They broke up, he had a new partner, and I knew they were very affectionate, how could I forget him

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Time will dilute everything, and the reason for the reluctance at this time is the feelings that you have paid before, and when you are not giving, nor are you chasing the traces before, then it is a matter of time before you forget him.

    Find some goals for yourself first, whether it is work, family or friends, as long as you can not pay attention to him, what you can do, as long as you divert your attention, you will soon not want to know whether he is happy or unhappy. The reality is that you accept happy things, but at the same time you have to suffer the pain that comes with it, and you will understand what it means to grow.

    I believe that you now know more about what you should do and what you shouldn't do than you should before, and if you miss it once, if you make a mistake, then you are equivalent to getting nothing in this relationship. Think about what is important to you right now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't think about him, live your own life, know that you don't live for him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find a lover on your own and live a loving life. As for whether you can forget him, you don't have to force yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's a matter of time, to get busy, to have no time to think about it, time to dilute everything.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It has been said that the best way to end a relationship is to start another relationship, you can find someone to fall in love with... You can also have a good trip. From the ground up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm looking for someone better than him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After falling out of love, we always like to ask, "How can I forget him?" I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't.

    If you can't forget him, don't forget him. Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.

    Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant. Excuse me, what do you have in mind? You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

    The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget. It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed. Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

    I've forgotten about him. However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself. One day, you'll forget about him.

    True forgetting doesn't take effort. One day, you take a shower from the bathroom, twist the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remember, you once loved someone, ah, it turns out that you loved this person, it seems to be a very distant thing, you already have a little feeling of whether there is any, this is forgetting. One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember it, this is forgetting.

    If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of us losing years? One day, you will be willing to give up The woman said, "I would love to leave him, but I would be reluctant every time."

    Two people have been together for a long time, and it is not possible to break up at one time. obviously made up his mind to break up with him secretly, but after separation, he was reluctant, and in less than a week, the two of them got back together. After getting back together for a while, I still couldn't stand him, and this time, I really made up my mind to break up.

    After separation, I was reluctant. A month later, the two walked together again. The woman was pessimistic and said:

    Is it like this for the rest of your life? Believe me, one day, you'll give up. I can't bear him because I can't go over.

    There used to be very happy days with him, although now it is not as good as before, but he used to be so good. How.

    Willing to give him up? After leaving, I went back because I was reluctant to go before. After each parry, I forgave him with the happy days I had before.

    In the memory, he is good, so forget it. Can't stand him, this time it's really going to leave him. However, because he was reluctant to go before, he was giving him another chance.

    Every time I have any grievances against him, I forgive him with the happiest days I used to have. In his memory, he was here for 100 points. However, happy memories also run out one day.

    One day, you have to admit that those good days are gone forever and can no longer be used to forgive him. At this time, you will be willing.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You said that he retreated when he mentioned practical problems, then didn't you also mention that you must have a house to get married, and you think that he should not retreat if he loves you, so what about yourself, can you do it because you love him, don't want a house and no money, and get married directly.

    When feelings and reality coexist, and there are contradictions, usually feelings become pale and powerless, everyone will more or less consider reality, you need to have a house to get married, this is also considering reality, since you are thinking about reality, then what reason to ask the other party to give up avoiding this reality, he is also considering the reality may be buying a house with pressure and difficulty before he is reluctant to mention.

    So two people need to understand each other when they get along, and they can't just consider the side that is good for themselves My husband loves me very much, but in order to buy a house, he also said that he wanted to separate, and I also love my husband, but I will not give up the decision to buy a house because of love, everyone will consider the favorable side of reality for themselves, so everyone should be with each other, and no one should feel that the other party should be.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Men are under too much pressure, and I'm facing this problem right now, so give him a little time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hey, another house love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The feeling of love The feeling of love, always feel very sweet at the beginning, always feel that there is one more person to accompany you, one more person to help you share, you are finally not alone, at least one person thinks of you, loves you, no matter what you do, as long as you can be together, it is good... Some people say that love is like picking up stones, always trying to find the right one for you, but how do you know when you can pick it up? If he suits you, will you fit him?

    In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish the stones you already have, and start grinding? Many people think that it is because their feelings are weak, so they will become slow and hanging. Wrong!

    Love should not only know how to be tolerant but also timely, many things may just lie in the change of mood! When someone falls in love with you and you think they're good. That doesn't mean you're going to choose him.

    But you can't do anything about him, because you don't know it. That's right, sometimes I always think that I will find someone I love very much. But later, when I look back, I realize how naïve I was, and if I never started, how would I know if I would love that person very much?

    In fact, the feeling of loving and loving is something that you will only discover after you have experienced many things together.

    I hope you can face your own future, believe in yourself, and only find your own happiness is the most important thing. Life will become happier because of loving and being loved, and life will become more colorful because of loving and being loved, I hope your life is wonderful! You can get out of that dark road now, the road ahead is bright, believe in yourself, I'll cheer you on!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The more you want to forget, the more you will remember, and the hitchhiker and remember more firmly, it is better to open your heart and not think about him, but will slowly forget it. Don't deliberately forget someone, just let it be!

    I hope your mood can slowly get better, remember that life is short, we should cherish what we have now, not regret what we have lost, and it is the right choice to be happy and regret every day.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Forget? You? Impossible, don't find any way and don't deceive yourself, asking this question itself shows that you value love and righteousness, you can't be like some people who have no soul of chic, so you can't forget it at all, not only can't forget, her life state may also affect your mood during the long fiber period, all of this comes from your past dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, your love and righteousness determine your loveliness, There should be someone who understands you stupidly to help you heal the wounds and dilute all the unpleasantness, let's wait together, okay?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's her who dumps you!

    It's impossible to forget!

    Let's open it!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Men are affectionate, and women are devoted and unlovely. I don't need to explain what that means.

    He is not good for you, indicating that you have high expectations for him, so there is an expectation of emotional investment, and there is a lot of loss and even unwilling to be in the mood if you don't get the benefits you deserve, then this complex relationship will definitely make you think of him often, if you don't have a good control over your feelings, then when others mention your boyfriend or you have a new boyfriend in the future, you can't help but make a comparison, so it's easier to think of your ex, but it's not abnormal, you can't forget the normal

    There may be another relationship, sex, this is not much, the first time or there is an unforgettable sexual experience, it is even harder to forget him.

    Finally, it's normal to not be able to forget someone, but it's stupid to do something you shouldn't do for someone you can't forget.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The past is unforgettable, but it's gone. Let's look to the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's because you like the bad guy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If it's not good for you, you can't forget, are you stupid. Find your own happy home again, college is your adolescent love period. It's a kind of memory, maybe the new Prince Charming hasn't appeared yet, so you can think of the past from time to time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because you haven't found a better place for him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First love is always unforgettable, find a better one.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because you haven't met a new boyfriend, people's feelings, no why, a person has appeared in your most beautiful years, you can't say forget it, just don't think about it deliberately, it's okay to reminisce occasionally!! Not everything needs to be .........

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Some people will always be engraved in their memories, even if they forget his voice, forget his smile, forget his face, but the feeling when they think of him will never change.

    A person always has to walk a strange road, see an unfamiliar scenery, listen to a strange song, and then in a casual moment, you will find that the things that you originally tried so hard to forget are really forgotten like this.

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

    If you want to forget someone, maybe he hurt you, maybe there are other reasons, you have to try to find out if you are sad, or other aspects and the reason why you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your mind open, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it once in a while, this is also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him so much, you have to spend your whole life forgetting, if you don't want to forget, please hide your love deep in your heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's all a matter of time.,I believe you know it yourself.,Over time,Memories or something will fade away.,Really.。。 No matter how unforgettable it is, people's seven or eight years of relationship can still be with others now, time and new love, if you haven't forgotten it after a while, it's not long enough, and the new love is not good enough...

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you really care about her, her happiness is the most important thing to you. If she is happy now, bless her from afar. If she's not happy right now, chase her back.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't have to deliberately forget, in the process of not forgetting, when another person walks into your heart, you will naturally forget.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then you can talk to her and tell her what you think, since you care, why don't you try? Maybe there's an unexpected bonus?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Breakup, I believe many people have experienced it, some are helpless, some are heartbreaking, and some are relieved. If you want to mature yourself, you have to be brave enough to face it, you have to look forward and move forward, your ex-girlfriend is probably out of this shadow, what about you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People are going to become, so don't think about it ... Maybe it's because you see that she doesn't care about your own inner hints, but in fact, you may not love her that much.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Oh. Regret not splitting your legs in the first place? Pity.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What did you do earlier, now all you should do is find the next person you can love.

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