Advantages are sometimes disadvantages, and disadvantages are actually advantages

I have a female friend who is a strong and resilient single mother. She now has a career she likes, and she is able to have a good material life for herself and her eight-year-old son.

However, her relationship has always been very unhappy. The previous marriage was divorced, and her son followed her, because her son was only two years old at the time, she couldn't rest assured, and she was a strong person herself, thinking that she could support herself and her son.

When she first got divorced, because her son was still young and she didn't have much money in her hands, she handed over her son to her parents to raise, gave her monthly living expenses, and went out to find a job by herself.

She is a very hard-working person, and because of the pressure of life, she has forced herself into a work machine. After earning some money, she did not take her son out, but stayed at home to go to school, but the money sent home increased. She herself is also devoted to her career.

Because of the tempering of those years, she has truly become a strong woman, she can solve everything in life by herself, and her personality is stronger.

Now that she has stabilized, she wants to find another person to marry and have a complete home.

However, I searched for a few in a row, but I couldn't succeed, and some of them were married for the second time and had children. The reason for the breakup is either that she dislikes the man for not being self-motivated, or that the man dislikes her for being too strong.

Many of her friends around her listened to what she said, and they also felt that it was because her personality was too strong, and hoped that she could change it, otherwise no one would be able to stand it.

At work, because she has a strong personality, others think she is shrewd and capable, tenacious and persevering, and her strong character is her strength.

Emotionally, because of her strong personality, she always can't find someone who is satisfied with each other, and she is disliked again and again for having a bad personality, and her strong personality has become her shortcoming.

Sometimes, a person's strengths are actually her weaknesses. The disadvantages and advantages are not separated, but integrated. Disadvantages can become advantages, and advantages can become weaknesses.

You can only make them change if they want to change themselves. Sometimes, the shortcomings you hate may happen to be the strengths that others like; What you don't feel satisfied with may be the reason why he can live a comfortable life.

It is true that sometimes a bit is a person's shortcomings, because the advantages are a person's shining point, but because the official declaration of homework can become a person's shortcomings.

It is also a disadvantage, which means that there are advantages, and if you think too much about others, then it will often become a disadvantage, because it is a disadvantage for you and an advantage for others, so you will be too tired.

Sometimes people's strengths can also become disadvantages, for example, this person is very talkative, chattering with others, and good at communication, but sometimes because he talks a lot, others will say that he is chattering, so it disturbs others.

Yes, sometimes the advantage is when you do one thing, because it is not necessarily the advantage when you do other things.

<> "The disadvantages are actually the advantages You are not as bad as you think.

The disadvantages are actually advantages.

1.Procrastination.

Strong ability to resist pressure, Mount Tai collapses in front of the face without changing color, and ensures that the task is completed on time.

2.Social fear. Must be a small expert in the professional field, pay attention to self-improvement, not easy to be affected by the external environment, 3Indecision.

Work steadily, think carefully, and be able to consider how to solve problems in many aspects, 4Temper tantrum.

Strong sense of responsibility, is a natural wisdom of action, can effectively promote the work.

5.Three-minute heat.

Innovative talents, quick thinking, keep the freshness and curiosity of anything, 6Lack of assertiveness.

Good at sorting out and summarizing, integrating resources, and considering many key factors to make plans.

7.Wayward. Have faith, have your own ideas, and be unwavering.

8.Obstinate. Rules, organizational principles, worthy of dependence.

9.Timid. Be cautious and consider the problem more prudently.

10.There is no plan mega improvise, 11Slow in doing things.

Meticulous, patient, conscientious and responsible.

12.Not humorous.

Serious and thoughtful.

13.It's easy to get lost.

Delicate heart, strong empathy, 14Taciturn.

Be willing to contribute, set off others, and be an indispensable member of the collective.

15.Take care of the nossy business.

Helpful, live and warm-hearted.

16.Love to be lazy.

Be good at looking for opportunities to seize the essentials and draw inferences

Advantages: 1. Integrity and kindness. This is the basic of being a human being.

2. Be righteous, responsible, and adhere to your own principles.

3. Strong adaptability. Generally speaking, I am more adaptable to life and environment, and I am not very picky.

4. Easy-going personality and good mentality. I have a more easy-going personality, I don't get angry about small things, sometimes I don't care about things like losing or something, I have a better mentality.

5. Personal expression skills are not bad, although they can't be said to be able to speak, but the basic expression skills are still good.

6. Sincerity. I think sincerity is an attitude, attitude determines everything, and you will definitely have a sincere response to everything with a sincere heart.

8. Clear goals. I think I have a good habit of writing in my notepad with a clear goal.

9. Punctuality and trustworthiness. I have a strong sense of time, my credit is better, and the better the time and things, I generally abide by the agreement. Because there is an adage that reminds me all the time, "Promise less, deliver more."