I am angry when I think of the past, and I am really unhappy in my heart?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-10
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You already know very well in your heart that such a man is not worthy of your love, so you also chose to break up. But why can't you let go of the hurt he once did to you? Because of his betrayal, you have a subconscious that you are a failure, you are not good, his behavior directly denies your love for him, good to him, you feel that you are worthy of him with affection and reason, so you always have a feeling of unwillingness, and even thought about countless impossible assumptions, thought about how to retaliate, how to leave a message, how to preach, let him obey the "law" and "reason", admit his mistakes.

    It is often this endless, whimsical mind that occupies your inner world after you lose him. The more you think about it, the more annoyed it becomes, you can't be yourself, you want to cry without tears, and you can't put it into words. Breaking up --- itself is a change in life, because the original world of two people, there is one less person, and now, you not only have to face the empty mind, but also think about his mistakes to torture yourself, and take yourself to stay in the meaningless memories of the past, so that you will naturally feel uncomfortable and angry.

    Beautiful girl, it is recommended that you use some methods to enrich yourself, that is, keep yourself busy, whether you are busy with work, or helping others, or caring for your family, of course, it is best if you can make some fitness plans and charging arrangements for yourself. Make yourself full of charm, imagine that your boyfriend around you will be a more handsome, better, better person, who understands you better, and loves you more, and you will slowly get out of your current bad mood. Believe me.

    I've now found a husband who is 10,000 times better than the boyfriend I hated before. I lived happily in a foreign land, settled down through hard work, and had a good job. Life is so colorful. Best wishes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Love and hate are born together as brothers, coexisting, but it is just a period to see which one is dominant.

    When two people are together, happiness is always the most, and when problems arise and become irreconcilable, it will be reversed.

    In fact, I think that people should be kind to themselves, maybe everyone understands, but they will not really be kind to themselves, treating themselves well is not to give themselves good food and clothing, those are external substances, in fact, you should really treat yourself spiritually, then you must always make yourself happy and happy, and throw away the things that make you unhappy as soon as possible

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is a lyric that says: "Love and hate are twin brothers", but they can't go beyond the scale of sincerity. When it comes to "betrayal", it is beyond this scale, it has to be another matter, it is not worth being angry for such a person, it is like being bitten by a dog, the dog does not understand the sophistication of human feelings, do you still have to worry about the dog?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Just don't think about it or think of it as someone else's business.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let go of the baggage and look to the future. -

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be nervous, it may be cardiac neurosis.

    Cardiac neurosis refers to the fact that there may be symptoms similar to angina, but there is no structural or functional abnormality of the heart itself.

    That is, there is no difference between the heart itself and the heart of a healthy person.

    It is more common in young women, and the incidence rate in men is slightly lower, simply put, it is similar to the symptoms of neurasthenia, which can be accompanied by insomnia and dreams.

    There is also a possibility of hyperthyroidism, whose symptoms are palpitation, large food intake, irritability, weight loss, and proptosis

    If there is no problem with the thyroid gland, then, congratulations, there will be no major problems with your body.

    Word for word, I hope it helps you.

    Good luck.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It may be that there is something wrong with your mentality, and it is not good for your health to be like this for a long time. Do you have a good friend to confide in your grievances, or use games to let yourself go? You can also use your favorite way, in short, to make yourself happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is when you need to deflate.

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