Am I not fit for a relationship? Why do you feel like you re not fit to be in a relationship?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-16
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Then it's not that you're not out of love. The best way to get along with your ex should be to break off cleanly, without any contact, and even worse, never get along with each other. Most couples who break up in life can't become friends, because they are too familiar, and sometimes they get closer, and they may have the feeling of being in love before, and they will be together again in a daze.

    But within a few days, the same contradiction will be aroused. We are all emotional, and many times the emotion will be greater than the rationality in the heart, knowing that it is not suitable, we still have to reluctantly reunite. Then break up, get back together, toss back and forth a few times, I'm afraid I will really die in my heart.

    Forget about your ex, your future belongs to you and another right person. Don't give yourself a chance to regret it, and don't give the other person a chance to hurt yourself. To express it in a song is the beginning of dignity and the end of dignity.

    In fact, what a relationship needs is time to find the answer, but in the process there is no longer the mood to find the answer, don't drag it out at this time, never contact is the best way for the other party, you have to start the next period, in order to start better. Just be a principled ordinary friend with your ex.

    If either party can't stick to the bottom line of friends, it's best not to communicate to avoid adding trouble to your later life. As the saying goes: often walk by the river without getting wet. Don't test human nature.

    I have a friend who has always boasted that he has concentration, and the people around him are looking for women to play with one by one, and he is clean and self-loving, and he chats with netizens every day and does not go into the water, but after chatting a few, he finally met a woman who has no self.

    The bottom line of being a man is not in the bottom line, but another bottom line must be drawn above the bottom line. Knowing that the river is easy to get wet, why walk by the river? Don't test your humanity and make your life easier.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello! We're happy to answer your questions. Your question I give is:

    Not. You're fit for a relationship. First of all, if you ask such a question, I understand very well, maybe you have been hurt in your relationship, so you have self-doubt, and you should not be repulsed by the fact that you are in a relationship.

    Falling in love is a matter of two people, whether two people get along or not, we rely on the same three views, if the two of you are together, they are quarrels because of a little thing, and finally break up unhappily. Then you have to think about the problem in **, find the problem and solve it. If the last two of you still can't solve these problems, then you may want to consider whether the two of you are suitable for a relationship and whether the relationship should continue to last.

    I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Of course not, women want to find a safe and reliable man, who is sincere enough to themselves, loves themselves, and can be good to themselves, there is nothing wrong with this!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You just didn't find the right person, and when you look for her again, she may be looking for you too, sooner or later, you will all meet.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel that I am not suitable for a relationship, perhaps because I am not ready for a relationship, or because I am shy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's because he knows his character very well, he won't be coquettish in love, and he always goes straight and makes the other half annoyed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because I don't have this concept of love, and I am disgusted with many boys, and I haven't experienced the sweetness of love.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think a large part of the reason is that one person is used to it, and I am afraid that one day another person will join in and make life different, and it will be very uncomfortable. There is also the love of friends around you, which is also easy to cause misunderstandings when it comes to falling in love. However, everyone still has to be brave to try, how do you know that you are not suitable for a relationship if you don't try?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may be that he enjoys his independent life too much, does not like to accommodate others, and may be unwilling to communicate his true feelings with others because of too little daily socialization.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Modern people's view of marriage is the most concerned about marriage, when it comes to marriage, they often commit marriage phobia, the premise of marriage is love, if you don't fall in love, you won't enter the grave of marriage, who will jump into it now, it should be an excuse not to fit. The essence of love is the process of running in with each other, both to accept each other's shortcomings and to accept each other's advantages, the way of speaking, etc., will make both parties in love to change some of their habits, both say that if you can't change others, you have to change yourself, the only child from a modern family, most of them will not change, and there is only one breakup. I have experienced it, I have been hurt, and I said that it is really not suitable for falling in love now It turns out that the right person has been on the road!

    Because I live a good life, I don't want someone to bother me. Personally, I don't want to be responsible for others, and I don't want to be dragged down by others. I don't want to drag others down.

    If you have this idea, it should not be suitable for falling in love.

    I still have friends who we talked about for a long time and haven't talked about them since we broke up. Many people say that he still didn't come out of the last relationship, but according to his own words, it's really not like that! But I feel that talking about feelings is too tiring, and the happiness I can gain is not as great as the hurt, so many people are now willing to live alone.

    Maybe as everyone says, if you have been single for a long time, you won't want to fall in love. It may also be that you are not confident enough in yourself, you think too much, you have to learn to adapt, the life of falling in love and the life of being single must be different, you will always lose a little and gain a little, so you must adapt to fall in love better.

    Remember, trust each other and don't lie. Nowadays, everyone is financially able, everyone can live a good life by themselves, and modern people are quite self-centered, but this kind of self is self-centered on the basis of not hindering others, and I think this is very good. It is precisely because of this that we don't want to be tied down, we don't need to find anyone to live with, and the most important thing is to be ourselves.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be because you have been single for a long time, and you have less contact with the opposite sex, so you will feel that you are not suitable for a relationship, and your personality is relatively simple, and you may feel that you can't get in touch with the opposite sex.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because I'm not used to having too close relationships with others, and I'm too lazy to manage and maintain a long-term relationship. I prefer to be alone and do what I love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think so, first of all, there are many reasons for not falling in love: it may be because the individual pursues other goals, such as career, study, travel, creativity, etc.; It may also be because you haven't met the person you like, or you have someone you like but don't have the courage to express your emotions; It is also possible that your previous relationship experience has made you lose confidence in love.

    Whatever the reason, not being in a relationship is not good or bad in itself, and it doesn't necessarily mean waiting for a particular person.

    Everyone has their own way of life and values, and it is everyone's right to freely choose the way they want.

    However, if you are slow to express your emotions or are haunted by past emotional experiences, it can affect your emotional growth and well-being. In this case, it is recommended that you communicate with family and friends, or consider seeking professional psychological counseling.

    Also, for people who want to fall in love, the best thing to do is to take the initiative. Participating in social events, joining interest groups, and using social networking to expand your social network are all ways to help you reach more people. And, when you find out that you like someone, be brave enough to express your feelings and don't miss out on possible opportunities for fear of rejection.

    In the end, good people do not appear in a vacuum, but we need to work hard to find and operate. Not falling in love does not mean that you can wait for a good person, on the contrary, only through positive actions and experience accumulation can you better identify and grasp the opportunity to find the person who is really suitable for you.

    In short, whether or not to fall in love is a free choice for individuals, but if there is a need for emotional and well-being, you should take the initiative to seek help and action, and maintain a positive attitude and optimistic attitude in order to move towards a happy life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1 I don't seem to be fit for love, and when my temper comes up, I don't want to hear anything.

    2 I don't seem to be suitable for a relationship, I used to think I was very gentle, but later I found that gentleness is useless, and I love it at first sight because I am good-looking.

    3 I don't seem to be suitable for falling in love, but when I start falling in love, I become clingy and emotional.

    4 I don't seem to be suitable for falling in love, and I can't change my duplicitous problem.

    5 I don't seem to be fit for a relationship, and I've learned to enjoy solitude rather than making do with people who don't understand me.

    6 I don't seem to be suitable for a relationship, and when I am murdered by the other party, I can't help but shed tears.

    7 I don't seem to be fit for love, and every time I quarrel, I cry before I can speak.

    8 I don't seem to be suitable for a relationship, and I want the other party to understand me, but I feel that it is not interesting to tell him directly.

    9 I don't seem to be fit for a relationship, and while I want to be pampered, I have a habit of being stubborn.

    10 I don't seem to be fit for love, and I fantasize and reject at the same time.

    11 I don't seem to be fit for a relationship, I become more and more rational, and my worries grow exponentially.

    12 I don't seem to be suitable for a relationship, but I still want a relationship between two people, and neither of them has to wronged themselves for the sake of the other.

    13 I don't seem to be fit for love, sometimes like an adult, occasionally too arrogant.

    14 I don't seem to be fit for love, I can't let go of others, and I can't let go of myself.

    15 I don't seem to be suitable for love, in the world of flowers, I just want to be single-minded.

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