What do you think the best state for two people after a divorce looks like?

Two people just don't contact each other, sometimes they occasionally think about each other, and they will secretly do something good for themselves, etc., this state is the best state for two people after divorce.

The best state should be not to disturb each other, not to care about each other's life after the divorce, and not to interfere too much in each other's normal life.

It's a friend-like relationship, and two people can also help each other in life, and at the same time they can help each other and support each other, and then they can often communicate or communicate together.

The best state is that two people can still be friends, but it is impossible to be together again, and the mentality of both people is better.

Some netizens asked: How are you doing after the divorce? What is your view on divorce?

I think a lot of people are doing well after a divorce, at least people I know are generally doing better after a divorce than they were before a divorce. I have the following main opinions on divorce:One, never be afraid of divorce; Second, you can live well after divorce; Three, don't be defined by divorce, your life is up to you.

In fact, the people who are most afraid of divorce in life are often women, because they are always bound by various "spiritual shackles", and they are often controlled by economic pressure. Let's discuss the topic of divorce.

First of all, I don't think anyone should be afraid of divorce. If your marriage is really painful, makes you depressed, and makes you sad, then you should divorce without hesitation. You have reached the bottom, you are so unbearable in your marriage, are you still afraid that you will not have a good time after the divorce?

You will only get better and better after the divorce, because after people reach the bottom, they can only go up, and it is impossible to go down.

Secondly, I think it is possible to live well after a divorce. When many women first make the decision to divorce, they are very worried, afraid that they will never meet a suitable man for the rest of their lives, and that they will not be able to support themselves and their children. But actually, you're overthinking.

Children will always grow up, and even if you can't find a suitable man, at least you don't have to guard a scumbag every day to be sad, you will become happy, as long as you are in a good mood, you have the motivation to struggle.

Third, people should not be defined by divorce, and your life should always be your own decision. Many people are afraid of being pointed at by the people around them after divorce, in fact, we can't care what others say, the most important thing is that we can make ourselves comfortable. Divorce is just a thing that can be done in a short period of time, and it should not be the shackles that define us.

In short, don't be afraid of divorce, as long as you take this step, you will find that it is not so scary.

After the divorce, we were doing very well; I think divorce is very normal, two people can't get by, there is no emotion, it is better to divorce and continue to be together, it is not good for both people and children.

I don't think there's anything wrong with us after the divorce, except for the fact that we are relatively financially difficult and miss our children a little.

I've been doing well since my divorce; I think divorce is a thing that must be done if two people are not suitable, and divorce is very common now.

The likelihood of a happy life after a divorce depends on the reason for the divorce.

In layman's terms, if you divorce just because of some occasional small conflicts between two people, then the possibility of living happily after the divorce is very small.

Why is that? As the old saying goes: "husband and wife quarrel, bedside quarrel, bedside and", this sentence is telling us that there are never two people who are completely suitable for being together in this world, and no matter how suitable two people are, there will always be inappropriate places together, therefore, in the face of various trivial things in life, it is normal for couples to occasionally have some contradictions, and there is no need to divorce because of this.

To put it bluntly, if a person divorces because of a little conflict, it will be difficult for this person to get a happy married life for the rest of his life.

On the contrary, if the frequency of conflicts between two people is very high, and even if two people meet Li Zheng is a scene of fighting, or if two people are together, they often quarrel after not saying a few words, or if they have a tendency to domestic violence, then although this kind of marriage relationship seems to be a husband and wife, in fact, it is just a contract.

In this situation of successive conflicts and disputes, in fact, the home is no longer the home, and the possibility of a happy life after the divorce increases.

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues. There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs.

You can use your money as you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, his personality can be brought into full play, and his habits of life are free. Qianyou will no longer be angry because of the difference in three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes.

Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

To put it thoroughly, if it is because of our own reasons that we ourselves are unhappy in the marital relationship, then there is a high probability that we will not be happy after the divorce, and if it is because of the other party's reasons that we are unhappy in the marital relationship, then there is a possibility of living happily after the divorce.