I suddenly felt that the person I liked was not suitable for me.

It's okay, give up! You give up now, and she will treat you as a beautiful scenery in her life. And if you give up after confessing to her, I'm afraid you'll become a painful wound.

Talk to her. Since I like her quietness, maybe I can be a good friend!

I also have a similar experience to you, I chose to give up, I feel that she is not my 100, but I still care about her, I have only been friends with her for three years, a while ago, she said that she was not good, I was desperate to find her, see her, I found that I loved her for three years, never let go, although only 80% 90% in my mind, but enough! It's a pity that our fate is over, it's impossible! I am so sad and regretful that I lost the person I love the most easily!

So, after all, there is a gap between fantasy and reality, and there is no 100%, so please really cherish the people around you!

I know I can't put her down in this life, how sad! Although it is possible to break up at the beginning, it will not be a lifelong concern! I'm so tired!

Therefore, there is no love at first sight in the world, everything must be considered thoroughly, don't make a blind decision, otherwise it will make everyone unhappy!

If you don't like it, don't pursue it, just take it as a lesson! This is a major life event, remember it next time, don't make a blind decision (there is no love at first sight), otherwise it will be embarrassing.

Fortunately, you haven't confessed your feelings to her yet, you've just been pursuing, and since it doesn't feel right now, there's no need to waste time and feelings. In fact, when we fall in love for the first time, we don't understand love, it is just a momentary emotional impulse, and the success rate is very low.

You should ask yourself if you still like her, and if you like her, pursue her bravely, and don't say discouragement before you have pursued her. If you don't like it, don't mistake you and the other person for the sake of your own face.

Friend, do you love her? Do you know the difference between love and liking? Like is just shallow love, and love is very deep like, right? Do you love her or do you like her? Think it out for yourself! Good luck!

Rest for a few days and think about it yourself, maybe one day when you wake up and open your eyes, the answer will be in your mind.

If you don't love it, don't chase it, and you can't barely come to emotional matters.

Hey, I'm just like you.

The difference is that he's already my girlfriend.

I just realized that she was a bit of a no-brainer for me.

I don't know what to do.

I just want to say that you should cherish the people around you.

There must be a dispute between each other, whether it is in the concept or in the mouth. When people have an argument, they can easily get emotional. People are emotional creatures, especially girls:

If I'm good, the whole world will be fine, if I'm not good, the whole world will be not good, and I will have to go with the funeral goods. Therefore, the first step must not be irrational with each other. You think that doing this kind of clarity will hurt him, but in fact it is only yourself and the people around you who love you.

Therefore, be sure not to impulsively do everything clearly.

step on the distance between each other. It may have been that we were in the middle of the game before, so we ignored a lot of things, so take advantage of this time to calm down. During this time, you are likely to think of the page you spent with him every once in a while, it was good, it was not so good, this kind of thing.

At this point you will be able to recognize whether you really like him or not, whether he really likes you. If either of them is not successful, they need to die as soon as possible, regardless of thirty-seven twenty-one. If they both like each other, then they can proceed to the third step.

This time is personally recommended for 3 months. If, during the three months you are here, you have a feeling that you were blind at that time, or you feel sick when you think about it, then your relationship is over, and you don't need to move on to the next step.

Problems found, medications**, problem solving. The emotional crisis involves two people, the shortcomings are all two people, but the market share of the difficult points is not the same, 2 I should find my own problems, think about the area that must be improved, as long as two people work together to repair and maintain the relationship, the situation of love is easy to solve. If a person's difficulties are relatively large, then it is reasonable to use practical actions to reverse the situation in the other party's conflicting areas, and strive to gain the recognition of others.

Before the emotional crisis, prevention is not in the relationship, the most important thing is communication and communication, many people in the relationship because of the long time together, can not communicate as often and effectively as in the past, in fact, many of the difficulties in the relationship are not timely communication or communication is not in place to cause misunderstanding and rustiness.

In the long run, it is easy to cause a relationship crisis if it is not resolved immediately, so couples often communicate and communicate to effectively avoid the cause of contradictions and reduce the possibility of emotional difficulties. The vast majority of couples have this mentality, they have nothing to talk about, and once they extract it, they think about it day and night. The reason for this is relatively simple, and the extraction adds a favorable norm to each other's rational learning to think.

Also, most of us have this kind of psychological state, that is, with the passage of time, the memory of the past has a certain subconscious of being fair and honest and abandoning evil, and happy things will gradually become prominent. Therefore, for some couples with discordant feelings, there should be a place to apply temporary chromatography separation, so that the happy feelings of the husband and wife can be aroused again in the separation, and ensure the significant results of improving the relationship between the husband and wife.

It may be because you think the other person is bad and see the other person's shortcomings, so you don't like the other person.

Chances are you're just enjoying the process of liking the other person, that you're sexually unrequited, or that you're glorifying the other person too much.

Because you have already conquered each other, you got along with each other only to conquer each other, not for love.