I can t let it go, I can t forget it, and I m in pain

Updated on psychology 2024-07-10
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Can time really dilute everything? If I could, I would have let it erase everything in his memory, but for me, not only did it fail to dilute everything, but it has become another kind of torment that torments me, making me suffer again and again, suppressing my thoughts again and again, asking myself repeatedly, again and again, is it the choice now, isn't it? Every time we meet after an interval for me, it is a kind of torment, so I choose to escape, I know I can't love you, understand that we have nothing to happen in between, although the main reason for me is that I have no right to love you, no right to get your love, maybe we really resemble the personalities too much, even on the face when they choose a question with an answer - to make love in front of the deserters, so I walk back to the original path, their future will be on the way back, I will be deeply embedded in the corners of your heart, and you're still looking for your other half, and I still think the distance is unpredictable.

    I have been in my heart, and I don't know how many times you have asked, why, why you have to be stubborn in your own principles, instead of being brave enough to tell me that you love me, why when I am brave enough to like you, when I tell you that because of your principles, push me to his side and tell me that I should take the responsibility of love, why do you know that my last choice should be calm in my heart has been restored, and also let the ups and downs all over again. I don't know if you really can't see it, it feels like you're still pretending to be stupid in front of me, but I'm tired, I'm really tired, how are you? Aren't you tired?

    It may really be able to dilute everything in time, but who understands and appreciates it behind the time things, it is a place that can not be touched.

    You once told me that if I left because the tears of your heartache were about to fall, when they quickly looked up this sky that once belonged to us, the sky was still blue, white, and still so dashing, and it should not cry because my departure did not take your world with it.

    Why are these words so bitter? You left and really didn't take my world? If not, why don't you feel like I've always been here, and the sky and clouds are still so beautiful?

    I hope that time can dilute everything for me, I hope that time will erase everything in his memory, I hope that he really will not leave my world, I hope that he can find his other half as soon as possible, I hope to be able to try to forget, love seriously, I love him, hope.

    -In the face of love, I hope you don't be a deserter, I hope we can be brave enough to say that I love you Love may really not be right or wrong, love may really cause all kinds of choices, but it can always only be a single answer.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then look at your mistakes, look at the quarrels you have had along the way, those bad plots, and you will give up when you see the facts! Do you understand the facts? See the facts, understand the meaning, the facts The reason for your quarrel, where you are wrong! Do you understand?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Not long ago, my friend and boyfriend broke up, and they treated their past feelings differently from others, she didn't remove the circle of friends where the two of them were together, and she didn't choose to intentionally forget.

    When I asked him why, my friend said, "The sooner you want to forget, the clearer you will remember, so don't rush." ”

    We really don't need to dissociate ourselves from all past relationships the moment we say "break up."

    Humans are sentient animals. It's not a tool that says you can forget. Maybe you weren't happy when you broke up, and the pain of separation alone can't negate the beauty of being together.

    Those memories of the past prove that you have worked hard for love seriously, and it also proves that you have lived up to life.

    Feelings actually have nothing to do with time, ten years or a month, since that person's appearance has left a place in your heart, then he is meaningful. There is no need to embarrass yourself in order to forget him.

    There is such a passage in the movie "Half-Understood". "In love, people always deceive themselves and end with deception. ”

    Don't deceive yourself by deleting your chat history. It doesn't matter if you can't forget it. It's okay if you can't put it down.

    In love, we all have such an obsession that we don't have to force ourselves to say goodbye to the past, and we don't have to rush to remove the ring on our finger after the relationship is over.

    If you find that you can't do it when you let go, you'd rather accept it. Because you will remember the memories you have forgotten more clearly, and you will end up in pain.

    Some things can't be deleted, just keep them, some experiences can't be forgotten, remember to forget some experiences, I hope you can calmly recall the past, or smile and walk towards the people you meet later.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it. If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......

    Time is king ... I thought about it at the beginning, and I was fascinated.,I haven't felt it for 5 years.。。。

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