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Hello. For you who have just come out of school, you should really focus on your career, otherwise you will have no career in the end, and you are now in a beautiful love at the end of the year, more likely to be defeated by reality, to tell you that there are many lovers now who are opposed by their families because of career problems, and finally they have to separate. In fact, the most fragile thing in this world is love, it can't stand the test of reality, if there is no stable conditions it is difficult to grasp the stable love, even if the other party does not give up, but her family will not stop there, for the two you want to choose, see which one you like to choose which one is not, your heart desires who is more, expect to see who is more, then choose who is not, for you now no matter who you choose more, for you who is just starting out, as long as you are willing to share weal and woe with you, Willing to help you when you are in trouble, then that's fine.
Looking at your statement, I think you don't seem to have any feelings for your ex-girlfriend, and you seem to be more excited about the person you just met, I also look at what you said, as for which one you want to choose, it depends on which one you like a little more.
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Of course, career is important.
However, love is not unwanted, it must be chosen at the right time.
I want you to go your way, some women are very excessive, they use you when they need you, and they leave you cold when they don't need you.
If the mirror is broken, it will leave scars and gaps.
I hope you think about it and don't leave yourself with regrets.
I wish you happiness.
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I can't tell who is more suitable for you, only some other advice: if there is a chance to improve in the recent work, then concentrate on work, go to the career and have everything, if not, then hurry up and start a family, otherwise the grade is older and there is no career, and it will be difficult to find a partner.
As for these two, I still choose from the attitude towards you, your tacit understanding, etc., and I want to find someone who can live.
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In fact, I have also encountered this problem, I am in a long-distance relationship with her, to be honest, I was very confident that we would be together, but in the end, there are destined to be many problems in a long way. There will be a lot of people of the opposite sex around you and her. No one knows what these variables will bring you.
You feel it directly, and it is destined that the road between you will not be long. It's hard to say whether you like it or not, or maybe she comforted your heart when you were empty, and of course it is possible that she can walk with you in the future. Since you have a weak feeling about yourself before, it is better to let go early, it is better for everyone, you can think about it when you have time, whether you and your current girlfriend are like a couple or feel more like you are with your classmates in the third year of junior high school, I think your feelings will tell you how to go.
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Can you let go of the past? Now that they're all let go, why do you still choose to be together? Is it necessary, even if you look back after the relationship, you can start anew and live happily is a small chance, after all, you have become the most familiar stranger, some things can not be remembered but it does not mean that you forget the previous happiness, happiness exists in your own mind, but it also means that unhappy and unpleasant also exist, can you be sure that you can forget these unhappy and unpleasant things with him from a new beginning?
Also, if you like someone a little now, it means that your heart is not all for her. You may even find it happier and easier to be with someone you like right now than with her.
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Let's focus on our careers! Maybe you haven't talked about it yet, so it will be a woman interested. Maybe after getting along, you guys aren't suitable!
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Good horses don't eat back grass, remember, youth. Give points.
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Distance is definitely a problem, people's feelings depend on getting along, not to mention that you don't love her so much, let it be, solve the work problem first and then consider love, immature feelings may hurt two people.
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This is called first love, and it is not called love at all, nor is it true love. Love is to give, love is to be sincere, love is to care for each other, let each other be.
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I think you should confirm what kind of girlfriend you really want to get.
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Reunion refers to the phenomenon of getting back together after a breakup and rebuilding old relationships. This situation can be very sweet or painful and unsettling. So is it worth looking forward to the feelings of the reunion? Let's take a look.
First of all, reunion is a very beautiful emotional experience, which can prove that two people love each other deeply and are willing to give everything for each other. This process of going from confusion, separation, and then back together increases mutual understanding and trust, and while restoring the relationship, it also makes the two more mature and strong.
However, sometimes it can be difficult and challenging. After going through a relationship, both have adjusted and formed their own habits and values. If there are too many conflicts during this period, there are still many problems that two people will have to face when starting over.
It may take them more time to adjust to each other and find new roles in each other's lives and relationships. If not handled properly, these issues can be more complicated or even lead to a breakup.
In addition, the reasons for the breakup also need to be carefully considered. If the breakup is caused by serious problems of contradictions, betrayal, malicious harm, etc., then it is difficult to achieve a broken reunion without completely resolving these problems. Even if two people are able to get back together, there may be irreconcilable conflicts that will eventually lead to another breakup.
In general, the relationship of a broken reunion is worth looking forward to, but it is necessary to be careful not to act hastily, and the relationship between the two should be carefully evaluated, including the reasons for the breakup, past conflicts and conflicts, etc., before making a decision. If you are ready to turn the page, and both of you have strong faith and determination, then a reunion is a very beautiful emotional experience, which can make two people understand and trust each other more and build a stronger relationship.
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As a wise confidant, I think that the relationship of reunion needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. In some cases, it is possible to reunite, but there are also many times when the effort only makes two people hurt each other more.
First of all, we need to consider the cause of the broken mirror. If it is because of some misunderstanding or ordinary quarrel, then the possibility of reunion is higher, and two people can re-establish trust, understanding and feelings through communication and exchange. But if the mirror is broken due to serious betrayal, deception, etc., then it may not be easy to reunite.
Secondly, we also need to consider the emotional state between two people. If two people are no longer in love, or one of them already has a new relationship, it is very difficult to reunite with each other. Even if you get back together, it doesn't necessarily end happily.
In short, when considering the issue of reunion, we need to deeply evaluate the situation and analyze it rationally, and we cannot be blindly optimistic or hopeless. The most important thing is that both people need to be willing to put in the effort and patience in order to have the possibility of rekindling the relationship or fighting.
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A broken reunion is when two people who have broken up get back together again and start a relationship again. This situation happens from time to time in real life, but the question of whether to be optimistic about the relationship of reunion is not so easy.
First of all, the relationship of reunion is not acceptable to everyone. Some people may be skeptical of this, believing that once the relationship has broken down, no further attempts should be made to repair it. They believe that starting over brings with it past problems and pain, making it more difficult to deal with.
In addition, people tend to hold the idea that "dogs can't change their", thinking that even if they get back together, the previous problems and conflicts will still exist, which will eventually lead to another breakup.
Others, however, are optimistic about the reunion. They believe that if both people are willing to start over, it means that they still have deep feelings for each other. In addition, getting back together will also allow two people to cherish each other more and pay more attention to each other's feelings and needs, thus avoiding previous problems and conflicts.
In some cases, getting back together can also make two people more mature and wise, and thus better able to deal with relationship issues.
It should be pointed out that whether or not you are optimistic about the relationship of reunion after breaking the mirror also needs to consider the specific situation. If two people break up because of basic principles such as personality incompatibility and different values, then the likelihood of getting back together is relatively low. But if two people break up because of personality conflicts, miscommunication, etc., then it is feasible to get back together by communicating with each other and changing their ways.
In addition, whether you are optimistic about the relationship of reunion after breaking the mirror also needs to consider the personality of the two people and the way of dealing with problems. If two people have immature personalities and deal with problems in an unhealthy way, then it will be difficult to avoid previous problems and conflicts even if they get back together. On the contrary, if two people have mature personalities and healthy ways of dealing with problems, then they are more likely to get back together.
Finally, it should be pointed out that whether or not you are optimistic about the relationship of reunion is not set in stone. Feelings are a dynamic process, and the thoughts and feelings of two people will also change over time. Sometimes, even if two people have broken up before, after a while, they may find that they still love each other very much and get back together.
Therefore, even if you are not optimistic about the relationship of reunion before, it cannot be ruled out that you will change your opinion at some point in the future.
In short, there is no absolute answer to whether or not to be optimistic about the relationship of reunion. It depends on the specific situation and individual point of view. If two people genuinely want to start over, then they should make a decision based on their own situation, while avoiding previous problems and conflicts as much as possible.
If you can successfully reunite in the end, then the relationship will be stronger and make the two people happier.
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Whether the relationship of reunion is feasible depends on the specific situation and the personal, emotional, situational and other factors involved. Here are some factors to consider:
1.Reasons and motivations: Is the reunion based on real feelings, or is it due to other factors such as loneliness, habits, social pressures, etc.? Do both parties genuinely want to get back together and are willing to put in the effort and solve the problems that came before?
2.History and experience: What is the previous relationship history and experience of both parties? Is there excessive integration, quarrels, injuries, etc.? Is it possible to learn from past experiences, solve problems, and improve?
3.Communication and problem-solving skills: Are both parties able to communicate actively and maturely, solve previous problems, and find common solutions? Are you able to deal with emotional, family, career, etc., pressures and challenges that may arise?
4.Change and growth of both parties: Since separation, have there been positive changes and growth on both sides, including personal maturity, emotional cognition, values, etc.? Will this have a positive impact on the relationship in this life?
5.Trust and commitment: Are both parties able to build and maintain trust, maintain commitment and loyalty to each other, and be willing to put in the effort and sacrifice for the relationship?
It is important to note that the reunion relationship does not necessarily apply to all situations, and each person and emotional relationship is unique. When considering a reunion, it is recommended to think carefully and communicate deeply, consider the true feelings, wishes, and development prospects of yourself and the other party, and also seek professional psychological counseling or emotional counseling to help you make wise decisions.
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I think it is possible to reunite with feelings, because people are creatures with feelings, and when it comes to feelings, everyone's situation is different and cannot be generalized. Some people's relationships may be broken by some small things, but they may also be restored by certain events or the dilution of time. Here's why I think it's more likely to be reunited.
First of all, time is a very important factor. As time goes by, people's ideas and perceptions keep changing. There are things that seem very important at the time, but over time, people may feel that their decisions at the time are not the best choice.
In a relationship, it is possible for two people to get back together if they are able to reconnect and communicate after a short cooling-off period, get to the root of the problem and solve the problem. Secondly, communication and exchange are very important. In a relationship, if two people are not able to communicate and communicate openly, then the problem is difficult to solve.
If two people are able to sit back together, listen carefully to each other's thoughts and feelings, get to the crux of the problem, and try to fix it, then it is possible for them to get back together. Third, the feelings for each other have not been completely worn out. If the feelings between two people have not completely disappeared, then it is possible that they will be back together.
In this case, if two people are willing to try again, then they may find that their feelings for each other are still very strong. In the end, both are willing to put in the effort and time for the relationship. Problems in a relationship cannot be solved overnight, and it takes the joint efforts and time of two people to fix them.
If both people are willing to reinvest energy and time into the relationship, then it is possible for them to get back together. In short, it is possible to reunite with each other, but not everyone has this opportunity. Everyone's situation is different and needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
If there is a deep emotional foundation between two people, and they are both willing to put in the effort and time for the relationship, then it is possible for them to get back together.
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