My husband doesn t like to go out and stays at home all day, what should I do?

This question needs to be approached from both the husband and the wife.

As a wife, first of all, you need to know why your husband doesn't like to go out and wants to stay at home. Is it because every time I go out together, I just want to go shopping and buy things, and my husband is just a tool for carrying a bag or a walking ATM? Therefore, the wife needs to know what her husband likes and do what he likes.

For example, if the husband likes to go out for exercise, or climb the mountain, then if the wife wants her husband to go out, she can take her husband to climb the mountain, go to the park, or other more relaxing activities, such as accompanying the husband to watch a movie that the husband likes.

On the other hand, the wife needs to know what her husband is thinking. There must be a reason why he's staying at home. For example, the constraints and constraints of economic conditions.

Because going out definitely requires consumption. At this time, if you want your husband to go out, you can dispel the idea of spending, or reduce consumption to a minimum. Of course, the extreme approach is to let the husband go out, not to spend the husband's money, but to spend his own savings.

Just find a free place to accompany you.

As a husband, I don't like to go out and stay at home, I may be looking for a kind of quiet for a short time, but it will be annoying if I stay for a long time, unless my husband is a game fan or a workaholic. It may also be caused by previous reasons, because before getting married, the husband often likes to stay at home and forms a habit.

If for a short period of time, the husband does not like to go out, this is a normal behavior. If you don't like to go out for a long time, then you must consider seeing a psychiatrist. Because not going out means not interacting with others, which is a precursor to depression called social phobia.

Therefore, the wife needs to take her husband to see a psychiatrist, hoping that it will not be so serious.

I used to have a colleague, her husband is the kind of person who is very, very homely, he can be said to be a mother's treasure, usually at home playing games, playing with mobile phones, even the children rarely take care of it. When she told me, I felt that she was also helpless, and then I said to her, you have to analyze the reason, first, why does he like to stay at home all day and not like to go out, so what do you want him to do?

From what she told me about some things in her husband's life, it can be seen that her husband's interests and hobbies are very narrow, and he is more introverted, and he doesn't like to express himself in front of outsiders, so he naturally likes to stay at home and live in his own space.

The second is that his personal values determine his behavior, why does he think he wants to go out to play? Why go out? Isn't it nice to be at home? Some people's values are like this, and the hardest thing to change is their thinking.

Based on the above analysis, what should we do if we really want to change him? We can start with the reasons, such as cultivating his interest, doing more family parent-child outdoor activities, so that he can take on the responsibility of being a father and be enthusiastic to participate in it.

Moreover, let him take on more responsibilities in life and see what life is like, instead of saying that he will always live under the protection of his mother, and he doesn't know how to communicate with others.

Finally, the most important and most difficult thing to change is that once a person's mind is stubborn, ten cows can't pull it back. Then this point can only be put to the end, and there is no way to make sense, so it can only be said that let him change by himself, and see the benefits from it, and then make some improvements from the inside out, so that it is the real bottom of the kettle.

If you are bored, you can also think of some activities that you can do together at home, and it is not the wisest thing to force others to change. A harmonious marital status is one in which both parties make changes, and if they really can't change, then they can make some improvements to each other on the basis of the status quo. Happiness is the most important thing.

Zhaibei, comfortable at home, naturally reluctant to go out.

It may be the fear of communicating with people, but this should be relieved slowly, and it can be improved slowly by going out for a walk at the right time every day, such as after eating.

If you're just too lazy to go out, you should go out for a walk.

Pay attention to travel time, give yourself a sense of security, and increase the time you spend outside.

If you look closely, it's actually very interesting on the outside, for example, if you look at a person's clothes (please don't stare at him, it will look strange, just look at him normally) and guess what he does, what kind of story he has, etc.

There are thousands of reasons to be an otaku, and don't become a real otaku.

Question: 33 years old.

Kiss Here it is recommended that you can go out and participate in a little social activity [heart].

You can go shopping, buy something or something.

Maintain a normal and healthy social life.

Question: I don't want to do anything, I don't do housework.

I don't know what's wrong.

Married. Is it a feeling that I have only recently started?

Question: Married.

The feeling of not wanting to go out.

Maybe it's because I've been in for a long time, and I don't want to go out anymore when I'm used to being an otaku and a housegirl. Or it may be staying at home and having things to do, such as doing homework and playing games, or it may be simply lazy.

If you are reluctant to go out for a long time and only like to be at home, one is that this person may be more introverted, that is, this person may be more homely, so he is reluctant to go out and contact too much.

It is recommended to communicate with the child more, enlighten more, buy some social books, and it is best to take the child to the psychology department of a regular hospital.

"Being afraid of the outside world and staying at home is a helpless escape. If life is a dark jungle, then home may be what we consider to be a safe zone. When a person just wants to stay at home and is unwilling to go out, he just has too much fear of the outside world in his heart, but this fear cannot be spoken, so he can only stay at home to protect himself.

One, lazy, two, no friends, three, psychological problems, unwilling to make friends with others, four, too poor.

Golden snub-nosed monkeys live in high mountains and dense forests, feed on berries, bamboo shoots, moss, and also like to eat meat such as bird eggs.

1. When you stop, don't forget that others are still running. 2. The most tiring thing in the world is to live a hypocritical life. 3. There is no such thing as failure, unless you stop trying.

Seeing this topic, a contradictory heart arises spontaneously, life is a difficult and full of ups and downs, the environment and their own mentality, determines whether life can be complete, how to go on the road of life, no one can give themselves a definition, fate will change at any time, and we are constantly changing with the development of events.

Everyone's situation is different, and the reasons why husbands are reluctant to stay at home may also be different. Here are some common reasons:

1.Reasons for working years: Some husbands may enjoy work very much, or consider work to be an important task for them. They may feel that they can only find satisfaction and fulfillment at work, while staying at home can feel bored and lost.

2.Social needs: Some husbands may be more social and social, and they may feel lonely and depressed when they are at home. They need to communicate with friends or colleagues and share their thoughts and feelings in order to feel happy and satisfied.

3.Family stress: Some husbands may think that they need to take on a lot of housework and childcare responsibilities at home, which can cause them a lot of stress and burden.

They may feel that they are unable to cope with these responsibilities or may want to share family responsibilities with their partner.

4.Personal hobbies: Some husbands may have their own personal hobbies, such as sports, traveling, reading, etc. They may feel that staying at home does not satisfy their interests and need to go out to find more opportunities and experiences.

In conclusion, there may be many reasons why husbands are reluctant to stay at home. If there is a communication problem between the couple, the early disturbance should be communicated and resolved in time to understand the other party's thoughts and needs. At the same time, husbands and wives also need to understand and support each other, share family responsibilities, and create a harmonious family atmosphere.

I am an introvert, I naturally like to do what I like quietly, and I will still be willing to go out to play with friends or do other things, usually I like to stay at home. ‍‍

Because everything can now be bought on the mobile phone, it has formed a kind of psychological laziness, as long as you are hungry, you will order takeout, and you will not want to go out after a long time. ‍‍

The more I grew up, the more I realized that I didn't like to go out, I didn't want to say hello when I saw familiar people, and I felt annoyed when I saw strangers on the road, so I liked to stay at home and be quiet. ‍‍

I have now become an old man, eating the flowers of the family, enjoying life all day long without working, and some people who work hard, the pressure is very difficult to be relieved, and finally I can only get some psychological problems, and I stay at home every day. ‍‍

The reason why I stay at home and don't want to go out is because of my personality, I am a person who does not like to talk by nature, and I usually prefer to play alone at home, even if I lie down for a day, I am willing, I don't know how to contact others. ‍‍

Probably because of my personality, since I went to junior high school, I have become more and more introverted, and I don't like to talk to others, usually only play games at home, I remember that time my mother wanted me to go out for a walk, buy something to eat, I was particularly embarrassed, to the downstairs turned around and secretly went home, this is also the most headache for my mother, and then after going to college, I usually like to stay in the dormitory when there are no classes. ‍‍

I usually like to play games, because I don't have many friends, so I prefer to stay at home and play games, which has caused the habit of staying at home for a long time. ‍‍

I think that staying home is a common problem that most teenagers have nowadays, and the reason for this situation is largely related to the developed Internet. The virtual online world blinds children, and the convenient living conditions also allow children to get what they want without leaving home. ‍‍

I remember when I was a child, my personality was still very lively, since the age has changed, I have become very introverted, and I didn't look for a job during the college internship, just staying at home to play games or watch anime, just like that kind of life is my truest time, at that time my parents were very busy with work and couldn't take care of me, so I ate takeout all day long. ‍‍

I don't know, I don't feel tired of lying down for a week, I'm a waste, I always feel tired, I don't like to socialize, and I'm an only child. ‍‍