19.Where there's a will, there's a way. ,。Hard-working people, the sky does not pay. Lying on the salary to taste the gall, three thousand Yuejia can swallow Wu.
20.Always aspire and aspire to the long-term.
21.What others can do, I can do.
22.Born to be the protagonist in your own life, there is no need to be a green leaf just to foil others.
23.No matter how good other people's eaves are, it is better to have a safe nest for yourself.
24.Want to change the world. Change yourself first.
25.The past returns to the past, and the future returns to the future. I am willing to step on a thousand mountains and live up to the original intention.
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