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Hello. Love depends on the timing, if the time comes, even if it is an ugly duckling, there will be someone waiting for her, if the timing is not right, fate is not enough, even if you work hard, it may not necessarily belong to you. If you feel that as long as you keep paying, as long as you stay in his world, one day he will think you are good, one day he will fall in love with you, it is possible that he will be moved to accept you because of your dedication, but you also have to think about how much such youth time is needed, such a pay will make you accept even if you can't get it in the future, the more love pays, the less you work, the more you can't get it, the more you want to fight back, but in the end, the one who hurts the most is the one who has not given up.
Love is not the whole of life, I want to love someone just because he appeared in my world, he gave me the feeling of my heartbeat, in order not to regret this opportunity, you can express your heart, but if you do the result is not what you want, this can only mean that this time the heart is only yourself, the other party is not moved by you, you are in his world, but you are not his special person, as long as you are not his special person, then there is no place for you in his heart.
Love is beautiful, but don't let it blind your life path, if you look too hard, you will strangle yourself too tightly, and you will lose more. If you really don't want to lose the opportunity, you can find out what he thinks, not so much that he can't let go of his previous lover, but that he hasn't met the person he likes yet.
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Just try to be nice to him, take your time, time will erase everything.
Isn't the person who will love deeply more worthy of love?
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Love is a sad fairy tale.
Anyone who has read it has left more or less regrets When we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If there is no fate, even if we get together, we won't be able to understand, so let's let everything go with the flow.
。Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner.
Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...
Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.
Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...
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Judging from your statement, you are both more rational people, with a sense of responsibility for feelings and a deeper understanding of love.
Analysis of this boy:
1. He feels that your objective conditions (such as family status, etc.) do not match, which may hurt the feelings of the two of you, which will hurt you even more, so he can't bear it and can't bear to cut his love.
2. He didn't love you with all his heart, so he withdrew on the grounds of the reasons you proposed.
I thought he might have had both ideas, but the second had a little more of an element.
Analyze you:
You love him with all your heart, but you are always restraining your feelings, your heart is burning like a fire, but your appearance may be like a lyric "She seems to be cold as ice, she makes me feel unoriented". Such a personality may make those boys who are restless in their youth and want to have fun hold back, but it will make the person who really understands that you love you cherish for a lifetime.
You suppress your feelings not because you don't love, but because you don't want to vent your immature relationship prematurely in this period when the environment is not suitable for love (school study) and there is not much foundation for marriage and love (career has not stabilized). It's not your fault, and there is no "deserving of it" at all, but on the contrary, it is a correct view of marriage and love, long-term development and responsible performance.
If you are a little inadequate, it may be too cold, so that he can't see hope, let him think that you may not love him and choose to leave you, but if you understand each other well enough, he should find your true heart.
Solution: First of all, you should not be too obsessed with this kind of pain and cannot extricate yourself, get lost in this relationship and cannot introspect, so that the relationship can control your emotions and make rational judgments. If you used to use 80% of your sanity and 20% of your feelings, now you are completely captured by your feelings.
If a person is completely emotional, what kind of results do you think will be?!
Now it's best to deal with it coldly, go with the flow, communicate more, contact more, communicate more when you have the opportunity, and try to strive for the good, but not too much, that will be counterproductive. Then it is necessary to follow fate, and there is a fate to meet thousands of miles, and there is no chance to meet on the other side. Fate can not be found.
Feelings are not reluctant and improvised, the twisted melon is not sweet, and the forcible love will not be true and will not be long-term!
Feel at ease, be at ease.
I wish there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!
And it's very interesting! I'm a big baby, you're a little baby, it's really interesting!
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